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068 Relationship Transformation

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    However, can we think that these two brothers have poor morals?  Of course not!  Differences in the level of education received will directly lead to differences in ideas.  In their view, since I have spent money, it is only natural to use the unowned things in the hospital.  Therefore, they will use it with peace of mind.  Perhaps, while I measure them with a moral yardstick, they are also evaluating me secretly in their hearts.  This person is really no ordinary idiot!  If you don¡¯t need it, will the hospital charge you less money?

    Just like the previous scandal about foot odor, if we insist on labeling the two brothers as "having no sense of public morality" because of this, it seems a bit suspicious of "disregarding human life".  They seldom wash their feet. As the saying goes, "Living with evil people is like living in abalone, and you don't smell the smell for a long time." They are used to it, so they don't notice their foot odor at all.  They are people who do things carelessly, and they don't take others' reprimands to heart at all.  So it was not until a few days later that they realized the harm caused by their smelly feet.  After they have a correct understanding of their foot odor, they have been insisting on wearing sandals.  In order not to trouble the noses of other people in the ward, they themselves would rather endure the cold all day and night.  Can you still say that they have no sense of public morality?

    With the change in my understanding of the two brothers who were originally a bit disgusting, I gradually had such a life perception.  People are multi-faceted and complex. Without in-depth communication and understanding, don't just evaluate a person casually.  Otherwise, your evaluation will often be biased, and may even be completely wrong.

    Unlike the bed on the south side, the bed on the north side is the child of an 80-year-old grandmother, and the first impression is not bad.  For the sake of my mother, I tried my best to come for treatment at any cost.  But in fact, their contrived ingredients are a little bigger.  Whatever the outcome, I've treated my own mother; whatever I do in the hospital, I'm there 24/7.  Could it be that others can still say that I am not filial?  Perhaps, they are stronger than those children who are unwilling to even pretend to be filial.  However, I don't think that drinking tea, reading newspapers, and watching TV in the hospital can be regarded as true filial piety.  Of course, I only hope that they do this because of ability problems (do not know how to take care of the mother who underwent surgery), not attitude problems (not that they don¡¯t know how to take care of them, but they are too lazy to devote themselves wholeheartedly).  In fact, I know that among the grandma's many children, most of them are attitude problems.  Even if you don¡¯t know it at first, as long as you have the heart, you don¡¯t ask others for advice, and you can basically learn everything by just carefully observing how the young man and my family do it.  However, they do not learn.  There may also be mutual excuses in it.  If I learn, then I have to do it all.  In this way, wouldn't I lose a lot of money?  When dealing with your parents, if you still think about the so-called question of who pays more and who pays less, then I think that none of these children is truly filial.  This is why I am so disgusted with the two older sisters of the middle-aged man.

    Parents belong to oneself, without parental upbringing, there would be no self.  No matter how many children the parents have, no matter how other brothers and sisters treat their parents, I think I have an inescapable responsibility to support them.  Others don't raise it, I raise it!  Can it be considered a loss to support one's own parents?  Friendship is not a business, and it cannot be measured by "whether you lose or how much you lose".  Supporting parents is a matter of course for children.  As a child, you must first keep in mind, "Parents are their own world, without world, there will be no self"!  If you understand this truth, then I think the grandma's children will definitely not work hard.

    However, we can't just think that the grandma's children don't have any feelings for their mothers.  I can see that they still really hope that their mother can recover soon.

    A few days after coming out of the intensive care unit, the attending physician will remind the family members to take the patient out of bed and walk around.  The grandma's children heard that exercise can make the elderly recover faster, so they immediately became motivated.  Although the old lady repeatedly said that she couldn't bear it, they still drove the old lady ("there are many people and strength") out of the ward.  The so-called can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, the end result is that the poor old man passed out while being forced to walk around.

    With the help of enthusiastic patients and emergency rescue, the 80-year-old grandmother managed to wake up from a coma.  Suffering this "great change", the grandma's children were almost scared out of their wits.  So it went from one extreme to the other.  This postoperative exercise should have been a gradual process.  When you're just starting to get out of bed and move around, you need to try it out first.  For example, the young man's father only stood by the bed on the first day, walked around the ward on the second day, and did not start moving in the corridor until the third day.  Even my father, who has always been in excellent physical fitness, on the first day, I also?? Let him out of the ward.  But the grandma's children are lucky. For the first time, the 80-year-old man had a high-intensity exercise.  If there is no problem, that is a strange thing!  Who would have thought that with this terrible first time, there would be no second and third times that should have been persistent From then on, the children no longer helped the old woman get out of bed and walk around.  Whenever I persuaded them to let the elderly exercise properly, they would reply me confidently: "I was so lucky that time, how dare I let her get out of bed now?"

    At first, the purpose of "pull and pull" was to allow the mother to recover quickly; later, "I dare not let her get out of bed again", because I didn't want my mother to have an accident.  These all show their concern for their mother.  It's just a pity that in many cases, they have not turned their concern for their mothers into practical actions.  Therefore, it gives people a very "hypocritical" feeling.

    On the surface, at the beginning, my relationship with the grandmother's family was closer than that of the old man's family.  This is because the first impression of the grandmother's family is much better than that of the old man's family.  Later, gradually, I felt more and more clearly the "hypocrisy" of the grandma's children. On the contrary, my opinion of the old man's family was constantly improving.  Therefore, my relationship with the grandmother's family has gradually become estranged, while that of the old man's family has gradually become closer.  Of course, even when they were the most acquainted, they did not reach the level of intimacy with the young man's family.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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