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Chapter 105 The Reality of Life

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    "This is very realistic, and it's not like we haven't seen it before. Let's talk about the family in our village. The old man was lying in bed and sick, and the grandchildren came to deliver meals in turn. It was difficult for the son and daughter-in-law to stand by the bed for a while.  It¡¯s not that they don¡¯t want to, it¡¯s that the young people can¡¯t help it, they have to earn money to support their families, or where can they lie in bed and have food?¡±

    Qin's mother lowered her head and continued to say with a smile while adjusting the needle and thread according to the appearance.

    Mother Zhao bowed her head and remained silent.  She is a strong person. If she is also on the hospital bed one day, she will feel burdened and cause trouble for her daughter. But if she goes to a nursing home, she is afraid of embarrassing her daughter and son-in-law.  Policy holders, widowed elderly, and their own daughters are probably unwilling, so they have to put more pressure on their younger generations.

    "Oh, Mom, are you right? Think I'm transparent? No matter what, Qin Wafan and I can't get along with you old people. Besides, we have a mouthful of food, so we share it with you.  , you are all more comfortable than me now, so you are just here to worry about this and that, is it necessary?"

    Zhao Hong finally couldn't bear it, and interrupted.

    "You put it lightly, you don't need to raise your son? Food and drink go to school, which one doesn't cost money, look at it now, which child wants to start preparing for the future as soon as he is born, and start learning all kinds of things before he goes to school.  Every household still has to pay for it.¡±

    Mother Zhao glanced at her daughter with a smile and said.

    "That's right, in our upstairs house, the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law quarrel every day, shouting or yelling. The mother-in-law and father-in-law feel that they have helped their son and daughter-in-law a lot. The son and daughter-in-law come back after a busy day working outside, knowing that the children are in trouble."  I watched TV with the old man at home, and I was very dissatisfied. He said that the old man didn¡¯t care about his grandson, and even said that he didn¡¯t even want to pay his grandson a piece of candy. You say this, the old man makes sense, and the young man is also realistic  , isn¡¯t this a problem.¡±

    Mother Qin poked at the ceiling with a long bamboo needle for knitting a sweater.

    "Yeah, the kids nowadays are expensive, unlike ours. Where did so many demands come from? Not short of food and drink for him, and enough for him to go to school.  , I have all gone to work to support my family, isn¡¯t it the same?¡±

    Mother Zhao also laughed.

    "It's not okay now. Take your children to pay attention to methods. He said that experts said, what's going on, what can be done, oh, the borders, young people learn to understand and have no time to learn.  I don¡¯t care about it, I don¡¯t know if giving birth is paying off the debt!¡±

    Qin's mother also laughed.

    "Hahaha, but the sons and daughters of our two families are good boys. They don't mess around, are obedient, filial, sensible, and work hard. They can look good and are satisfied."

    Mother Zhao looked at her daughter and smiled.  But Zhao Hong simply ignored them, and inserted the cut apple pieces with a toothpick, and handed one piece to her mother-in-law and one piece to her mother.  Mother Zhao smiled and took the apple handed over by her daughter. She didn't put it in her own mouth, but put it on her daughter's lips habitually. After watching her eat it, she took the apple piece handed over by her daughter and put it in.  mouth, and added a sentence to her daughter's arrogant face before putting the apple piece into her mouth:

    "I'm not happy to praise you! You child, we are just chatting about nothing, and you are supercilious."

    "Hmph, let's talk, just don't take it to heart."

    Zhao Hong pouted.  But in her heart, she also began to think about the issue of raising children among the topics discussed by her mother-in-law and her mother.

    "Oh, Honghong, in the future, we can help you with your child during the full moon period, but the main thing is that you and your husband need to put in more effort to bear it. You are both college students and teachers. We are not as good as you. Besides,  , Don¡¯t they all say that intergenerational education is not as good as parental education? We will help you with some housework, children dare not take it!¡±

    Seeing that this topic has been discussed, Qin's mother simply explained the matter to Ming.  Originally, she wanted to find some time to discuss this matter with her son and daughter-in-law, but later found out that the division of labor between the two is quite clear. The son is in charge of the outside world and is mainly in charge of outside affairs, and the daughter-in-law is in charge of the house and is mainly in charge of family affairs.  It is also possible to discuss with the daughter-in-law first about bringing children.

    It just so happened that my mother-in-law was there, so I said it.

    Regarding the issue of old support and young upbringing of a family, there are paradigms in the local area.

    The old ones are usually borne by the sons, but the young ones are different for each family. Most of the villages and towns are taken care of by their parents-in-law, and half of the county towns are dominated by their parents-in-law, and some are divided and cooperated with their parents-in-law.  A small part is brought mainly by the mother among the parents.

    Mother Qin is at two?I talked with them when my son was in college. Regarding the grandchildren¡¯s affairs, the sons are the main ones. The two of them are old, but they don¡¯t want to intervene too much. She will definitely help during confinement, but in the future, it depends on the situation.

    The two sons also agreed with their parents' views. Before Qin Wafan got married, Qin's mother and Qin's father also agreed, and mentioned their views to their sons. Now, after talking with their daughter-in-law, it should be made clear.

    "Yes, I also came over when you were confinement. The baby will grow up, but you two have to worry about it yourself. Let us take care of it every now and then. In the long run, it's up to you."

    Mama Zhao and Mama Qin stood on the same front by coincidence.  She understood what Qin's mother said and agreed.  Let the children worry about their own affairs. They must have some space to live for themselves in their whole life.

    "Mom, Honghong and I both understand what you said. It can be summed up in one sentence. We gave birth to us, and you helped us during confinement, right?"

    ? At some point, Qin Wafan, who had cleaned up the dishes, stood by the armrest of the sofa next to his wife Zhao Hong, and smiled calmly.

    "Also, don't worry, Qin Wanfan and I have discussed it. We will take care of the children, and we will work hard to make money to support the family. In the future, you can rest assured and live a comfortable life. We must also be responsible for our parents.  in the end."

    Of course, there is also Qin Jiang, which is self-evident.  But Zhao Hong, as the elder sister-in-law, can represent her younger brother and future sister-in-law. With Qin Wafan and her personality, even if Qin Jiang doesn't care about the family, she and Qin Wafan have to take care of these two things.  What's more, Qin Jiang is not the kind of person who ignores his parents.

    "Yes, you can rest assured, if we can't even take care of our own children, and even you, then it's okay? Is it worthy of your usual education? Isn't it, Mom?"

    After Qin Wafan finished speaking, he winked and smiled at his mother, full of confidence.  For the future, although he can't even afford a two thousand yuan motorcycle, he has full confidence: not only has a very beautiful vision, but also has specific plans for different stages.  On this point, he and his wife Zhao Hong are absolutely of one mind.

    "Yes, we all believe in you and Honghong, we can make life better!"

    Mother Qin smiled and affirmed her son's words, and Mother Zhao also laughed.

    If the children are generous, thoughtful, capable, and filial, the old people will naturally feel at ease, and there will be fewer family conflicts. The trivial things are all drizzle at home, which is nothing.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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