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Chapter 032: The Responsible Man

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    After I finished chatting with this girl named Xue, it was already more than four o'clock in the morning, and I didn't feel sleepy anymore, maybe I was attracted by Xue's story.

    I feel that there are so many strange things in society. Is the society open to a certain extent, or is it the release of human nature that has been suppressed for a long time?

    I can't explain it, and I don't need to think about it, as long as I do my job well, at least it is my responsibility to solve those who are confused by emotional conflicts, and to go on the road happily again.

    After thinking about it for a while, I fell asleep. When I woke up, it was already daylight. Zang Lin kept calling me outside the house: "Brother Cang, get up quickly! There is a client coming today, how can I clean up the room if you don't get up!"

    I rubbed my eyes, made the bed, made a cup of coffee, and ate some biscuits for breakfast.

    Zang Lin laughed. I have a breakfast spot downstairs, and I am too good at living. Is it possible to save money to marry a wife?  I smiled and said, I have no appetite this morning and I don't like to eat.

    But Zang Lin has already handed me a hamburger, "Eat it quickly! How can a big man last a day if he doesn't eat!"

    "Haha, Xiaolin has also learned to love others. I am so touched. Does the sun come out from the west?" I said to Zang Lin with a smile.

    Zang Lin said that I was too poor, and asked me to quickly prepare counseling materials. A male client was coming to counsel this morning.

    I am a little puzzled. During this period of time, there has been a blowout of counselors, one after another. It seems that there are many unknown confusions hidden behind people in reality.

    After I finished eating the hamburger, I took out the commonly used materials for counseling, and prepared to meet this client who was coming to counsel.

    According to Zang Lin, this customer has left her a message online for a long time, and she has not replied to this man.  Zang Lin said that few men on the Internet are decent people, so she didn't want to talk to him, but then Zang Lin was moved by the man's sincere words, saying that it was for his marriage, please Zang Lin  Lin made an appointment with me to talk.

    After the male customer came to our store, it was almost noon.  I think he is only in his thirties, and he is not a very old man like what Zang Lin said. He is wearing a neat suit and looks very neat. He looks like a white-collar worker working in a large company, at least he is a man with a lot of experience.  status man.

    When Zang Lin brought the coffee to the male client, the man seemed a little reserved.  I think there must be something unspeakable in his heart.

    I handed him a cigarette, trying to put some distance between me and him so he wouldn't be so nervous.  Unexpectedly, this kid actually took the cigarette and smoked it.

    When I asked him if he was confused, he just said it directly. He sighed and said that he wanted to divorce now in his marriage, but he was a bit reluctant, so he came to me for counseling.

    He told me that his wife is a college classmate, and they live in two cities, but in order to get married, he had to come to this provincial capital to work.

    I added some water to him, nodded at him, and signaled him to continue.

    He told me that when he and his wife were in a relationship, they had a deep relationship, but because he was injured when working in a foreign company in the provincial capital, he didn't know that the injury had already hurt a key part.

    I heard what he said was a bit cloudy, how could he go to a key part after a little injury?

    ?He seemed to see my doubts, and then pointed his finger under himself. Only then did I understand that it turned out that the man's lifeblood was injured, is it because he has lost his function?  But I'm too embarrassed to ask him.

    The male client told me that after getting married, he and his wife were not happy. They were husband and wife in name, but there was no substantive content between husband and wife at all.

    The man was distressed, he went to various cities to see, but the doctor said nothing serious, just let him rest assured.  But men always feel that they have lost that ability.

    The emotion between husband and wife will not be complete without that aspect, and of course there will be situations.  Now people are not like before, who can bear it silently for the sake of face. Since it is no longer possible, it is inevitable that there will be cracks in the relationship.

    But the man and his wife also came from a relationship, and they both have a certain level of education. The parents of both parties in this marriage also agree, and it¡¯s not that they just broke up, so they spent two years in this kind of asexual life.  .

    The man told me that he had taken a lot of medicine, including traditional Chinese medicine and Western medicine, but none of them helped, which made him very annoyed. Seeing that the children of his peers were getting older, but they did not move, the parents of both sides became anxious.

    However, the man said that he and his wife did not tell their parents, and they discussed adopting a child in the future, which is considered complete.

    When the man talked about this, I thought it seemed that he and his wife still had feelings for each other, so why did he come to me?

      When he talked about two private lives, I quickly stopped him, "Sir, I am not an expert in sex, I am just an emotional counselor, and I only solve emotional confusion, and omit the rest!"

    After I finished speaking, the male client said to me in embarrassment: "Mr. Lin, I'm sorry, I just said too much, I am very conflicted now, the days are still very long, I don't want my wife to suffer this kind of suffering, you said I divorced  OK?"

    "What about your wife's opinion?" I asked him.

    He shook his head, "She doesn't want to, because she thinks that she will make do with life now"

    "How is your relationship as husband and wife?" I asked him again.

    The male client said helplessly that he and his wife could not be said to be good or bad. In order to maintain the family, when they went out together, they were a loving couple.  .

    So the male client thought it was unfair to his wife to continue living like this, so he wanted to try to divorce. When talking with his wife, his wife was in tears, and asked him to see a doctor again, maybe he could find a better treatment.

    ? This kid turned to the matter of husband and wife while he was talking. I understand that kind of matter is also the basis of the relationship between husband and wife, but I am not an expert in sexology, so I cannot give him a scientific answer.

    He said that he had lost confidence in the treatment, so he didn't want to live like this. He thought it was a selfish way of living.

    Speaking of this, I have to give this man a thumbs up. It should be said that he is a man with a sense of responsibility. He is worthy of respect if he thinks of others first.

    He asked me to think of a way for him to see if he could leave.

    As the saying goes, persuasion does not persuade divorce. Even if this man is very responsible, I cannot persuade him to divorce.  Being able to enter the palace of marriage combines fate, emotion and many other aspects.

    I advised him that it would be easy to get a divorce, but if his wife is divorced, it might be difficult to find another good man.  The man nodded. He said he had thought about it, but after a day he felt sorry for his wife. That strong sense of self-blame drove him to divorce quickly so that his wife could live a happy life.

    Hey, a woman should be content with such a good man in this world, she can think of other people's pain, but put her own pain aside, she should be called an upright man.

    I asked the man if he could try to communicate with his wife, maybe he could find a solution.

    The man said that there was no other way but to let the wife go out and find a man, but the wife was not that kind of person and would rather endure it than do that.

    I told him that there are many solutions to this problem on the Internet, you can check it, maybe you can find it.  After all, divorce is not the solution.

    I made two suggestions to this man: one is to let him continue to communicate with his wife. After all, there is still a solution to the privacy between husband and wife. It cannot be solved by asking outsiders, it is just a suggestion.

    Second, I suggest that men still go to see a physiologist. As long as they are not discouraged, they will definitely find a treatment expert, and maybe they can be cured.

    Another one, I suggest that men should not feel inferior every day, but also treat this kind of thing as pressure. The union of husband and wife is a responsibility, and his wife is also responsible.

    The man nodded, he said to go back and try according to my suggestion.

    After the male client left, Zang Lin asked me: "Have you ever been divorced? How do you know so much about marriage?"

    I chuckled, "I'm still a virgin!"

    "Oh! It's disgusting, stop flaunting yourself" Zang Lin stuck out her tongue at me and left.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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