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191 The Choice Is Difficult

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    Although the mother's cousin was a little embarrassed to say it, she finally made up her mind to mention it to her parents.

    At that time, parents were full of struggles in their hearts.  Although they are relatives, Yaomei is, after all, the biological flesh and blood of her parents.  As a parent, who would want to be separated from their children?  Furthermore, the father at that time was in the rising stage of his career, not to mention raising three children, even if there were two more, it was completely affordable from an economic point of view.  Therefore, from the perspective of the relationship with their children, parents are extremely reluctant to send their children to others, even relatives who are very close to them.

    Although parents are somewhat influenced by feudal ignorance, they are still very simple in essence.  At that time, after my father heard about it, he didn't reply immediately, but replied "Consider, consider".  If the mother's cousin married a normal man, then the father would definitely refuse without hesitation.  However, the situation of the mother's cousin is special after all.  For the sake of my mother's cousin's future, although my father once objected to her marrying such a disabled person, but now everything has become a fait accompli, and nothing else can help.  Due to the blood relationship, the father at that time had only pity for this cousin.  When the cousin is in the most difficult moment, how can the parents have the heart to refuse?

    On the one hand, he was reluctant to part with his own child; on the other hand, he couldn't bear to reject his miserable cousin.  At that time, the contradictions and struggles in the hearts of parents can be imagined.  I was only one year older than Yaomei. I was still very young at that time, and I had no memory of my parents¡¯ expressions when they hugged Yaomei.  However, thinking about it now, the parents at that time must have been full of pain in their hearts.

    In the end, pity for his cousin prevailed.  After all, after losing a younger sister, she still has two children.  If you are reluctant to part with Yaomei, then the cousin's family will never have children, and will lose hope forever.  For a proud man who is suddenly half-disabled, there is nothing more terrifying than losing hope.  If hope is lost, I am afraid that my cousin's man will also lose the courage to live.  The simplicity of their parents determines that they are more considerate of others.  For my cousin, for that cousin's husband who was in deep pain, and to create a complete family for these two poor lovers, my father chose to sacrifice himself very painfully.

    When Yaomei was more than six months old, after giving Yaomei the last mouthful of milk, my mother reluctantly handed her out.  At that moment, my mother was in tears.  The pain of being separated from one's own flesh and blood is absolutely unforgettable.  This has also become the eternal pain in the parents' life.

    Later, I also heard from my parents that the decision to adopt Yaomei was to let Yaomei live a better life.  After all, when Yaomei arrives at her mother's cousin's house, she will be able to obtain a national household registration and be able to eat national food.  At that time, for those who were born in the countryside, there was nothing more glorious than jumping out of the farm.  But I know that this is just an excuse for parents to comfort themselves.  If Yaomei obtains a national household registration through her own efforts to enter the university, then the parents can only be happy.  However, by adopting their children to others to obtain national household registration, parents only feel pain in their hearts.  In order to soothe the pain in their hearts, parents can only lie to themselves that once the child passes through, they will be able to obtain a national household registration and live a good life.

    A woman has to take care of her child while taking care of her husband who is paralyzed from the lower body. Under such a difficult situation, can Yaomei live a good life?  I have never contacted Yaomei, but it is conceivable that she must have been full of misery in her childhood (only refers to the suffering in material life, but the spiritual level must be happy, because the mother's cousin and cousin-in-law will definitely have a hard-won future.  She treats her as her own sweetheart) memories.  Don't parents think of this?  I know that they must have thought of this when they decided to adopt Yaomei.  Therefore, later, whenever the parents deceived themselves and lamented that "Yaomei was able to obtain a national hukou", there was deep sadness in their eyes.

    As a parent, who wants to be separated from their own flesh and blood forever?  Therefore, when deciding to adopt Yaomei, the parents had already thought of a solution.  The parents told the cousin that if they want to adopt, they must agree to two conditions.  First, correspondence must be maintained from time to time; second, they cannot be prevented from visiting their children.  If you do not agree to these two conditions, then you will absolutely refuse to adopt the child to them.  From the perspective of parents, through these two items, they can keep abreast of their children's living conditions at any time, and they can visit and visit their children regularly.  Although separated from the child, with these two points, at least to a certain extent, I can alleviate my pain of missing.  Moreover, through these two points, it can also play a certain supervisory role.  Once Yaomei is found to be living in distress, financial assistance can be given in due course.  Although she is my cousin?But the father is not sure that she will be good to his children.  If you find anything wrong, you can take tough measures at any time, even at the expense of turning your back on your child again.  With these two points, even if the adoptive family goes out, the life of their children can be guaranteed.

    I don't know if my mother's cousin can understand the painstaking efforts of being a parent, but at that time, she had no choice at all.  Because, if she does not agree, then it is absolutely impossible to get a child.  However, while she agreed, she also put forward her own conditions.  She begged her father to understand her painstaking efforts.  She adopted this child because she wanted to treat it as her own child.  She has repeatedly promised that she will treat Yaomei as her own.  It is precisely because she wants to give birth to the child as her own, so she is afraid that her child will know her true birth.  The mother's cousin sincerely begged her parents to agree to two conditions.  First, there must be even a little bit of Yaomei's life experience involved in the exchange of letters; second, if you come to visit, you must say hello in advance, so that she can make arrangements in advance.

    The parents were able to understand the difficulties of the cousin at the time. The reason why she put forward these two conditions was actually because she was afraid that "the child would not be able to support the family" (in dialect, it means that the adopted child of other people's family, once they know their real life experience, they are likely to go to the country to go to the hospital.  Looking for one's own parents, in this case, we call it "not being able to support a family").  She has such concerns, and it just proves that she wants to treat the child as her own.  Therefore, after much thought, the parents finally agreed to this harsh adoption requirement.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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