Both Lin Ziyao and Xu Feng felt that there must be a deep talk today.
Both of them restrained their minds. The air is less charming and more solemn.
"Don't you like children?" Lin Ziyao asked Xu Feng softly.
"Don't you like children?" Xu Feng asked Lin Ziyao softly.
"No." Lin Ziyao said firmly, she couldn't let Xu Feng misunderstand that she didn't want to have children for him.
"No." Xu Feng said firmly, he couldn't let Lin Ziyao think that he didn't want to have a family with her, he was not an irresponsible scumbag.
He can't wait to post "I love Lin Ziyao" 10086 times in Moments every day.
With exactly the same words and tone, the two were taken aback for a second, and then burst out laughing together.
The tacit understanding between the two is really perfect.
"Then I'll talk first." Lin Ziyao said.
Since you want to live together, you must be open and honest, especially for this kind of principled issue, you should fully communicate and exchange opinions.
Lin Ziyao feels that having or not having children does not involve right or wrong. It is just a matter of personal choice. The crystallization of love is not limited to children. On the contrary, many families with children do not have love.
As for one party imposing one's will on the other party in the name of love, and if the other party does not compromise, accusing the other party of not loving oneself and refusing to sacrifice for oneself as a victim, this approach seems to Lin Ziyao , is to kidnap in the name of love, it is a big mistake, it is simply pua.
If you are so great, you should change yourself to cater to the other party, why let the other party cater to you.
She and Xu Feng have been together for so long, and they have never discussed the issue of whether or not to have a child and when to have a child. It's not that she deliberately avoided it, but she really didn't think about it.
To be honest, the experience of raising children in the previous life made Lin Ziyao a little bit against childbearing. Those sleepless nights, those anxious times, and those helpless moments forced Lin Ziyao to collapse.
Fear of giving birth is not because he doesn't love his own children. On the contrary, in order to let his children grow up in a complete family, Lin Ziyao has spent his whole life, not happy.
It is because I love children so much and want to give them a life without mistakes, so I am afraid that I will not do well, and I am afraid that I will repeat the same mistakes.
It's not that Lin Ziyao doesn't believe in Xu Feng's affection for her, but he's afraid of the sharpness and ruthlessness of the years.
She is not yet mentally prepared, and she doesn't want to be as muddleheaded as she was in her previous life, reluctantly welcoming the arrival of her child.
Perhaps it is because she is not strong enough now, so she has these fears and uneasiness. When she is strong enough, maybe she will be braver and not be as worried as she is now.
Today, Luo Ting's children lead the conversation.
Lin Ziyao felt that there was nothing unspeakable between himself and Xu Feng.
This is also where she feels comfortable with Xu Feng.
Lin Ziyao pondered for a while, and said, "I just don't really want to have children yet."
Xu Feng listened carefully, with a gentle halo in his eyes like a bright moon.
Xu Feng understands that it's the feeling when someone asks you "do you want a child" and you instinctively refuse.
Xu Feng felt that there were tens of thousands of reasons for wanting a child and not wanting a child, just like in a debate contest, both the pros and cons tried their best to convince the other party, but no one could convince the other party.
People can only follow their inner thoughts and most instinctive intuition.
Sometimes intuition is the most accurate and can best reflect the subconscious deep in one's heart. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com