Some netizens asked me why I chose this career, and I was speechless at the time, yes! The reason why I choose this job is actually more for making a living, but after working for a long time, I like this job.
In fact, I have been thinking that some of the words I write are not exploring the privacy of others, revealing the other side of others. My ultimate goal is to free people from emotional confusion and contradictions.
?Life is not easy, we have gone through it once in life, we should all be in awe of life. So I am really afraid of emotional confusion, causing deeper psychological diseases, if I don't lend a helping hand, then I will be ashamed of this profession.
I really like this form of communication on the Internet. At least some people can really open up and tell you something, thanks to the fact that the Internet platform allows people to hide their real side and show their psychological side.
Tonight I encountered such a thing, a girl named Jing told me the story of teacher-student love.
From the bottom of my heart, I used to be very disgusted with the teacher-student relationship. The main reason was that when I was in high school, there were girls who fell in love with teachers and got married. Rob, too inhumane.
Later, I discovered more and more that why girls like teachers is largely determined by girls' psychology. Most girls like men who are older than themselves. Psychologically speaking, this is why girls naturally want to be protected. At the same time, mature men are very attractive to girls no matter their career or conversation, so it is normal to have teacher-teacher love.
Jing: Teacher Lin, I like the male teacher in our department, do you think it¡¯s okay?
Me: Congratulations, you can fall in love now. Love is a matter for both parties, how can others stop it casually?
I replied her with a smiley face.
Jing: But the teacher I like is a man with a family. At first I wanted to like it for a while and it was over, but now I can¡¯t stop
I really didn't expect that girls now take things like feelings so lightly and casually. I thought about it for a while, and decided to stimulate her to see what she really thought.
Me: Then why not let your favorite teacher get divorced, and then you get married after graduation?
Jing: Hehe, Mr. Lin, how can one be so immoral? He's a family man and I can't destroy his family.
I really don't understand what this girl said. It turned out that she was with her teacher out of liking, not for the purpose of getting married. I was really shocked by the open thoughts of the real girl.
What does this girl like about her teacher? appearance? money? status? Mature? etc? I still don't get it.
Me: Since you don't want to develop relationships for the purpose of marriage, then you are willing to be your teacher's lover?
I asked her directly, I don't want this girl to get too deep and give her best years to this meaningless emotional process.
Jing: Hehe, Teacher Lin, I just want to be his lover, but now I have a problem, and there is a tall boy who likes me, but I don't want to give up this teacher, I don't know what to do?
Me: What do you like about the teacher?
Jing: I like to be stable and mature with him
When I saw this line of text from a girl, I completely collapsed. It seems that mature men are the easiest to confuse girls. Jing's choice is also because the teacher is stable and mature, and she likes it.
And she was confused because another boy pursued her, and the reason was that she still wanted to show her ladylike side among her classmates. This kind of boldness and openness really makes people completely speechless.
Me: Let's leave as soon as possible! If you continue like this, you will lose everything.
Jing: Why is it empty?
I have been in contact with many counselors, and I have also experienced many women who are conflicted because of emotional confusion, but this Internet girl in front of me is doing this, and I really don't want to continue talking with her. But for the future of this girl, I still have to say a few words.
Me: If you don't leave the teacher, you will be discovered by the teacher's wife. In that case, your reputation will be bad, and the boys will stay away from you after they know it. Do you think it is empty?
Jing: The emptiness you mentioned is only the emptiness in this specific environment. I don¡¯t need to look for it. When I go to society in the future, there will be many good men waiting for me. With my appearance and temperament, there should be no shortage of men.
I have seen shameless people, but I have never seen such shameless people. It seems that this girl must be very beautiful. In today's society, beauty is capital, and people rely more on appearance than ability.
I told her that love itself is innocent, but your kind of love, not called love, is the foundation of immaturity.? Simple love.
Love is also a right and an obligation, but if your love violates other people's families, you will be condemned and blamed. At the same time, you still have a handsome guy chasing you. If you continue to play like this, it will be very dangerous and your life may be in danger.
The girl heard me say this, and then she didn't have the arrogant idea just now. She thinks what I said about the danger of life is right. She likes her handsome guy and sends roses to her dormitory every day. Many classmates also envy her. Pity.
Of course, that male student will not let it go. There are many ways for men to compete for a woman, and they may choose to fight by force. Of course, the teacher will not choose force. If this is the case, it will be dangerous.
In fact, from the bottom of my heart, I really hope that the male classmate will leave this girl as soon as possible, it¡¯s too messy, it¡¯s not just an ordinary mess, if she doesn¡¯t completely change her world view, maybe other things will happen to this girl in the future.
When there is a break, there will be chaos later. I advise the girl to leave her teacher as soon as possible, and it will never happen again. Because that boy likes her very much, once a boy is involved in his emotions, he is very sincere and deep, if he is hit, the consequences will be disastrous.
After the conversation with the girl, I fell into thinking why there are so many things like teacher-student love. The most annoying thing is those teachers who have families. Blitz) to seduce those teenage girls?
As the saying goes, one day is a teacher, and one day is a father. What did those teachers do? How can you take on the responsibility of preaching, teaching karma and resolving doubts?
A slap can't be slapped. It's not right to blame many things on the teacher. We should also find out the reasons for some students. It should be said that they are all caught by those bloody film and television dramas in reality, those so-called "Korean Wave" and "American Wave" It was broken, and the tradition handed down by the ancestors for thousands of years was shattered, which is worth pondering. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com