"What's the difference, it's all those things, what else can you say?" Su Qiao mocked.
"Forget it, let's not talk about this." Wei An knew that it was impossible to persuade Su Qiao, and if she continued to talk, she would only end up arguing. So I changed the subject, "The headquarters just issued a notice that Zaizai may be appointed as the director of the customer department a year ago. I haven't told him yet. What's your attitude?"
"What's my attitude?" Su Qiao didn't understand why Wei'an asked such a question.
Wei An twitched her lips, "The director of the marketing department needs to socialize, but it is also the best-developing department in the company. Zai Zai knows a lot of people, so he should have an advantage. But a few years ago, you were about to give birth, so you can let him do the work." cause?"
"" Su Qiao stopped talking, and said in a low voice after a while: "Weian, isn't it because he can take care of you? If he doesn't have time to take care of you, you want him to take care of you." What are you doing?"
Wei An frowned, she hadn't thought about this question. After thinking for a while, I said: "If you want to find someone to take care of you, you can find a nanny. He is your partner and someone who lives with you. Of course, I am sure that you need to take care of each other, but this is not life. All of you. When you are together, you need to encourage each other and rely on each other. You are the mirror of each other, and the purpose is to make your common life better."
"Wei An, your way of thinking is completely male!" Su Qiao exclaimed in disbelief, "Where did you learn it from?"
Where did you learn it?
Wei An smiled wryly and bowed her head: "Jiang An taught me this. At that time, you also knew that the result of expectation was disappointment. If you were more disappointed, you stopped expecting, and then learned to think in his way of thinking day after day. problem, and it turns out, the whole world is a lot easier."
Su Qiao turned her head to look at Wei'an, caught the flash of loneliness in her eyes, stretched out her hand to hold Wei'an's hand, the cool touch made her feel distressed suddenly. She never thought that she was as proud as Wei An, and there were times when she was so humble.
"Weian" She called her name softly, unable to say what she wanted to comfort later.
Wei An raised her head, took away the hand he was holding, and shook her head with a chuckle: "It's okay. I've forgotten what happened so long ago. Go to bed early, and you have to go to work tomorrow."
Then I turned off the desk lamp and lay down to sleep.
In fact, there are still many things that I haven't told Su Qiao.
For example, a man is an animal with a very wide and very long reflex arc. Don¡¯t expect him to understand what you are thinking in an instant like the one in the TV series, and then give you meticulous care. You need a long time to understand. Only by communicating with him can he be a little less nervous.
For example, don't think that a big boy can become a man who can take care of everything overnight. A boy needs setbacks to grow up, and one or more women who teach him many things. Of course, usually the girl who taught a boy to be a man may not stay with the man she made herself in the end, and girls, don't be surprised by your considerate boyfriend, because there are likely to be girls before you Taught him these things, and never expected him to forget the girl who taught him them.
Another example is the bottom line that a man can't touch is his face. Face is equal to dignity in a man's concept, so don't be a princess in front of his friends. Not all girls in this world are strong, but all men must be strong, so don't take a man's tolerance for you as he is afraid of you. If you think so, you can only ask for luck in the end.
These are what Wei An has seen and learned from Jiang An and other friends around her for a long time. Time has given her an extremely hard appearance, and it has also made her extremely strong inside, so she never takes it for granted, and she will not be extremely sad when she loses.
This is what she is proud of.
Hearing Su Qiao's gentle breathing beside her, Wei An sighed deeply. She couldn't tell Su Qiao everything she knew. Because they were never the same kind of woman.
For her, marriage is a bondage, a predicament, leaving freedom behind and not asking herself, and fighting for a family wholeheartedly. She needs to take responsibility, and Wei An, who thinks that she is not fully prepared, has no courage to give up everything she had before, just for an illusory word.
like.
How unrealistic it sounds. Many people no longer believe it.
Wei'an believes it, but she doesn't expect to have it. The only thing she can confirm is that in this life, the only person she loves is herself. Be open and have nothing to hide.
So what about others? What about Yufan?
??Holding a passer-by attitude from the beginning will make the parting less painful when the parting comes. As with everything, as in everything, in the end, we are all alone.
I remember talking about these issues with Chu Xuan. After hearing this, Chu Xuan frowned and looked at her. After a long silence, she said:
"Weian, you see everything too thoroughly. Such a thoroughness will make your life boring and joyless."
Wei An chuckled and answered her: "Because there is no way to live in a muddle, so I choose to be thorough. It is better to see clearly than to be overwhelmed by the sudden realization. As for the fun, the fun you feel in the thoroughness can be more clear and real. .I enjoy myself."
In the end Chu Xuan said helplessly to Wei An: "You are too selfish, you only love yourself."
At that time, Wei An really wanted to argue with Chu Xuan, but thinking about it now, this is the truth. In her world, she only loves herself and cannot tolerate others.
From this point of view, she and Chu Xuan are like the yin and yang sides of Tai Chi, with different appearances but the same goal by different routes.
I don't know when I fell asleep.
This night, he slept extremely soundly and peacefully. A night without dreams.
After waking up in the morning, I helped Su Qiao make breakfast, and watched her finish before sending her to work. Su Qiao was surprisingly quiet along the way. When she reached the door of her magazine, she only asked Wei An before she opened the door and got off the car:
"Are you and Yufan okay?"
Although Wei An didn't say anything, Su Qiao could feel it. Seeing Wei An this time, she felt a sense of alienation all over her body, as if she didn't want to get close to anyone, deliberately keeping a sense of distance.
Wei An was startled, smiled and shook her head: "No. We are fine."
"Oh." Su Qiao was a little embarrassed, but seeing that Wei An didn't want to say more, she didn't want to ask more.
Seeing Su Qiao entered the company building, Wei An drove to her company. It was the rush hour for work, and she could see the traffic lights at the intersection from a distance, but she could only be stuck here.
The sky outside the car window was gray, and it looked like it was going to rain. Perhaps, this would be the first heavy rain this summer. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com