"But didn't you originally say that when you turn thirty and win three Best Actress trophies, we can find a time to go home and meet your parents?"
Shang Feier is very sensible: "You should know more about your family's situation than I do. Your parents don't seem to like my career very much. If you really want to develop, you should deal with your family's affairs yourself first. . If you don¡¯t handle it well and want to get a certificate first and then hold a new wedding, or if you want to get married with your son, I won¡¯t agree to it.¡±
"But we are almost in grade."
Just like Bo Yan, this guy got married a few years ago, although the wedding has not yet been held. At his age, unless he wanted to have fun, he would have been married long ago. But whether to continue playing after marriage or return to the family depends on the daughter-in-law's ability.
Shang Feier smiled: "I'm not in a hurry, are you? Well, you go back first and arrange your family's affairs. If your parents and family don't object, we can meet for a meal and get to know each other. But Let¡¯s talk about it first, even if there is further development, I won¡¯t be able to withdraw from the circle. Don¡¯t think that after getting married, I will return to the family to raise my husband and raise children. I will also go out to work. If they can accept it, I don¡¯t mind continuing. "
There are too many examples to prove that once you completely quit the workplace and become a full-time housewife, without financial strength to protect you, your future will completely depend on your husband's love and conscience. Even if you meet a good husband and have reasonable parents-in-law and relatives, if you ask them for money, it will not feel as secure as having the money you earned yourself. At least, that's how Shang Feier feels.
These words really made Han Yifan silent for a moment. His mother, sister-in-law, mother is a full-time wife, or in other words, a rich wife, and there is no need for her to do any work. My sister-in-law was originally a lawyer before she came in, but now she works in the company's legal department. Although the work is the same, the labor intensity is greatly reduced, and I can still pick up the children when the kindergarten is over at three or four o'clock.
When it was first announced that Han Yifan and Shang Feier were in love, his parents and brothers didn't really like them. Anyway, if you want to fall in love, you can talk casually. If you bring it home, then they definitely hope that the wife at home can take care of the family. It is difficult for someone like Shang Feier to have so many activities and work 365 days a year, probably 360 days.
It is really difficult for his parents to change their minds, but he can no longer live with them in the future. After separation, there will be fewer conflicts. Moreover, it is probably difficult for the elderly to accept their daughter-in-law filming kissing and boating scenes with other artists. He didn't care, it was part of the job, and finding a substitute seemed unprofessional. But getting parents to accept it is more difficult.
After going around in a circle, I found that we could only maintain the status quo, and there was no chance to go further. It's also his fault. He's now thirty years old and has accomplished nothing. He has no leverage to reassure his parents. The confidence in negotiating is not particularly strong.
"But I'm still very happy," Shang Feier's tone softened slightly, "When I first saw you, I thought you were a playboy. I didn't expect"
I didn¡¯t expect him to be quite serious. When she originally fell in love with him, she didn't expect it to last for so long. She thought it was just a short-term relationship of a few months. Now he has plans to get married and have children. (Remember the website address: www.hlnovel.com