Murong Xian was stunned for a while, she thought back to Su Zhi's nanny, she was indeed a yes person, a bit timid, always like to keep her head down.
When they were looking for a nanny before, they were afraid that the child would be bullied, so they found an obedient one. But as the child grew older, the nanny was probably afraid of being driven away like others, so she became more cautious and obedient.
Murong Xian frowned.
It's not that she doesn't love the child, it's just that there are too many things going up and down in this mansion, and she can't take care of it. The nanny took good care of her, so she kept it all the time. From this point of view, it is true that she can no longer Stayed.
If the child followed her every day and learned that petty air, that would be fine.
"Thank you for reminding me, I see."
Su Wan nodded, hugged the child better, and stopped talking about this topic.
Earlier, she and Li Linzao had discussed how to teach the child. They planned to wait for the child to be six months old and feed him some mush and porridge. send away.
When the child was more than one year old, he followed her more often. When the child was two or three years old, Li Linduo would take him with him. Although he was still young at this time, he had instinctively started to learn some things. What kind of person did he follow? , it is easier for him to learn from whom.
Although this is not entirely the case, it has a great impact on the formation of the child's personality. She hopes that the child can be like his father. Although she doesn't want to flatter her, Li Lin is indeed a very good person.
He's three years old, it's time to give him enlightenment, Mr. Xue should also come, and the master should also make arrangements.
Some people say that life is short, and there is only so much time to be carefree, and he shouldn't be made to bear so many things, but Su Wan knows that only by laying a good foundation in front can the future be smooth sailing.
Life may not be smooth, and many unpredictable things may happen. At that time, what he needs is the ability to deal with all these storms. Those who are capable ride the wind and waves, and those who are not are slammed on the beach.
At that time, no matter what happens, he will not be able to stop him. At that time, he will have everything given by his ancestors, and the rest of his life will be smooth.
Of course, it is also because he will have a heavy burden in the future, and he must not be neglected.
She had discussed with Li Lin a lot, so when she saw Su Zhi's nanny, she felt that something was wrong. A child followed by a submissive person, and he could easily learn this too.
Su Zhi, the eldest son of Su Jian and Murong Xian, if he learns this and can't get over it in the future, he will really cry without tears.
Not long after, the Wang family, the Li family, Su Luo, and the Yuan family came together. Su Wan looked at it and felt that something was missing, and then suddenly remembered that no one from the Li family had come.
At the beginning, Mrs. Li was a little confused about the affairs of the Li family. Later, her niece entered the Sui Palace as a concubine, and the Li family still wanted her dowry and family fortune.
Later, King Sui's rebellion failed, and he was demoted to a commoner and sent to guard the imperial mausoleum. The Li family's Wanguan family wealth had long since disappeared, and Li Yuyan also became a female family member dismissed by the palace and returned to the Li family.
The Li family is even poorer, so they are even more jealous of the dowry she took away. She came to ask for it many times, and the trouble was ugly. Su Xun asked her to convert the dowry money back to the Li family, but if the Li family wanted it This money, in the future, it will be regarded as not having this daughter.
The Li family finally asked for the money, and the couple pooled the money to the Li family. The Li family was completely disappointed with her natal family. Later, the Li family took the money and wanted to reconcile. She was terrified that the Li family would come again. Calculate her money, ignore it.
In her opinion, the things she has managed for many years are for her children. When Su Wan got married, she was very red-faced, which made people red-eyed. The family is far away.
Su Xun politely 'invited' him away.
After repeating it several times, he became impatient, so he put aside his harsh words. If they came to pester them again, they would not be able to stay any longer. The Li family was a little afraid of him, so they did not dare to come later, and the two families gradually drifted apart.
Even for Su Luo's Jiji ceremony, Su Xun even sent someone to warn the Li family not to come. Although it was a bit inappropriate to say that no one from the grandfather's family came on such a day, most people in the imperial city also Knowing the grievances between the two families, it is hard to say anything.
Besides, Su Xun is tired of the Li family and doesn't want to release any news that makes people think that he is willing to reconcile with the Li family. Whether it is the Li family or outsiders, he always has this attitude.
The break must be clean, lest these people cause trouble for Su Rongsuluo in the future.
Ms. Wang thanked today's visitors, and then asked everyone to move their chopsticks, the yard is bustling with activity, everyone eats and chats together, or has a few drinks.
The female guest here is preparing fruit wine. The fruit wine has a hint of fruity aroma, and it is not intoxicating.
It's not easy for Su Wan to eat while holding the child in his arms. The cub saw so many people eating, and there were many things on the table, and there were all kinds of plates. He was a little curious and started to reach out.
Su Wan held him down, sighed in his heart, took two mouthfuls and asked the maid to spoon a bowl of fish soup for her to drink, and stopped eating.
Su Luo was sitting beside her, and rubbed his little head with her hand: "Ashi, you are disobedient, your mother wants to eat, and if you make a fuss, you will be beaten."
The cub shook his head, refused to be touched by her, and kept his eyes on the plate.
Su Wan said: "You eat yours, leave him alone."
Yuanshi said: "Why don't people take it down, and have a good meal."
Wang said: "The one in her family is very smart. Except for the parents, they don't want to be hugged, so they can only be carried."
Yuan Shi remembered this incident, she frowned slightly: "Then how do you eat on weekdays? Hold it?"
Su Guan said: "Just pull a small bed next to it, we two eat, he lies down, and the older ones play for a while, or let Xiaosang and the others hug them. When they are at home, Shi is still willing to let them hug, but Not for long."
"But when I went to a crowded place, I refused to be hugged."
If you meet him crying, you have to eat faster to avoid him crying all the time.
In this way, there is no way, and everyone doesn't know what to say.
After a banquet, Su Wan only ate a few chopsticks and a bowl of soup. When the guests were full, they said goodbye and left, and the couple quickly left with their children.
The child is too young to go out.
After getting into the carriage, putting the child on the wooden couch, watching Li Lin play with him for a while, Su Wan finally breathed a sigh of relief.
Raising children is indeed not easy.
[The author has something to say]
I forgot whether Li Yuyan entered the Sui Palace or the Ming Palace. I will check later. If the Sui Palace is the ending above, if it is the Ming Palace, it will be the Li family. It was the money converted from the dowry that was given to the Li family, and the relationship was severed. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com