1. Many times, we are used to "cultivate", in fact, this is a wrong habit. Because not all "cultivation" will have good results: the "cultivation" of tumors will kill people, and the "cultivation" of good seedlings will become pillars. Therefore, don't "train" blindly, but evaluate the objects of "training" first.
2. Don't think about hurting anyone, even if someone hurts you. Tolerance can make you live calmly.
3. Knowing that you have made a mistake, you must immediately admit your mistake and correct yourself from the heart. Don't hold on because of face. The result of holding on is often even more face loss.
4. To be forgiving and forgiving is easier said than done!
5. Don't let anger last too long, because it is likely to hurt innocent people.
6. Don't take yourself too seriously, because most of us are ordinary people. To paraphrase a sentence commonly used when writing essays in elementary school: "So-and-so is very ordinary, as soon as he walks into the sea of ??people, he disappears without a trace."
7. Put yourself in other people's shoes so that you won't be too hard on others.
8. In front of your eyes, pictures of the past often appear. Many things, after passing by, can no longer be erased. Therefore, it is really a kind of happiness to be able to live simply.
9. When you are frustrated or unhappy, try not to deliberately create a sad and desolate atmosphere. Because this will only make your bad mood worse.
10. Don't dwell on the sad past, because tomorrow is what greets you, not yesterday.
11. Sometimes reality is scarier than imagination; sometimes not. So, don't blindly fear reality.
12. "When I was young, my family was very poor, and many relatives did not walk with us." This is not a sentence in a novel, this is what I have experienced personally.
13. I don't like to trouble others casually. Likewise, I don't like people bothering me when it's not urgent.
14. I consider myself a decisive person, but when dealing with emotions, I can't always cut the mess quickly. Therefore, my feelings always fail. I know that feelings are my weakness, but there is nothing I can do about it.
15. In addition to the deeds of great men, every ordinary person can find his shadow in different great men.
16. A colleague took his son out for a barbecue. The son was delighted to eat, and the colleague was pleasing to the eye. He asked his son: Son, is the barbecue delicious? Son replied: delicious, really delicious. The colleague then asked: Now that Dad takes you to eat, what will you do when you grow up? The son replied without thinking: When I grow up, I will take my son to eat too.
17. Years have become old traces inadvertently. Everything is so unpredictable, the past gradually loses its color in the passage of time; the future can never be clear in the unpredictable imagination. Many people say that only reality is the most reliable. I often think, is reality really reliable? Not at all! The muddled and realistic days will always give people confusion.
18. Pursue an ideal you want. This ideal has expectations for life, a vision for the future, and a plan for the spiritual world, which requires continuous efforts and struggles. Along the way, I stumbled, and many times, I lost my way and couldn't find the anchoring shore. Why can we sustain it and face it bravely? Not because of anything else, but because the bright light in my heart is always shining. The ups and downs on the road often make the light of hope dim, but it has never been extinguished. In this way, walking on the road of life falteringly. I know that the road ahead is still unclear, but since there are so many expectations placed on me, I can never say give up.
19. I am a realistic idealist. This is caused by life experience.
20. Real emotional experiences, by my standards, are a total failure. This is the worst experience of my life since I was governor.
21. I don't know how others are, but I always feel that there is a little monster hidden in my heart, and it will always come out to fight me from time to time.
22. The fun and meaning of life lies in the unpredictability of life, so don't try to figure out the future through "astrology and numerology". In fact, even with "horoscope and numerology", it is still unclear.
23. If possible, I would like everything to be simple, but the experience in the past thirty years is really complicated, and this cannot be reversed.
24. Emotion is really a complicated thing. Every time I face emotion, I will be at a loss, but I have to face it, and the result is often a mess.
25. Birth, old age, sickness and death are natural laws that everyone must face, because we have emotions, so when we face all these, we will have all kinds of irresistible touches.
26. People in the world like to say "the world is impermanent", "peopleHe called his mother "Mao Mao his mother". A few years ago, after returning to the city, she also came back to the village to sit at my house¡ªher original home, and do chores with my mother. I can't remember what I said, but what impressed me the most was "the people in this castle are very bad". Back then, they jumped the queue here, orphans and widows, the villagers were xenophobic, and some boring people bullied them .
His father had a violent temper that frightened people to death all his life, but he was upright and righteous, so he had a good reputation. "Maomao's mother" said, there are only a few good people in this village, and my father is naturally one of them.
Back then, many people wanted this house. Because the neighbors on both sides are very powerful people, no one can get in. The father didn't ask for help, didn't leave the door, and stayed here smoothly. I've heard people say that if I change to another house, I don't know if I can live here.
13. "Mom Mao Mao" said that "the people in this fort are very bad", I believe it. My father also often scolded people from "this Baozi", but my father himself, including our whole family, were from "this Baozi". Both "Mom Mao Mao" and father have opinions on people in "this Baozi", and they seem to be the same. In fact, "Maomao's mother" looks at the people in "this Baozi" with the eyes of outsiders, because the people in "this Baozi" have bullied them and treated them badly, so there is somewhat hatred in it. Father is different. He has deep affection for the people of "this Baozi". Regardless of whether he was born here or grew up here, the things his father did for his fellow villagers and neighbors prove his father's affection for "this Baozi". My father couldn't get used to some bad habits of the villagers, and he often yelled and cursed. In my opinion, it was actually a kind of "angry and indisputable" concern.
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