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The "hedgehog theory" between lovers

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    Author: Shi Yuchun

    Some people have said to me more than once: People are like hedgehogs, you can't get too close, as soon as you get close, the thorns on your body may hurt each other.  The person who said this also emphasized that even couples are no exception.

    I deeply disagree with that person's words and opinions.  Although I also believe that it is necessary to keep a certain distance between people, as a couple living together, it is also necessary to do so. First, it will be very harmonious;  Keeping your distance seems difficult.  Based on the above thoughts, I think that person's statement is a bit unreasonable.

    Some people always like to find all kinds of "theories" to explain their right or wrong way of life and attitude towards life, and they often make plausible arguments and shout loudly: Didn't a certain expert or celebrity sayhow, how   For such people, the only thing we can do is keep silent.  Everyone has their own way of living, we cannot and do not have to force everyone to match our ideas.

    I have never believed in the so-called "hedgehog theory", especially when it comes to how couples get along.  Those couples who exist in name only are not included, so don't worry about him.  As long as there is still affection, the so-called "hedgehog theory" cannot be used to talk about things.

    Kutcher said: Everyone is an island.

    Because of this, people will feel lonely.  Therefore, in one's life, one must find the other half.  Perhaps, this other half will not completely eliminate a person's loneliness, but the long night, difficult life and world affairs, there is someone around, probably the soul will get some comfort.  Although this consolation is not enough to detach people, it is the only way most people choose.

    This is an emotional explanation.  Of course, there are social reasons and a series of other complicated reasons for the combination of men and women.  It is not discussed in this article, so I will not repeat it here.

    I also believe that people are sometimes a lot like hedgehogs.  In fact, the husband and wife are the two shivering couple in the wilderness, unaccompanied, helpless, two hedgehogs who ran together to keep warm.  But here comes the problem, because everyone has different origins, different personalities, different growth backgrounds, and different living habits. These kinds of differences are like the spines on a hedgehog. Therefore, two people together are roughly like two hedgehogs together.  The same: if they are close to each other, they will prick and hurt; if they are not close, they will be cold and cold if they are far away.

    If the husband and wife are really like hedgehogs, are they so inseparable that they will either die of pain or freeze to death?

    I have never agreed with the "hedgehog theory" of that person mentioned above.  Monofilament, the differences between people, as well as the conflicts and contradictions caused by differences, are real, and I agree with them.  Based on this, when it comes to the so-called "hedgehog theory", I am a little confused, because even I can't think of a good way to solve the problem of pain and cold that exist at the same time.

    Fortunately, people are not hedgehogs, people are people after all.  People can always come up with ways or tricks to deal with everything and solve problems.

    In the TV series "Halfway Couples", Jiang Jianping's mother said: Only half of the thorns of each hedgehog are cut off, so that when they are close together, they will not be pricked or cold, but you must endure the pain of cutting the thorns.

    It's really a word to wake up the dreamer!

    Life is so simple, and getting along as a husband and wife is not too difficult, it depends on whether you are willing to endure your own "pain" to gain the "warmth" of the other party.

    Yes, the way to get along with each other is to have the sacrifice spirit of "cutting the thorns", so that we can get along well.  If you only know that you are cold, and you are always afraid of your own pain, and you ask the other party to cut off half of the thorns, then you will eventually freeze to death.  Think about it, compare your heart with your heart. When you ask the other party to cut half of the thorns, the other party may readily agree. Every time you feel cold, you lean towards the other party. For the first time, the other party hurts, just bear it.  The first time, the third time every year, every month, every day people's hearts are made of flesh, if it were you, what would you do?

    If you want to cut the thorns, you will have to cut them all, and the pain will only last for a while, and what you get in return may be eternal happiness.

    People, it's not easy to go through this world once, it's not easy for two people to get together, it's even more difficult to go together for a lifetime.  Two people live together, where will there be no bumps?  The teeth and the tongue are so close, sometimes the teeth will bite the tongue accidentally.

    Everything is fair and equal, the thorn, everyone has to cut it, neither of them can't cut it, one can't cut it and the other can't cut it.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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