?My father and uncle are of high seniority, stubborn (strong) and irritable (tempered). After their relationship became stalemate, because few people dared to persuade, our relationship with the uncle's family has not been improved. The most indispensable thing in this world is villains. Although no one persuaded them, there were many people who sowed discord and fanned the flames. Unimproved brotherhood tends to deteriorate over time.
When the family was separated, our family got three old houses in the north, and my uncle's house got four new houses built by my father and located in the south. According to tradition, the south is the front and the north is the back. Therefore, according to the geographical location, we called our uncle's house Qiantoujia, while they called our house Houtoujia.
The three old houses are across the road from the four new houses. The road here is the main road in our village. The reason why the location of the four new houses is superior is that the front of the new houses is facing the creek and the back is against the main road. Although the three old houses of our family are on the side of the road, they are still quite a distance from the main road, estimated to be more than 100 meters away.
This may also be regarded as a problem left over from history. At that time, when my grandfather presided over the division of the family, as an elder, he insisted on dividing the field between my house and the main road into two parts, one for our family and one for my uncle's. Grandpa's stupid partisan behavior became the source of further deterioration of the relationship between our family and uncle's family.
It is precisely because the field is divided into two, and whoever is close to the house belongs to him. Therefore, if we want to walk from the door to the main road, we must pass through the field of the uncle's house. To put it simply, part of the small road leading to the main road in front of my house is occupied by my uncle's field.
I don't know what kind of villain's tinkering, and I don't know why the uncle and aunt at that time were obsessed. One day, the uncle and aunt actually cut off the path that our house walked on their field. The euphemistic name is: it belongs to their family's field. The implication is that our family has no right to walk through their fields.
What is a throat? It's the path in front of our house. Without this small road, do we have to fly to the main road if we want our family to go out?
This move by the uncle's family became the trigger for the already rigid relationship between the two families to deteriorate in an all-round way. The father who returned after hearing the news fought with his uncle about the throat trail. At that time, I was studying outside, and the specific situation was not very clear. I heard later that both father and uncle copied the guy at the time, and it seemed that father had a slight upper hand. That time, both father and uncle were brilliant. But, I think, they are brothers after all, after all, blood is thicker than water, no matter how angry they are, they still maintain a sense of reason. Otherwise, with the fiery temper of the father and uncle, even if no one is killed, they are bound to suffer (serious injuries) for both sides. Although it failed, fortunately, it was all skin trauma. It's just that this fight between father and uncle must have made those little people who provoked behind their backs laugh.
After the fierce fight, both father and uncle calmed down. Father knew that, no matter what, this matter had to be resolved, because we had to have a way to go in and out of our house! Under the vigorous promotion of their father, the two brothers finally sat down to negotiate a peaceful solution. In view of the uncle's insistence on "you are walking on our family's field", my father finally came up with a compromise method of exchanging the field for the road. Of course, Uncle is absolutely embarrassed that he is really not accommodating at all. Even if he wasn't a brother, he wouldn't be able to say "neither let you go, nor exchange with you".
Of course, such "peace talks" are not all smooth sailing. Because, the villain behind him started to make a fuss again. These despicable guys are most happy to see the quarrel between brothers. So, someone came up with a plan: first, except for the road, the other fields cannot be moved; second, other fields cannot be acquired, and if they want to change, the field in front of their house (referring to my house) should be used to change. What they meant was that in this way, the uncle's family would be able to hold back our family's land, and instead "invade" us a little more, so that if there is another conflict in the future, it will be better to grasp more initiative. The angry uncle didn't take care of his family, so he accepted this vicious plan without thinking.
In the end, in order to have a way to go, my father had to reluctantly accept this harsh request made by his uncle. Of course, my father was very shrewd. After negotiating conditions acceptable to both parties, he wrote down these conditions clearly in black and white with a few respected people in the village as witnesses, and then both parties signed, and finally Only then did they hand over the part of the fields they exchanged in public. In order to get in and out of the throat, the father had to be cautious. The so-called words have no basis. After such a formal replacement, even if the uncle wants to repent, he will never be able to save his face.
My father's impeccable way of doing things is also something I have always admired deeply.
theThis time, the fight under the instigation of the villain finally made the two brothers completely turn against each other. This uncle's behavior completely broke the father's heart. They are not ordinary brothers. It can be said that the father took half of the responsibility of taking care of the young uncle instead of the grandfather. The father is the uncle's elder brother, but in a way, he is more like a father.
The only one nagging about how to take care of my uncle is my mother. My father never mentioned this, and what my father emphasized was only the way. In my father's words, let alone brothers, even if it is an ordinary relationship between front and back neighbors, they will never do the immoral act of cutting someone's throat. What the father said has a basis. Because, the neighbors to the west of our house are also in the same situation as our family and uncle's house. Half of the field in front of their house is also the front neighbor's house. But until their family moved out, the neighbors in front did not have any vicious acts of blocking the road. In the words of the neighbors in front of their house, "How many fields can you walk on foot? How much grain can you harvest from such a small field?". The implication is, why bother to hate the relationship between neighbors and neighbors for such a trivial harvest? Doesn't uncle understand such a truth? That's why I concluded that uncle was deceived by villains.
"In order to walk, I actually need to exchange fields with my 'brothers'! Will anyone believe this? I don't have such a brother!" From these words, it is not difficult to see the deep hatred and hatred in my father's heart. Endless sadness. Since then, the brothers of the first-milk compatriots have turned against each other. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com