What can Yu Jiaojiao do? There was nothing Yu Jiaojiao could do in this situation.
She didn¡¯t expect that the situation in Zhou Lingli¡¯s family turned out to be so complicated. No wonder Zhou Lingli said that her mother didn¡¯t even talk about her sister. She was not born in her belly. How could she say that?
The other party should be very good, otherwise Zhou Lingli¡¯s mother would not have the intention of overpowering the other party in the marriage.
¡°Besides, if the person involved can¡¯t figure it out himself, what¡¯s the use of others talking about it?
Yu Jiaojiao once had a classmate who was a girl. The first marriage partner had physical problems. The two never had children. They divorced many times and she came to Yu Jiaojiao to cry and complain.
Yu Jiaojiao naturally supports her friend. Besides, a blind date marriage has nothing to do with love and does not matter emotional investment. She has repeatedly advised her to divorce quickly and find her next happiness. In the end, I don¡¯t know what sweet words the other party said. , turned around and the couple started living a sweet life again. Instead, they complained about Yu Jiaojiao, saying that they would rather destroy ten temples than break up a marriage. Why did Yu Jiaojiao open her mouth to persuade her to divorce? Is it because she can't see her? Living well.
Yu Jiaojiao felt like she was out of breath and almost pissed herself to death. She vowed to never care about her mess again and let him fend for himself.
¡°But this person, you can swear not to care about it, or you can bear to ignore it, but the other person comes to her to cry when they have a conflict, and wants a divorce.
Yu Jiaojiao did not persuade her to leave this time, but the other party complained that she was still not a friend and wanted to break off the relationship.
Yu Jiaojiao persuaded her to leave, and they reconciled again.
After going back and forth like this for several times, Yu Jiaojiao didn't know whether the other party was sad or what he was thinking. Yu Jiaojiao, an outsider, was exhausted from the torment.
The friendship between the two that started in kindergarten also came to an end. Yu Jiaojiao took the initiative to delete and block her as a friend, no longer in contact, and no longer suffered.
When Yu Jiaojiao was busy with her career and almost forgot about having such a friend, the other party suddenly found her contact information and called her.
After all, they have been friends for many years, so they made an appointment to meet at the coffee shop.
When they met again, the other party was dressed fashionably and looked haggard. The first thing she said was, 'I'm divorced.' Yu Jiaojiao had forgotten about her weird marriage. When she mentioned it like that, she reminded her of the time she was married. Persuading separation or persuading peace'dominated fear.
The other party may have really looked away at this time. In the conversation, he could not hide his doubts about how he knew there was a problem in the marriage at that time but insisted on insisting on it because he did not want a divorce. He mentioned many times that he regretted not listening to Yu Jiaojiao's words.
But Yu Jiaojiao was frightened and did not dare to say anything.
Later, the two of them contacted each other from time to time, but there were very few dinner dates. What I once thought would be a lasting friendship suddenly became like ordinary friends.
This incident taught Yu Jiaojiao one thing. Just treat other people's matters as a trash can and listen to them. Even if the other party asks you, don't express your opinion immediately.
Because sometimes the other party doesn¡¯t need your opinion at all. She actually has her own answer. In fact, she just wants to find someone to talk to about her troubles.
There are also those who stubbornly ask other people¡¯s opinions even though they have already made a choice. In this case, if you don¡¯t say no, you can ask the other person what you want me to say, and then lay out both interests, and finally add Let me just say that my own opinion is mainly your own choice.
Of course, if you don¡¯t care about this friendship at all, and you don¡¯t care whether you want to be friends with the other person, you can just add that the other person deserved the scolding, and then part ways.
"Anyway, Yu Jiaojiao has her own personal experience. Others' affairs are ultimately their own affairs. It's useless no matter how anxious you are as an outsider.
It¡¯s useless. Yu Jiaojiao finally felt a little soft-hearted and asked: ¡°Where is your dad? Does your dad also agree that you will marry after graduation?¡±
Zhou Lingli was stunned for a moment: "How can I have the nerve to ask my dad about this kind of thing?"
Yu Jiaojiao: "You are his daughter, why are you embarrassed? Or is it that your father is very strict and cruel, so you don't dare to ask?"
Zhou Lingli: "No, my dad is actually quite easy-going and treats us very well. But, how can I ask my dad about this kind of relationship between men and women? What can he do as a man? Should I let my dad do it? Beat the other person to keep them away?"
"Pfft¡ª¡ª"
Yu Jiaojiao couldn't help but laugh, and tilted her head to look at Zhou Lingli: "I thought you were worried, but it turns out you are still in the mood to joke."
Zhou Lingli couldn¡¯t laugh or cry: ¡°I'm not joking. I'm not joking. I mean, even if I tell my dad about this kind of thing, he won't care about it, right? He usually has so many things to do and is too busy to keep busy. My mother always asks us not to disturb her. How can I"
Yu Jiaojiao interrupted her: "Getting married is not a trivial matter. It is a lifelong event that affects whether you will be happy in the future. What about your lifelong event? How can it be considered a trivial matter? Besides, your sister is not married yet, so your father should You¡¯re quite open-minded, you can ask your dad, your mom will always listen to what your dad says, right?¡±
Zhou Lingli hesitated for a moment: "My mother does listen to my father, and she listens to my father the most, but my sister is an exception. My sister is a bit special"
The matter of sister Zhou¡¯s family was actually something that many young men and women encountered in that special era.
As the young people from two families with similar backgrounds grew older, they fell in love with each other and got engaged. As a result, the Zhou family later encountered changes. Although Zhou's father narrowly escaped devolution, his position was almost gone. , the children in the family, except those who are married, those who are not married can only go to the countryside.
The Zhou family¡¯s sister happened to be of age at that time. The Zhou family didn¡¯t want their eldest daughter to go to the countryside, so they discussed with the groom¡¯s family to get the two children married as soon as possible.
Anyway, there is no rush to get a certificate or anything like that. You can wait until you reach the age and then do it. It¡¯s not too late to have a wedding first and get married.
As a result, the man tried to put the blame in every possible way, and finally simply said that the woman was immoral and unworthy of his son, so the marriage was cancelled.
A parent can¡¯t bear this. If Zhou¡¯s father hadn¡¯t been under investigation at the time, he would definitely bring someone to the door and beat him up.
In this situation, not to mention that Sister Zhou is a high-spirited person, even Zhou's father does not want his daughter to marry such a family. If you marry into a family with such a bad character, you will suffer consequences sooner or later, so it is better to let the child get married. Township.
Sister Zhou¡¯s life was not very good after she went to the countryside. From the time she could remember, her family¡¯s life was not bad. She could be considered a spoiled child. How could she endure the hardship of eating chaffy vegetables and going to the fields all day long?
But no matter how hard you get used to it, you will slowly get used to it as time goes by.
It¡¯s just that this incident was a big blow to Sister Zhou. The originally proud and proud little girl suddenly fell silent. Later, she was admitted to college again, but she was no longer as high-spirited as she was when she was young.
Zhou Lingli curled her lips: "My dad is not enlightened. In fact, my dad is afraid that if my sister encounters someone unkind and gets hurt again, then she might as well live alone like this. In fact, my dad is also anxious. He even asked me in private Is there any suitable young unmarried male teacher in my school who I can introduce to my sister? I did mention the class teacher of our class, but my sister was unwilling. In fact, I know that my sister has not completely forgotten that man. "(Remember the website address of this website: www.hlnovel.com