Although we know that the possibility of realizing it is very low, my sister and I have to try it. The final result was completely within our expectations. Although my sister, my wife and brother-in-law tried my best, my father still stubbornly refused to take the medicine.
It was a gloomy (all in our hearts, but not on our faces) weekend, and after trying so many times to no avail, we were all in the worst mood. Now I am really glad that I prescribed Chinese medicine pills when I was in Nanjing. Since my father was determined not to drink traditional Chinese medicine, he could only use Chinese medicine pills as a cushion first. It's just that we all know in our hearts that this finished medicine is far from the efficacy of the traditional Chinese medicine prescribed only for my father's condition. Therefore, we all expressed tacitly that we must rack our brains as soon as possible to come up with a good solution to the problem of "father does not drink traditional Chinese medicine".
In the midst of many worries, we returned to the urban area again. We can still tell the priority of things. What we want to do our best to solve now is the father's problem. As for the mother's matter, we have to put it aside for the time being.
We have learned more than once about our father's stubbornness. It is precisely because of the knowledge of our father's temper that we will feel such a headache. I was thinking about my father's taking medicine all day long, and I couldn't think about it for a long time, which made me almost unwilling to eat and couldn't sleep at night. After only two days, I felt a little in a trance. Finally, I pulled out a phone call to my sister. Because, I desperately hope that my sister has come up with a good solution.
"Sister, have you figured out a way?" I asked nervously.
"As far as Dad's temper is concerned, even if he thinks of a way, no one would dare to persuade him." My sister replied helplessly.
"As long as there is a way, as for whom to persuade, we can find another way." My sister's answer gave me a glimmer of hope.
Of course my sister knew what I meant, so she sighed: "Oh, it's not so easy (think of a way)."
Hearing this, although I was disappointed in my heart, I suddenly had a flash of inspiration. Didn't my sister say just now, "I guess no one dares to persuade", but what if you find someone who "dare to persuade"? Thinking of this, I said excitedly: "There is no sure way. But as long as there is a glimmer of hope, we should try it. As for Dad's temper, although there are not many people who dare to persuade, it is not absolutely impossible. I think, As long as we can find someone who dares to speak up and go to Dad to persuade him, there may not be no hope of success at all."
"Well, this is a feasible solution. But, who should we turn to?" My sister asked with some embarrassment.
"What do you think of aunts and aunts?" I didn't answer directly, but asked tentatively.
"Well, it's a good choice!" The elder sister's voice suddenly raised an octave, "After all, brothers and sisters love each other deeply, I think Dad should show some face. Even if he doesn't accept the suggestions of aunts and aunts, Dad will not give it to you Their faces are pale. Besides, Dad must know that the aunts and aunts persuaded him out of concern. Under the great influence of family affection, maybe Dad will accept their suggestions. "
After listening to my sister's reasonable analysis, I suddenly felt a little confident in my heart. "Then it's decided!" I said emphatically.
"The eldest aunt, uncle and younger aunt are closer to my house, so it's easier to persuade. As for the second aunt and uncle, I think it's okay. They live in other places, and they are too far apart!"
My sister¡¯s answer undoubtedly affirmed my idea, so I felt much better and said, ¡°Sister, I¡¯m afraid that there will be too many people to persuade you? Don¡¯t you have a mobile phone now? You don¡¯t have to go to my house to persuade Dad.¡± The same is true for calling. How about this, I will explain the situation to Second Aunt and Uncle. I believe that they will take the initiative to call Dad without asking. "
My sister heard strong confidence from my answer. Of course, this confidence is not based on whether you can persuade your father, but whether your aunts and uncles are willing to persuade them. So, my sister replied: "Okay, I will take care of the elder aunt, uncle and younger aunt and uncle."
After the agreement, my sister and I acted urgently. After hearing about his father's situation, the aunts and uncles were all very anxious, and for their father's sake, they would be obliged to do so. Sure enough, as I expected, they volunteered without waiting for our request. From their words, we can easily hear their rock-solid determination.
Next, there is helpless waiting in anxiety.
The first person to call to give feedback was the eldest uncle. He said that after hearing about his father's situation, he rushed to my house immediately.
"So-and-so (a code name for my nickname), I found that your father's complexion doesn't seem quite right!" said the eldest uncle worriedly.
"Well, otherwise I wouldn't have gone to Nanjing to prescribe traditional Chinese medicine for him."? said.
"What's the situation now? Why does your dad keep complaining that he's in pain?" the eldest uncle asked puzzled.
"I was afraid that my mother would not be able to bear it, so we never told her. My father's esophageal cancer recurred. You have seen his physical condition, and he is really not suitable for chemotherapy and radiotherapy. Therefore, we thought of using traditional Chinese medicine for conditioning. But who Thinking, my dad would actually refuse to take the medicine! Now, we also feel helpless! Otherwise, we wouldn¡¯t ask uncle for help.¡± I explained sadly.
"Well, chemotherapy and radiotherapy, your father must not be able to bear it." The uncle completely agreed with my concept, "When I was at your house, I told your father that a certain person in our village used to drink Chinese medicine after getting cancer. Okay. I advised him to insist on drinking Chinese medicine. I said that although drinking Chinese medicine is slow to take effect, it can cure the root cause, and the side effects are small"
"Then, what does my dad say?" This is the question I am most concerned about right now, so I can't wait to interrupt my uncle and ask.
"Fortunately, your dad didn't expressly object. I feel that his thinking is still a little loose. If you try harder to persuade, it should be fine." The uncle can understand my mood very well, so he doesn't care about the impolite behavior. express any sense of reproach.
Based on what I know about my father, I can tell that he did not say no because of affection. But the eldest uncle has good intentions, so it is inconvenient for me to say so. So just change the subject. "My mother doesn't know about the recurrence until now. Uncle, please keep it secret for the time being."
"I know that!" The eldest uncle agreed very readily, and then continued, "When I was at your house, your father once said that as long as he can see you, he will feel full of endless energy immediately. , that is more effective than taking any medicine. It¡¯s not that I talk too much. I think you should go back as often as possible if you have time.¡± (Remember the website website: www.hlnovel.com