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Chapter 029: Confused Woman

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    An Ping suddenly called me to ask me how my performance was during this period, and I told her that the whole damn performance was poached by that monkey Liu.

    I think that An Ping may have heard the news of my poor performance when she made this call. Maybe it was a small report from Liu Houzi.  There is no way, if you meet such a villainous leader in a company, you have to admit it.

    An Ping told me not to worry. Some customers are like this, and I need to be patient.  She introduced a client to me and said she was her friend and asked me to contact him.

    An Ping's call at this time was not only to comfort me, but also to give me another way out, which moved me very much.  But I am most afraid that someone will put on small shoes for me, and I heard An Ping say that Director Huang has been promoted.  I don't know if Director Huang will punish me when he hears about my poor performance, but his photo is still in my hand, so I don't think that guy dares to let me go yet.

    ? I still follow the previous work pattern. In the morning, I run the business of Teste Company, and then continue to do my emotional counseling work. At present, my emotional counseling room is well-known, and the number of customers has increased. At worst, I quit Anping Company.

    ? Early this morning, Zang Lin asked me when I would be free today. She received an order for counseling and needed me to counsel.

    I asked her if the customer was a man or a woman, and she said it was a woman. I smiled and said to Zang Lin, "Let the customer come over at any time, and I will wait here!"

    Zang Lin gave me a blank look and said that I was too perverted because I was patriarchal.

    The female customer came to the store on time in the afternoon. As soon as she entered the door, she was attracted by my layout that looked like a store but not a store, and a home that looked like a home. She admired my aesthetic point of view.

    After sitting down, drinking coffee and listening to light music, the female customer was very happy, probably because she was attracted by the environment of my store.

    I asked her if she was confused, but she said, the woman said she wanted to talk about the matter with her husband.

    I looked at this woman. She was slightly fat, not beautiful, but very temperamental. I could guess the nature of this woman's work, and she must be in an office.

    She asked me if a man doesn't love a woman, what will he do?

    I didn't expect this woman to ask this topic. This kind of open-ended question is actually the best answer. Since she asked this question, I can guess that the topic she wants to ask must be about marriage and family. This topic will always be discussed.  not finished.

    I said that the performance of a man not loving a woman is nothing more than disregarding his family, not caring for a woman, and so on.

    She asked me again, if men don't have that kind of love affair with women, does it mean that they don't love women anymore.

    I said that this should not be too absolute. It may be that men are stressed and tired, or this function of men may be broken.  I'm not an expert on sex issues, that's all I can answer her.

    Could it be that she and her husband haven't been together for a long time?  Then she blushed and drank her coffee.

    She told me that she and her husband fell in love by themselves without being introduced by a matchmaker since they met each other.

    I don't want to listen to her love history, but when you meet this kind of counselor who likes to recall the past, you have to choose to listen, which is respect for others.

    She said that her husband loves her very much, and takes good care of food, clothing, housing and transportation, but she always feels that life is very dull and boring, which is completely different from the marriage she imagined before.  And her husband is not as romantic to himself as before.

    Hey, it seems that this woman is very demanding. Now that she is married, she is still dreaming of the fantasy she had when she was in love.  In particular, he feels that her husband is not as caring about him as he used to be when they were in love, and he often plays games online.

    One day, a woman woke up in the middle of the night and found that her husband was actually chatting with female netizens online, which made her very angry.

    I often say that since the birth of the Internet as a communication platform, the distance between strangers has been shortened, and all men chat online to seek excitement a lot.

    I asked her how she solved it after she found out her husband was chatting online?  She said that she had a deep talk with her husband, and he regretted it very much, and said that she would never go online in the future.

    In fact, if you can't go online, only ghosts will believe it.  Although it is not like drugs, many people enjoy it.  She said that her husband sometimes doesn't know what to do in front of the computer in the middle of the night.

    The woman took a sip of coffee and glanced at me. I found her face was red, so I didn't ask her again.

    The woman told me again that she is a traditional woman and she is unwilling to accept things that are too open.

    I know what kind of traditional type she is talking about. She may be a romantic type of woman who likes to fantasize every day and is like a bird.

    She sighed, "Mr. Lin, I am very distressed now, he actually went to see the female netizen!", the woman finally expressed her thoughts.

    She couldn't understand why her husband was like this. She sometimes thought about divorce, but she was afraid of divorce.  For this reason, he consulted a lot of books and materials, trying to unravel this mystery.Question, why did my husband love me so much in the past, but now he doesn't love me anymore, and even secretly meets female netizens?

    It seems that this woman is an intellectual woman, always trying to find the answer from books.

    I said that after a long time of husband and wife, family affection is greater than passion, just like left hand holding right hand, it is very normal, there is no need to be so entangled.

    She asked me how to keep it fresh?  I smiled and said to her that the sense of novelty comes from the joint creation and cultivation of both husband and wife. It cannot be created solely by one party, nor can it be deliberately cultivated. If that is the case, it will be counterproductive.

    nnd, as a single man, I have never married or lived with a woman. I admire myself for being able to say such a truth.

    The woman asked me to be more specific. I looked at her and felt that this woman seemed a little nervous. It seemed that she was trying to find an answer from me.

    I didn't give her a specific answer immediately, after all, I don't have a ready-made case, so I can only think from my own perspective.

    I said that after a man and a woman get married, they have to go through a period of child conflict, especially from pregnancy to childbirth. The couple will regard the child as the center, which once dilutes the romance between the couple.

    The woman kept nodding, and said that during that time, both of them were around the child, not to mention being in a hurry. Of course, she put all her focus on the child and didn't consider the existence of her husband at all.

    But as the child grows up, things between husband and wife will return to normal, but she said that she can't find the feeling she used to have.

    I asked the woman if her husband was the pillar in the work unit.  The woman said that her husband is the leader in the unit, has a lot of entertainment, and comes home drunk every time.

    A man of this age should be the leader of the unit. There are seniors and juniors. It is normal to have a lot of work pressure in the unit. It should be said that in the climbing period of career and family, there will inevitably be less for the family.

    I looked at the female client in front of me, and I didn't know what advice to give her. Since she said that she is a traditional woman, she may also be a very conservative woman.

    I suggest that she can try to change herself, such as buying some clothes that make a man's heart beat.  I regret it at this point, is this the category of emotional counseling?

    The woman blushed again when she heard that, and she said that her husband also asked her to wear that kind of clothes, but she didn't like it at all.

    Hearing what he said, I was really speechless.  If a man is tired from working outside and wants to release when he comes home, but he sees a woman who remains unchanged on the bed, he will generally not choose to disturb.

    But as a woman, try to find a synchronized time with a man, such as waiting for a man, or waiting for your husband to come back for supper and drink some red wine, and that kind of warm atmosphere will be created.

    After I said this, the woman couldn't help nodding, thinking that what I said made a lot of sense.  From the look in her eyes, I can feel that she admires me very much.

    After sending the woman away, Zang Lin laughed loudly, "Brother Cang! I didn't expect you to be so powerful and understand the life of couples so well. You must be a good husband and husband when you get married in the future."

    I smiled helplessly, "The customer came here with confusion. Anyway, I have no experience in this field, so I can only talk nonsense!"

    "You're still talking nonsense! You've said so delicately, you've laid out all the qualities a good man should have. I want to marry you" After Zang Lin finished speaking, she blushed.

    nnd, I don't want second-hand goods!  She'd better go find that handsome guy who studied abroad!  Of course, I will not say these words, if I really hit her, Zang Wan will not spare me.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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