Xie Xuyang couldn¡¯t help but laugh after hearing Xie Xuran¡¯s pause: ¡°Mom asked you to be a lobbyist, right?¡±
Xie Xuran said directly: "No, it's purely a sister's concern for her brother."
Xie Xuyang smiled: "Thank you for your concern, but just take care of yourself."
Xie Xuran was unhappy: "Brother, if you are so ungrateful, I will just mind your own business like a dog and a mouse. Hmph."
Seeing that Xie Xuran was angry, Xie Xuran said quickly: "It's not that I don't appreciate it, but I really don't have time now. And even if you are in love, you know very well that most of our professions have no time to take care of our families. "
Xie Xuran naturally knows that military marriage is not easy. Although she is not married, she has grown up in such a family environment since she was a child. She will never see her father Xie Tiejun for more than two months throughout the year. Sometimes Sun Beibei is busy filming, The brother and sister also couldn't see her for half a month.
A person's growth environment will naturally affect his/her world view and marriage outlook. Although his/her parents are very loving, it has to be said that compared to children who grow up in a normal and harmonious family, they will feel less secure in this situation. .
"If Xie Xuran dissects his emotional experience, there are indeed factors in this regard.
Especially after the intimate relationship progressed, Xie Xuran became more and more clingy. From this, it can be seen that she actually lacks a sense of security.
So when Xie Xuyang said this, she had a rough idea of ??Xie Xuyang's true feelings in his heart.
"Brother, what you said is indeed true. Our profession means too little company and too many separations for the family. But even so, there is still a lot of beautiful love. Take our parents as an example, after so many years They still love each other very much, and their relationship is more harmonious than that of ordinary couples. We grew up in a loving family, and we should be very yearning for beautiful love in our hearts. It¡¯s just that our parents were less with us when we were young, and our hearts are actually better than ordinary people. Children lack a sense of security. This sense of security is very subtle and cannot be described. Even though we are very independent in our personal thoughts and personalities, when it comes to emotions, we will feel inexplicable insecurity. Feeling. You have it, and so do I." Xie Xuran said a long series of words.
Xie Xuyang on the other end of the phone was silent for a few seconds after listening, and then said: "You did a good job in the psychology course."
The originally rather sensational atmosphere was instantly shattered by Xie Xuyang. Xie Xuran was dissatisfied and said: "I'm talking to you seriously, so don't change the subject."
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Xie Xuran retorted: "Who loves fantasy? I'm just more real than you. I can face my own heart, dissect myself, and understand myself on a deeper level."
Xie Xuyang smiled again: "It's a good thing to be able to face yourself."
After hearing this, Xie Xuran snorted: "Then what are you running from?"
Xie Xuyang defended: "I didn't escape, I really didn't have time."
Xie Xuran refused to give up: "If you say you don't have time, you are escaping."
Xie Xuyang smiled helplessly: "I don't completely deny what you said. Children like us who lack the company of their fathers in their youth do have some insecurities, but your brother and I are a man, not so pretentious, not So sensitive."
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