The night is quiet, this is the best time for everyone to think about problems.
Zang Lin went home to sleep early, I turned on the computer as usual and logged into QQ. Since Gao Zhuo reminded me, I have developed the habit of logging in to the computer every day, discussing and communicating with people in the virtual network space, and explaining their doubts to them, sometimes it is a kind of fun.
Although many psychological help seekers are received in reality, they are unwilling to face the real environment. After all, people still cannot accept the outlook on life and values ????of people in Western countries.
I sometimes feel that our ancestors have left us with two-faced characteristics. Some people can be modest and gentlemen in reality, but some people can sometimes become beasts in the virtual world when they are not understood by others.
I browsed the news webpage casually, and the little penguin was shaking. I randomly clicked on a friend who added me. This is a lady named a. A polite greeting jumped onto the chat interface: "Excuse me, are you a psychological counselor?"
"I am an emotional counselor, may I help you?" I don't want to make people feel that I am a psychological counselor, after all, psychological counselors are not accepted by most people in Chinese society. Furthermore, psychological counselors need to communicate and communicate with visitors in multiple aspects, which cannot be realized on the Internet. So if someone asks online if they are a psychological counselor, I define myself as emotional counseling, helping people solve emotional confusion and conflicts.
Not to mention, I positioned myself like this, which really improved my network reputation and expanded the space of the network.
"Oh, why is it called an emotional counselor? Is it different from a psychological counselor?" Ms. a asked.
Many people have already asked me such a question. I copied the chat record with another person, "Psychological problems are very complicated. Many problems will not be solved simply by solving psychological problems. Many problem factors need to be considered at a deep level. Emotional problems Attached to psychological problems, with the development of society, emotional problems and confusion are more and more affecting people's development. So I position myself as an emotional counselor, just to help people get out of emotional confusion and guide their emotions in the right direction."
I feel that using these theoretical words to explain my career will be easy for customers to accept. Zang Lin said that I am a typical two-faced person. I am very vulgar in reality, but when I talk to customers, I am gentle and elegant. I cursed secretly, it wasn't vulgar enough to sleep with her, she actually came to fix me.
"Oh, you are so advanced, but it sounds better than psychological counseling. When you talk about psychological counseling, you think you have something wrong with your mind. I like the term 'emotional counselor'." Ms. a typed a string of words and sent A "victory" emoji.
I don't know how many times I have had chats like this, and I just asked, "Thank you, is there any help?"
"Well, I want to chat with you." Ms. a typed another line.
"Okay." I yawned one after another, I was too sleepy, but I still couldn't ignore him, who asked us to do this business.
"How long have you been working in this field?" Ms. A asked.
"I've been doing it for five years. But not full-time." I replied, and I thought they would believe me only if I told my story a little longer.
"Then what do you usually do?" Ms. A asked again.
"I teach at a university." When I said this, I blushed, not knowing what the lady was going to ask again.
"Thank you, you are very sincere." Ms. a said.
"May I ask if you have any confusion?" I didn't want to chat with her any longer, so I asked her again.
"What is the charging standard?" Ms. a asked again.
"I don't charge here" I won't discuss charges with these people here, I have to chat with them first.
"No charge? Isn't that a waste of your precious time?" Ms. a seems not to understand.
"Yes, I don't charge online, but in reality I charge according to the situation." I often remind myself to be patient.
I also understand that emotional counseling on the Internet is different from reality. In reality, the price is clearly marked for an hour. Many people cannot afford such high consulting fees, so they choose the Internet.
But on the Internet, some people will also ask about consulting fees. In this case, I simply say that there is no fee, which may be able to retain people.
I sometimes think, even if I learn Lei Feng online, who doesn¡¯t have emotional confusion and conflicts, maybe everyone has it, and helping others is also considered helping myself, so that I can get in touch with people who are willing to do things on the Internet, And these people are part of society.
"I'm in Huanan District, City H, how about you?" Ms. A typed another string of characters.
& nMy friend, do you want your husband to help you? "I still don't understand.
"Yeah, this is where I'm confused. In fact, my husband is very good. We have been married for many years. He persuaded me to find a boyfriend, but I didn't find anyone better than my husband in reality. So my husband asked me to find someone online. , but I am a supervisor in the company, the unit is very busy, and I have little time to surf the Internet. But we sometimes surf the Internet together, especially in the chat room, and I feel very good in it." Ms. a replied to me.
"Is this what your husband thinks?" I think there are so many wonders in the world.
"That's right, I don't even know why he thinks this way. Let's talk about this first, my husband called me." Ms. a said softly to Mike.
"Okay, goodbye, good night." I turned off the computer and logged out. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com