Xia Siyu said half amused and half speechless: "Sleeping with you is really informative." Even the couple went to watch the expansion documentary about getting along with each other.
It's not that Bo Yan couldn't hear the sarcasm in her tone, he didn't deny it, he just said: "Actually, after you said it last time, I also reflected on myself. I think I respect women very much, but, in some things, It's really subtle. For example, when we get along normally, even if you make a little fuss, I won't think anything of it. I will still think that I married my wife, and I have to pamper her even if I kneel down. But, why do women have to be pampered by men? ? Oh, I¡¯m not saying you can¡¯t pet. I mean, the word ¡®pet¡¯ sounds like a very subordinate status, just like how you treat your pet dog or cat.¡±
In many movies and romance novels, when it comes to male protagonists, they are "doting on their wives". But in fact, the so-called "doting on a wife" means doting on the wife no matter what she does, spending money on her, doing things for her, protecting her from wind and rain, and creating a good life for her, as if this is love.
But think about it carefully, don¡¯t you do the same to your dogs and cats? Pet it, spend money on it, do things for it, and protect it from wind and rain. You are reluctant to eat steak, but you are willing to buy tens of pounds of cat food for your dog and cat. I am reluctant to buy expensive clothes, but I buy cute clothes and toys for my dogs and cats, most of which are not cheap. When someone scolds your dog or cat, you feel aggrieved by it, fearing that it will be hurt a little bit.
But will you fall in love with your dog or cat? It refers to the kind of love that is love. Not at all?
Because you know that you are the master, even if you laugh at yourself as a "shit shovel officer", you are still the master.
You and your dog and cat will never be equal. There are many so-called "doting wives" in today's society, but men and women have never been equal. It's just a self-centered fantasy in the name of "love".
¡°Once you try to break this false warmth, such as letting your children take their mother¡¯s surname, believe it or not, most men simply cannot accept it.
The so-called equality must at least mean that both parties are equally matched, not only economically but also psychologically.
Xia Siyu and Boyan are in this situation at least for now. Even if they are separated, they can live well in the future. However, they are together not because of any marriage, but because they like each other, because they like the feeling of being together.
Although Xia Siyu didn¡¯t fully understand the emotion she just expressed, she knew the general meaning.
She also smiled and said: "Then if you say that, I will pamper you more in the future."
"That's not necessary." He was not complaining, nor was he explaining anything in the opposite direction. He just felt that since they were husband and wife, and since they had already had such thoughts, they should speak out openly and honestly.
She controls heaven and earth, and he is willing to take care of her. It's not because of "favor", just because he really likes her. Husband and wife need to complement each other. He has a calm personality. If he finds a wife who is like him, he will probably not talk about his worries for ten years, and will only continue to misunderstand her.
But Xia Siyu is different. She is outspoken and will never hold anything back in her heart. She just says whatever she thinks. If you find someone like her, it won't be a powder keg. The two of them will explode at the drop of a hat. (Remember the website address: www.hlnovel.com