It is true that men value offspring, but as long as there are one or two who can inherit the incense, most of them think it is ok, and it is not necessary to have seven or eight to be satisfied, but women do not think so.
Perhaps it is because of the patriarchal society that women are taught to be virtuous and generous from birth. Some people even think that it is natural for men to take concubines to sleep in the same room, and some even give concubines to their husbands themselves.
There are also some people who have suffered from concubines when they were young, and they are also worried about concubines and concubines in their hearts, but when the years have passed and they have reached the age of being grandmothers, their feelings for men have long since faded Go, there is no water or wave in my heart, I feel that it is just such a little thing.
At this time, I think about having more children and grandchildren, more wealth, and I want my children and grandchildren to flourish.
What's more, I feel that I have suffered so much, why my daughter-in-law can monopolize her husband, so I feel uneasy and want to make trouble.
It is precisely because of these reasons that the next generation repeats the fate of the previous generation, and taking concubines has become the norm in powerful families.
Even if some couples have a good relationship and don¡¯t want to take a concubine, the elders will insist on it. If you don¡¯t agree with her, she will cry, make trouble, and hang herself. Sleep, must have a baby.
If you don't give birth, the old lady will say that she will not die with peace in her eyes. If you do this, you are not filial, you are sorry to the old mother, and you are sorry to the ancestors.
Then they were noisy all day long, making the dogs restless.
Just like King Zhao used to marry Zhou's side concubine, and Lord Zhen Guo accepted Yue's mother, and it was precisely because of the elders that they made a fuss.
?In comparison, in many people's minds, the mother is still more important. She was looking for death, so she could only bite the bullet and agree, so the concubine's room came in and the child was born.
In short, these old ladies are really capable of making troubles, and she is still an elder, so she can't be beaten or scolded, and the weaker ones can't resist.
Su Wan felt her head was buzzing and her heart was very annoyed. She took a deep breath and calmed down. She asked, "Grandma, do you think it's really right to take a concubine?"
Su Wan feels that she has no way to change an era and everyone, but her natal family, she hopes to be more peaceful, with kind elders, filial children and grandchildren, and a harmonious and happy family.
She hoped that Su Jian, Murong Xian, and even Su Rong in the future could live a good life after they got married, instead of struggling in the struggle between wives and concubines in the back house.
Wang paused, and then asked her: "What do you mean by asking?"
"Awan just feels a little emotional." Su Wan sighed, "There are too many wives and concubines in this family, and there is no quiet life. It's not wives and concubines fighting, or brothers fighting, fighting for the favor of the husband, and fighting for the inheritance of the family."
"Everyone says that it is good to have many children and grandchildren, but I always feel that it is better to raise one or two promising children and grandchildren who only know how to fight among themselves. It¡¯s good to raise a bunch of people who only know how to eat at home.¡±
"The days are quiet like this."
Mrs. Wang felt strange: "Ah Wan thinks it's wrong to take a concubine?"
Su Wan laughed: "I don't care if this is right or not, but taking a concubine is really a sad thing for a woman. I don't want to, but due to various reasons, I can only bear it." go down."
"In the past, I was willing to marry Jing Yuan. One of the reasons was that he said that Li Jiazu taught not to take concubines. He married me and I will be the only one in his life."
"There is a couple in this life, who doesn't want to have one."
No, who doesn't want to be a couple with her husband for the rest of her life, if possible, who is willing to serve her husband with another woman, and let the other woman give birth to a child with her husband's blood.
Unless it is really that there is no emotion at all, otherwise, whoever is so virtuous and generous will not care at all.
"That's right, who wouldn't want to." Wang sighed.
Su Wan smiled: "The ancestors of the Li family are very powerful. Jing Yuan told me earlier that the ancestors of the Li family did not allow their descendants to take concubines. This will lead to a stable husband and wife for a lifetime, a peaceful back house, and the ability to work hard. To do things, secondly, the matter of children and grandchildren, it is not that the more you have, the better."
"In this family, there are only so many family properties. Whoever gets more and who gets less is a matter of contention. The wives, concubines, and grandchildren all want to get more for themselves. "
"According to me, there are so many in this life, it is better to have one or two to be educated and let them become talents, preferably oneMother's love is naturally deeper, and when the time comes, I will use it if I have the strength, so why not worry about the future. "
"It's like our Jinning mansion. Right now, my uncle and my father are on the same page, but there is a second uncle. How can the second uncle be of the same mind as the uncle and my father? It's just wishing that my uncle and I Bad luck for father."
"Grandmother thinks, is it better to have children and grandchildren like the second uncle?"
Of course it is not good!
Mrs. Wang was almost annoyed by Su Lin, so I won't say it wasn't born by her, and she seemed to have a mental illness, desperately trying to get up, doing things stupidly and without brains, and couldn't look at him all at once. That would be able to drag down the entire mansion and drag the whole family to their deaths.
Su Wan smiled: "How can this concubine and concubine be of one mind? Across a mother, the richer the family, the more internal strife, and I don't know how many families, because of internal strife, once collapsed, or gradually The ground did not fall."
"Grandmother has been asking me before, when will I have a child with Jing Yuan, and let you hold your great-grandson, but I said there is no rush, and it is true that there is no rush. Jing Yuan and I have discussed it."
"Jing Yuan said, if you are born with a boy, you should have another one. Just train him well. If the first one is born with a girl, then you should have a second one. This world is too harsh on women. If the parents are gone , then she was not bullied to death, it would be good to have a younger brother or younger sister to support her."
"If the second child is a girl, that's enough. If you really want an heir to inherit the incense, you just need to find someone who has no father or mother to raise under your knees."
Wang Shi was stunned for a while when she heard the words: "Jing Yuan actually said that?"
"Of course." Su Wan thought to himself, if it wasn't for the fact that the family had to inherit the throne, he would think it would be enough to have a girl, and that man likes girls.
But this world is really harsh on women, just let her stand up on her own, and if she doesn't do well in the future, she will point out and point out that she is a woman.
? You have worked so hard all your life, but people don't accept your favor, and they say you are the cock of the morning.
In this case, it's better to let her be happy and be an innocent little girl. She will be protected by her parents all her life. Even if her parents are gone, she still has brothers. Who dares to bully her. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com