In the following days, as soon as Siyu goes to work early, she will buy me breakfast. Sometimes, she would buy me steamed buns; sometimes, she would buy me wontons; sometimes, she would buy me cakes. Anyway, every other day, the meal has different styles, which is really a happy thing. And we talk on the phone every night, talking about the past, the present, and the future; talking about relatives, friends, and family; talking about work, dreams, and development; Talk, talk about everything, and a phone call lasts an hour or two. Since I bought the mobile phone, the total amount of phone bills in the average three months has not been spent as much as in the past few days. But I think these are all worthwhile, because this will not only increase our mutual feelings, but also allow us to understand each other better. Sometimes it¡¯s like this, even though we can¡¯t meet each other, we are already content to hear each other¡¯s voice. Besides, there's nothing wrong with not being able to meet each other. Sometimes, when we meet, we don't know what to say. Instead of this, it would be better to let everyone miss each other more. Of course, what I'm saying is not that it is good not to meet each other, but that not being able to meet occasionally can increase each other's miss.
On the 20th, I made a decision. Although I was very reluctant to think about the rain, I still wanted to go home and have a look, because, in the supermarket, every holiday is a busy time, especially at the end of the year, there are so many festivals. After Christmas Eve comes Christmas, after Christmas comes New Year¡¯s Day, after New Year¡¯s Day comes New Year¡¯s Day, after Chinese New Year¡¯s Day comes New Year¡¯s Day, anyway, festivals come one after another, when the time comes, I¡¯m afraid the boss won¡¯t allow me to go back, So, when I'm not so busy, I want to go home and see the two close relatives.
The night before I left, I told Siyu, but I didn't plan to take her back, because I thought we hadn't been together for a long time after all, if it was so sudden, it would scare her, so I thought , Let's get along for a while.
When I got home, I would naturally mention Siyu to my parents. At that time, I thought like this, if my parents agree, then everything will be fine, if not, then I will persuade them until they agree, unless Siyu also gave up on me like Li Feng, otherwise , I will not say the words of breaking up. Because, this is different from Li Feng's time. Before, I didn't think about so many problems, and I didn't know how my family treated my emotional problems, so I used a tentative method to test the tone of my parents to see what they thought, but obviously Well, they do have some bottom line for my marriage, at least they want that person's life to be compatible with me, after all, they are superstitious. Although, my parents didn't expect me to find a Wangfuwangzi woman, but at least they want me to find someone who is not compatible with each other. But the current situation is completely different from that time. At that time, Li Feng and I were just ordinary friends, but now Si Yu and I have become a couple. How can we break up as soon as we say we can? So, I will do everything in my power to convince the family. Fortunately, as soon as I mentioned Siyu to my parents, they didn't object at all. Maybe, this is a kind of fate. After getting the support of my family, I boldly pursued Siyu.
? On the night when I got home, as usual, I invited my friends out and invited them to drink tea and wine. In fact, the most important thing was to celebrate that my family agreed that I and Siyu were together. Of course, I didn't mention Siyu to my friends, because every time (friends) mentioned women to them, there would always be some questions about leaving the cabinet. The most important thing is that I have grown up so much that I have never even touched a woman's hand, so I am ashamed to tell them! If I said it, I would be laughed at by others, so I simply didn't talk about those issues.
Yang Jian, he is my best friend. Every time we go back to Beishi, we always go back together. In the circle of friends, we have always been close buddies in their hearts, but when it comes to personalities, we are completely different. Once, Li Feng asked me such a question, she said: "You and Yang Jian have completely different personalities, how can you get along so well?" Actually, I can't explain this very clearly, I can only say that we men are not like women , stick to the small details, care about everything, and sometimes intrigue over some sesame mung bean things. Of course, I am not referring to all women, but only some of them. However, the friendship between men is not that simple. In many cases, the friends they know are pig friends. When it is beneficial, it is a buddy; when it is not beneficial, it is a stranger. Of course, they are not completely unfamiliar. When they meet each other, they will smoke and smoke, but they will not talk about affection like when they eat and drink together.
As for why I get together with these friends every time I come back? This brings us to the issue of human sophistication. As a human being, don't hold your feet temporarily, know how to look farther, and don't always think about the benefits of others. Sometimes, it is worthwhile to make some money for others. Let me ask, you are working in another place, and you haven¡¯t been in touch with your friends for a long time. If you need anything in the future, they will ask you for help.so readily promise you? I don't ask everyone to lend a helping hand. I am quite content with one and a half out of ten friends. As the saying goes, relying on friends when you go out, if you don¡¯t even have a friend, what are you talking about asking for help? What about good and bad? How do you gain a foothold in this society?
Of course, strong people also have to be distinguished, not everyone has to please. If you think he is a person with affection, righteousness and good character, then you should get in touch with him more and get in touch with him more; As for those who climb outside, don't reject them thousands of miles away. At most, you should have less contact with them and contact them less. But when you meet, you still have to treat him as a friend. In short, you can¡¯t treat him as dead. Otherwise, someone will say a bad word about you outside. As the saying goes, good things don't go out, and bad things spread thousands of miles. It's better to be cautious in life.
I remember that I met such a friend before, and told him these principles, but he didn't listen to it. He thought that those who are not good, no matter if they don't know each other, or if they do, they will cause a lot of trouble. Later, a sneaky relative came to his house for help, but instead of acknowledging him, he kicked him out of the house. Afterwards, he discussed a business with another friend. That friend was careless, so he happened to know his relative, so he went to ask him about his character. What he said was worthless, a good business would be ruined by him. Of course, telling this story is not asking you to get acquainted with some dubious people, but that when some dubious relatives and friends ask you, it doesn¡¯t matter if you don¡¯t help, at least don¡¯t treat them like plague gods , if others do not threaten your own interests and safety, treat him as an ordinary friend! (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com