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So is she happy now?
Yu Jiaojiao made a horizontal and vertical comparison and found that no matter in the eyes of relatives and friends, neighbors, or strangers who were beyond her reach, she was definitely living a happy life.
The couple has both jobs and both went to college. Even if there are five children in the family, their life is much richer than that of many people.
In the eyes of relatives who know the details, such as Yu¡¯s parents, Yu¡¯s mother, Ji Yumei, Changqing, Yu Da, Yu San, and even Miao Huilan, if she can give birth to her own child again, this little life will be real and perfect.
But as for herself, does she really think this kind of life is good?
Yu Jiaojiao asked herself, and found that this question was difficult to answer.
It's definitely not enough to be happy, but it's not as happy as Ji Yumei's. At least her life is full of vigor, and she is looking forward to the arrival of a new day every day - the most fashionable little girl can't help it. When she gets older, she will definitely be the most fashionable grandma - when the time comes, she will dance, sing, cosplay and make short videos every day, so that when she takes her grandson out, people can say they are siblings.
¡ª¡ªYes, she no longer dares to ask for too much, only such a small wish is left.
Miao Huilan waited for a while after asking. Before she heard Yu Jiaojiao's voice, she was about to use her elbow to hit her and ask again. However, when she turned her head, she saw Yu Jiaojiao staring in one direction blankly. .
Miao Huilan followed her gaze and looked over. Apart from the hurried pedestrians, there were only trees: "Master, what's wrong with you? What did you see?"
Yu Jiaojiao came back to her senses: "It's nothing, I was just thinking about your problem."
Miao Huilan was stunned for a moment and said, "What's the problem?"
She was so frightened by Yu Jiaojiao that she thought she had seen something, and she forgot about her question.
Yu Jiaojiao said: "It's the question of marriage. How should I put this question? I personally think that it is only related to a person's own choice. If you want to get married, then find someone who you think is good and who also thinks you are good. Men get married. If you think you are happier alone than having a family, then stick to your own lifestyle. But there is a prerequisite."
Miao Huilan instantly remembered what she said when she woke her up, and immediately cheered up: "What's the premise?"
"The premise is that you have enough power, wealth or status, whichever one can allow you to maintain the lifestyle of your choice without being affected by others."
Miao Huilan is very smart, and this question is clear: "You mean, have the right to speak?"
Yu Jiaojiao said softly: "Yes, only with enough voice can you have enough freedom to choose the lifestyle you want."
"You see, most people around the world get married. Do you think they all get married because of love? No, most people get married because they don't have the right to speak. They can't care about other people's opinions. They can't stand up for themselves. They have to choose. The cost of living is the same as everyone else's, because the same choice as everyone else is the simplest, most convenient and requires the least amount of effort."
"You are also an educated young man. You should have read a lot of history and know a lot of historical celebrities. You should have discovered that there have always been many people in history who often contradicted society and ethics. But how many of them had a good ending? Almost none !¡±
"There is another prerequisite for having the right to speak. The knowledge, cognition and moral level of the people around you have generally improved - you promote freedom and democracy with a group of fools, who do you think is the abnormal person?"
Although Yu Jiaojiao did not say the word compromise in one sentence, she made it clear between the lines that it is not easy to live an ideal life. You must either stand high enough or have a strong enough psychological quality. Otherwise, you will not be able to withstand the outside world. It's better to learn to compromise because of your gossip, at least this will make your life easier.
Although relaxation does not mean happiness, in the end, who cares? Probably no one cares about whether you are doing well or not except yourself.
Although Miao Huilan had long known that Yu Jiaojiao always spoke shocking words, she was still shocked by her words.
Her words now, no, from ancient times to the present, can be said to be the height of rebellion.
But this is not over yet.
After Yu Jiaojiao said this, she suddenly smiled: "Actually, whether you get married or not is not the most important thing. The most important thing is that whether you are married or not, you can choose the lifestyle that is most comfortable for you and make the impossible possible. , turn discomfort into satisfaction, turn discomfort into comfort, this is the correct way to open happiness - after all, not everyone in the world is your father, and it is impossible for everyone to revolve around you.?, eighty-nine times out of ten things that happen in life are unsatisfactory. If you want to live a smooth life and do whatever you want, then you must have saved the entire universe in your previous life in exchange for the comfort in this life, right? Just ask yourself if you have the ability to save the entire universe. "
Miao Huilan replied subconsciously: "No."
After answering, he laughed: "Oh, Master, what you said is like you didn't say it."
Yu Jiaojiao spread her hands: "Because that's how it is. Life is never smooth sailing. You see other people are happy. How do you know that they don't have mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problems, children's education problems, brothers, sisters and relatives getting along with each other? It's just that they keep their own troubles at home. You You just can't see it. So, little girl, don't think too much, just live your life how you want to. If you think marriage is too scary now and don't want to get married, maybe in seven, eight, ten or so years you will think it's better to get married? Time? Keep moving forward, and people's thoughts cannot stay the same. Our ancestors said that time has changed and it is time to change, so who can live with one thought for the rest of their lives?"
Miao Huilan pouted: "What little girl? I'm obviously the same age as you."
Yu Jiaojiao smiled: "But I'm married and have five children, don't you?"
Miao Huilan immediately wanted to say, "None of the five children are yours," but as she spoke, her heart suddenly moved.
When the teacher said these things to her, was it because this was her experience that she had such personal feelings?
Miao Huilan herself couldn't imagine how she would live as a little girl married to an old man with four children. She thought that with her character, if one day she was forced to marry someone who didn't The person she likes or even hates is probably either she was so angry that she committed suicide, or she dragged the person who harmed her to death together.
But what about Yu Jiaojiao? From such a difficult situation, he transformed himself into something that everyone envied.
Marriage, life, work, study, and even raising children have not fallen behind.
Yu Jiaojiao¡¯s behavior is what she should strive for.
Rather than feeling sorry for yourself when you see an example of failure and feeling let down by the whole world, you fearfully want to draw a clear line with everyone.
Enclosing land as a prison is the most undesirable, and will only lead to self-destruction in the end.
At this moment, Miao Huilan was enlightened, and her entire spiritual world had achieved a sublimation that she had never imagined. The worries she had before seemed to be nothing now.
If Yu Jiaojiao knew that she thought this way, she would definitely cry out that she was wronged.
She was just pretending to be cool and fooling around. The reason why she didn't get divorced was because she coveted Zhao Pengcheng's beauty and body, and she wasn't as tall as Miao Huilan thought. (Remember the website address: www.hlnovel.com