Xiaobao¡¯s future life during this period is so determined.
Yu Yougen is a filial person.
Since I came home for a trip, I also bought another hundred pounds of cabbage, radish, potatoes, corn grits, millet, etc., as well as ten infusion bottles of tomato sauce given by Yu¡¯s mother. I left enough for myself when I arrived in Binh Duong City, and the rest Guo Xiuxiu took everything back to Shangdu.
Guo Xiuxiu refused, but it was a pity that it was useless.
Yu Yougen was afraid of burdening his mother during this special period, so he personally sent Cai and Guo Xiuxiu back to Shangdu.
And we did meet the nanny hired by Sun Yuzhou.
It is said that it is a nanny, but it is actually different from a live-in nanny.
This nanny is from Shangdu. In addition to helping during the day, she has to go back at night. She even has breakfast at home before coming over.
It¡¯s not that they don¡¯t want to live in the Sun family¡¯s big bungalow, but they have a grandson at home who is only three or four years old. They can¡¯t let go of their grandson, and the child is still young and can¡¯t live without others.
"If it weren't for Guo Xiuxiu's special situation, or if her family wasn't really poor, to be honest, no one in their forties or fifties would be willing to be humble enough to serve others.
¡°After all, nannies and nannies, to put it nicely, aren¡¯t they still just serving people like in the old society?
??Besides, how can older people be as agile as young people?
If conditions permit, we are definitely more willing to hire young people.
So the Sun family is not particular, as long as they are quick and have good character, age does not matter. Even Sun Yuzhou doesn't know if it is because of his family when he was young, he is quite disgusted with these young women with breast milk.
In short, Sun Yuzhou himself prefers to hire older people. In his words, they are mature, sensible and well-measured, will not make their own decisions and do not need to be taught, and they can also look at the eyes.
Of course it doesn¡¯t matter to Guo Xiuxiu.
She was able to clean up such a big house when she was not pregnant, but she started to worry about it after becoming pregnant.
Such a big house looks nice and is quite comfortable to live in, but it is too troublesome to clean up.
Even if you don¡¯t have to clean it every day, you can clean it every three to five days, which means you have to be busy for three to five days each time.
She didn¡¯t think it was difficult to clean up the Zhao family¡¯s house before, but now she finds it troublesome to clean up her own house.
That¡¯s of course. When we were in the Zhao family, there was no need to clean up the house where someone lived in the Zhao family. It was all done by whoever lived there.
Guo Xiuxiu and Yu¡¯s mother feel a little sorry for their children, but Yu Jiaojiao and Zhao Pengcheng agree to do their own things.
They can strive for better living conditions for their children and provide them with a better living environment, but they are never willing to use a good life to habituate their children into useless people who need help with feeding and dressing.
Even Wang Han, who was quite young before, is no exception.
According to the rules of the Zhao family, adults can guide children on what to do, but they are not allowed to lend a hand to help. Children must do it by themselves.
Over time, Guo Xiuxiu got used to it and didn't think it was any trouble to clean the first floor, stairs and second floor corridor.
Living with Sun Yuzhou, the unoccupied rooms on the second floor are all locked, but the corridors need to be cleaned, right?
"I live on the first floor. The area on the first floor is not small, and I have to clean it. I didn't feel any difference before. But suddenly I became pregnant and gained weight, and it became troublesome."
Yu Yougen had already been upset when Guo Xiuxiu mentioned the nanny, but he finally let go after seeing the nanny in person.
? It¡¯s better that Sun Yuzhou didn¡¯t take the opportunity to play any tricks.
"Otherwise, he will take his mother away."
As for what¡¯s in his mother¡¯s belly, the worst he can do is wait for his mother to give birth and raise him as his own child. Anyway, he doesn¡¯t lack the money to raise a child.
Guo Xiuxiu didn't know Yu Yougen's little thoughts. When they turned around, the old couple complained that Yu Yougen had sent too many things. With so many vegetables, the potatoes and sweet potatoes were about to sprout. Even if they had a nanny, they couldn't finish them all.
"Just looking at the way she smiled, it was clear that she was showing off instead of complaining.
Sun Yuzhou suddenly thought of those filial sons in his family.
"We are both sons, and we are both mothers raising our children. How come the children they teach are so different? Who has gone to college and can teach such things?"
It¡¯s not that he misses his son, but he feels that if he hadn¡¯t missed the most important ten years in his child¡¯s life, his child wouldn¡¯t have grown up.??.
Thinking about it later, it seems that the little ones in my family learned to look down on others when they were young. This must have been taught wrongly since they were young.
¡°And when he and his ex-wife divorced, their children were already sensible. Unless they were ruthless, it would be difficult to make things right.
The question is, he asked himself, if he had not divorced his ex-wife, would he have realized the problem with his child?
He will not.
Like all arrogant men, he feels that everything in the house belongs to his wife, and it is the wife's business to honor her parents-in-law and educate their children.
If parents are unhappy, it means that the wife is not considerate and filial; if the child is too naughty and disobedient, it means that the mother has not educated her well.
But he forgot that as his parents' biological son, he was closer to his parents than his wife. As for his wife, she only joined the family halfway. When it comes to filial piety, it should obviously be him who was raised by his parents since childhood. About my son.
The same goes for children.
??Normally, I don¡¯t care about the children. I touch my head when I¡¯m happy, and pretend I didn¡¯t see it when I¡¯m unhappy. I blame my wife for not educating the children well, but my wife is also very busy and tired.
No matter how well-rounded a person is, he or she cannot be comprehensive.
It is really unreasonable for him to blame everything on his wife. It is obvious that he, a son and a father, has not shouldered his own responsibility.
During the years when he was decentralized, he thought about these issues over and over again, sometimes to the point of getting into trouble before finally admitting his failure.
Of course, the ex-wife whose name he didn¡¯t even bother to mention would never reach the level he said.
He is talking about ordinary people.
Even though most of the servants were laid off after liberation, their family still had helpers. Life was not so difficult that they needed to take care of everything by themselves, and naturally they were not as tired as the daughter-in-law of an ordinary family.
¡°That so-and-so just doesn¡¯t want to live an ordinary life.
Her children were also affected by her ambition and comparison.
He blames himself for not fulfilling his responsibilities as a father, which definitely does not mean that he will take all the blame on himself.
To be honest, when it comes to the formation of a child's personality, the absence of a father is easy to cause problems, but the child naturally prefers the mother, and the mother's speech, behavior and personality have a greater impact on the child.
Therefore, Sun Yuzhou was 200% focused on the child in Guo Xiuxiu's belly. For this reason, he also wrote many articles and plans about the child's education at his desk.
¡°Unbeknownst to Guo Xiuxiu, Sun Yuzhou had already made at least twenty years of life planning for the child who was about to be born.
Sun Yuzhou¡¯s reaction can be said to have gone from one extreme to another.
Of course, I¡¯m not so perverted as to want to control my child¡¯s life.
He is just too afraid to raise the child crookedly again. Unless there are some facts that can completely break the perception he has built for himself during this period, the child will be really miserable in the future.
A moment of silence for the unborn baby. (Remember the website address: www.hlnovel.com