"Did you have a job before?" Lin Ziyao couldn't help asking.
"Yes, I am a college student in the 1970s, and I can be regarded as a proud child of heaven." Shen Xianyun said with some pride.
"Did you give up your career for the sake of your family?" Lin Ziyao asked?
This seems to be a routine.
Shen Xianyun nodded with a wry smile, and said: "At that time, the child was just born, Yunfei's father was sick again, and his mother was getting old, so he asked me to resign and take care of the elderly and children at home. After I went to kindergarten, it was okay for me to go out and look for a job, so I quit my job and stayed at home; taking care of the elderly and taking care of the children. Later, Yunfei¡¯s career improved a lot, so he told me not to look for a job at all, and stay at home with peace of mind. I don¡¯t have much ambition, and I like to live a small life, so I became a full-time housewife.¡±
It turned out that Shen Xianyun cut off his own wings.
"And then?" Lin Ziyao asked.
"A man changes when he has money." Shen Xianyun said with a wry smile.
Shen Xianyun said: "I told you, don't laugh at me. I had a fight with Yunfei too, but what can I do? I can't earn any money, and my entire wealth and life are tied to him. How can I compete with him?" Well; once, he was driven into a hurry, and he didn't come home for half a month, and I couldn't do anything about him."
Shen Xianyun bit her lower lip hard, leaving a deep tooth mark, she continued: "At that time I was arguing about getting a divorce, but my parents and brothers all came to persuade me not to divorce, saying that Yunfei's development is now That's great, if I get divorced, I will only benefit those women outside, and then I will have a job, no money, no children, and I won't be able to fight, so I really have nothing."
Is the family's words right or wrong? The family only saw the material abundance that Lin Yunfei brought to Shen Xianyun, but they didn't see the deep sorrow that Lin Yunfei brought to Shen Xianyun.
But Shen Xianyun finally compromised. Whether it was to maintain the harmony and stability of the family, for the healthy growth of the children, or for other things, Lin Ziyao didn't want to think about it, and there was no need to think about it. Everyone's life is different, not a sentence or two What is said is clear, and it is not a simple right or wrong that can be judged.
Some people may judge that Shen Xianyun has no backbone, and has repeatedly endured her husband who has made mistakes, losing the bottom line of marriage loyalty, but marriage is like drinking water, knowing whether it is warm or not, Shen Xianyun must have his own considerations.
But no matter what, Lin Ziyao warned himself that women must be financially independent.
Facing Lin Ziyao, who was completely unfamiliar and had no life intersect with him, Shen Xianyun relaxed and even shed tears.
Lin Ziyao was startled by Shen Xianyun's sudden tears, and hurriedly handed the tissue to Shen Xianyun.
Shen Xianyun took out two tissues, wiped away tears, and said, "Later, I also figured it out. I am the only Mrs. Lin. As long as I don't give way, other women will have nothing to do with me. Later I found out that Yun Actually, Fei didn't want to get a divorce either, he was playing outside, he still cared about his family and was good to the children, so I just turned a blind eye to it, that's it, Yun Fei felt that he owed me instead, It¡¯s better for me, and I hate taking care of my parents and brothers.¡±
Shen Xianyun smiled mockingly, and said: "The family relationship is more harmonious."
Lin Ziyao remembered a Hong Kong TV series she watched a few years ago. There was a wife in the house of a rich man, and there were four "wives" outside. The wife allowed the four "wives" to call themselves "wives" outside. Because the wife of the main house thinks that she is the only "wife" in the name, and the rich man has only brought the wife of the main house back to the hometown to worship the ancestors for more than 30 years, so the wife of the main house feels that her status is as stable as Mount Tai, but she has come up with feudalism. The generosity of the first wife in the family of the time allowed him to live in peace with the four "concubines" outside; Lin Ziyao sighed, unexpectedly, the plot in the TV series would be reflected in reality.
However, the development of the plot behind the TV series is not as expected by the "wife in the house". One day, the rich man suddenly proposes to take his newly-accepted "little concubine" back to the hometown to worship the ancestors, and the "wife in the house" is struck by lightning.
Looking at Shen Xianyun's appearance, it doesn't seem like subjective generosity, but rather a sense of helplessness.
Lin Ziyao sincerely hoped that Shen Xianyun's ending would not be like the "wife in the house" in the TV series.
Shen Xianyun went on to say: "Later, I told Yunfei that if he was looking for a woman outside, as long as he didn't have true feelings, I wouldn't care."
Lin Ziyao's brain suddenly twitched, and he asked curiously: "Then how can you guarantee that he has no real feelings?"
Shen Xianyun said: "You can't have a fixed female companion. A female companion can't exceed half a year at most."
Lin Ziyao gasped, this is really unheard of.
theIn the past, Lin Yunfei followed the rules of the game very well, and Shen Xianyun also pretended not to know about Lin Yunfei's affairs outside, but this time, Lin Yunfei violated the rules of the game.
Shen Xianyun said to Lin Ziyao: "If your husband is a successful man in the future, you will understand my thoughts."
Lin Ziyao shouted in his heart: "No, I won't understand, I will never share my lover with others."
"When some women see a successful man like Yunfei, they will do everything possible to pester him. Men are all greedy cats, and it is inevitable to be greedy occasionally." Shen Xianyun said.
Ganqing Shen Xianyun got the true biography of the ancestors in the Grand View Garden.
These are all feudal dross thoughts. Although Lin Ziyao disagreed with Shen Xianyun in his heart, he showed a cute expression on his face.
Shen Xianyun solemnly said to Lin Ziyao: "You can't tell Huang Ying what I told you today."
Lin Ziyao nodded emphatically, and said, "Don't worry, keeping secrets for clients is our professional ethics."
Shen Xianyun was very satisfied, pointing to his empty cup and asked Lin Ziyao: "What kind of tea did you drink for me just now?"
"Shou Mei." Lin Ziyao said.
Shoumei is a kind of Fuding white tea, and the price is affordable, which is in line with the consumption level of her little lawyer.
However, this longevity eyebrow cake has a bit of jujube fragrance. The production of jujube fragrance is not abnormal, and it is the result of the joint efforts of various parties. Only with the right longevity eyebrows, the right craftsmanship, the right pressed cakes, and the combination of all of them, and with qualified storage conditions, can the rich jujube aroma be aged.
Shen Xianyun smiled and said: "I rarely drink white tea, but I didn't expect the taste to be quite good."
Shen Xianyun's smile added a bit of beauty to her, and made her flexible and lively. It is said that love comes from the heart, Lin Ziyao thought, if it weren't for the bad things these years, a noble lady like Shen Xianyun should have a good life.
"White tea not only has a light taste, but also cools down the fire, and has anti-inflammatory effects. It is most suitable to drink in summer." Lin Ziyao said. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com