In fact, looking back later, these anxieties are unnecessary. Within reasonable limits, the mother's mood is more critical.
It¡¯s not alarmist talk, it¡¯s no news that mothers during pregnancy suffer from depression.
Significant changes in hormone levels in women during pregnancy or breastfeeding can affect changes in neurotransmitters in the brain that regulate mood. Hormone changes can make pregnant women more prone to anxiety. Therefore, when a pregnant woman starts to feel more anxious and depressed than usual, she should remind herself that these are normal reactions during pregnancy, so as not to become trapped in the pain and disappointment.
For most women, pregnancy is one of the happiest times in their lives, but in fact nearly 10% of women will feel different degrees of depression during pregnancy. Perhaps because people firmly believe that pregnancy is a kind of happiness for women, even many gynecologists ignore the diagnosis and treatment of depression during pregnancy, and simply attribute the depression of pregnant women to temporary emotional disorders. Many gynecologists ignore the diagnosis and treatment of depression during pregnancy, and simply attribute the depression of pregnant women to temporary emotional disorders. In fact, if it is not paid enough attention and treated in time, depression during pregnancy is also quite dangerous. It will affect the ability of pregnant women to take care of themselves and their fetuses, and bring adverse consequences to mothers and babies.
In the previous life, Lin Ziyao had just given birth, and because of the cold relationship with her husband, and facing the difficulties of her mother-in-law, Lin Ziyao was almost on the verge of depression. It was her father Lin Jianguo and mother Zhu Danqing who came to her door to support her and relieve her, and she slowly came out of the haze.
In Lin Ziyao's view, such things as "a woman who is weak but a mother is strong" and "mother is a superman" are a kind of kidnapping and flattery for women. It seems that a weak mother or a mother who is not a superman is not a competent mother. Like my mother, mothers are also human beings, and of course they have powers that are fragile and weak.
Lin Ziyao looked at Liu Fei's depressed look, and comforted him softly: "Isn't this child eating well? How can I say that I don't have breast milk?"
With a sad face, Liu Fei said: "This child keeps falling asleep after drinking milk, and he gets hungry after a while. My mother and my mother-in-law said that I don't have enough milk and want me to add milk powder."
Lin Ziyao patted Liu Fei's shoulder lightly, and said comfortingly: "Nursing is hard work, haven't you heard that sentence? Trying hard to breastfeed shows how tiring breastfeeding is. When tired, the child will naturally Fell asleep."
Then Lin Ziyao scratched the soles of the child's feet with his hand, but the child did not wake up, Lin Ziyao flicked the soles of the child's feet gently, the child woke up, and continued to drink.
Liu Fei was overjoyed and touched her son's forehead lovingly.
Lin Ziyao watched with a smile.
"As for your child wanting to eat after a while, it may be due to insufficient milk, or the child is seeking comfort." Lin Ziyao said softly.
"Does the child stop eating every time he takes two puffs?" Lin Ziyao asked.
Liu Fei nodded emphatically, Lin Ziyao is really amazing, he understands everything.
Lin Ziyao explained: "Mother has the most familiar smell to the child. It is normal for the child to want to suck when he smells this smell. You can try to let other people hug the child to see if this happens. .¡±
As expected, Liu Fei had a smile on her face.
"Ziyao, you are so good, you even know how to breastfeed." Liu Fei said.
Lin Ziyao could only move out his little nephew again, and said, "I also heard from my sister-in-law."
"Your sister-in-law knows a lot." Liu Fei said.
Lin Ziyao twitched the corners of his mouth, wondering if his sister-in-law in Hwaseong would sneeze.
The two women babbled and talked a lot in the room.
Lin Ziyao, an unmarried young woman with no children, instructs the novice mother Liu Fei in raising children, how strange it looks.
It happens that one person speaks clearly and logically, and one person takes it for granted
In the living room, Xu Feng and Luo Ting were sitting and eating peanuts.
"Your daughter-in-law is fine." Luo Ting praised.
Xu Feng's face was pale, and he didn't show restraint at all, and said: "It's up to you to say."
That's why he wanted to do everything possible to marry her back home.
Xu Feng smiled deeply.
Xu Feng and Lin Ziyao live together. In fact, they are no different from husband and wife. They are even better than husband and wife. Both of them are on the rise in their careers. A certificate doesn't matter.
Luo Ting lowered his voice and said, "I advise you not to get married so soon, especially having children, it's too troublesome."
Xu Feng was surprised.Looking at Luo Ting, he thought that Luo Ting would be able to do everything well if he had a son, and he enjoyed the current family life very much.
Luo Ting felt that Xu Feng had misunderstood him, and quickly explained: "It's not that I don't love children, my children are as dear as my eyeballs, but I don't think it's necessary to have them so early."
"If we had a baby later, Liu Fei and I would be more prepared." Luo Ting said.
Xu Feng thought of Luo Ting and Liu Fei's flustered appearance just now, and nodded in agreement. Luo Ting and Liu Fei are both natives of Huaihai, and there are four old people who can help them. If there were no old people to help, Luo Ting and Liu Fei would have collapsed.
The so-called preparation is not only physical and material preparation, but also psychological preparation.
Some people can't support themselves, but they give birth to children one after another regardless of their care, making the children suffer from material deprivation, and boasting that "we used to live even harder, but now children are too squeamish", such parents , I feel that giving life to a child is a great gift, but I don't realize that it is also the responsibility of parents to raise the child well and give him a complete life.
Although some people are adults, they have lived in the castle built by their parents since they were young. They are still children in their hearts. "Children" become parents and are unwilling to bear the responsibility of being parents. The child was thrown to grandparents and grandparents, and he became the shopkeeper himself.
"Then you kid?" Xu Feng asked.
Luo Ting was embarrassed, but he had a very good relationship with Xu Feng, so he didn't hide it, and said in a low voice, "It was an accident."
Xu Feng suddenly realized that it was no wonder that Luo Ting got married suddenly. It turned out that he married his son.
Xu Feng glanced at Luo Ting, and Luo Ting glared at Xu Feng.
"What are you talking about?" Lin Ziyao and Liu Fei opened the door and came out.
Luo Ting immediately stopped talking.
"Where's the baby?" Luo Ting asked.
"Fall asleep." Liu Fei said happily.
"Husband, Ziyao is really good. He actually put the child to sleep." Liu Fei said.
Luo Ting thanked Lin Ziyao a thousand times, but felt that it was not easy for Lin Ziyao to put this little ancestor to sleep.
The four chatted a few more words before Xu Feng and Lin Ziyao took their leave. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com