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The boy's mother looked happy and continued, "Seeing that I am so busy and ignorant, my father raised his hand, and it was my mother who pulled it away in time.
That day, my father didn't hit me.
Even, in the memory since then, my parents have never beaten or scolded me.
On the contrary, in memory, my parents prefer me.
My parents will let me choose the eggs cooked for my brother and me for breakfast; my parents will always give me the first fruit snacks at home and let me share them; whenever my brother and I have disputes, my parents never participate. Not to mention saying to me: 'You have to give in to my brother. ¡¯ Such words; what they said most was: ¡®Fix it yourself. '.
(The smile on the boy's face is getting bigger and bigger, and his voice is full of laughter.)
Parents send us to school and kindergarten, let me choose whether to send it to my father or my mother; when there is a parent-teacher meeting, everyone else goes to one parent, but in my parent-teacher meeting, both parents attend; I have not yet entered the homes of ordinary people when traveling , my mother would take me out for a walk every year, and live a pure 'mother-daughter world' with me.
In my growing memory, I was indeed a rich daughter. Including my younger brother, more often he lets me go. Because, he imitated his parents in a way. Delicious and fun, first ask me: ¡®Sister, do you want it? '
I still remember that my younger brother came to pick me up for the whole third year of self-study in the evening. (laugh)
And every time he came to pick me up, he either brought me a piece of chocolate or stuffed me with a piece of fruit. So much so that my classmates like him and call him Little Nuannan.
Our siblings have always been brothers and sisters. Until I got married, my brother was still uncomfortable. (laugh)
Every few days I would call: 'Sister, how are you doing? Is brother-in-law treating you well? '
Human memory always has blind spots. Many memories of our childhood are sealed in the minds of our parents.
In my impression, we love each other since we were born, and we are born sisters, friends and brothers.
And the truth was revealed by my mother after I became a mother: when I was a child, I was no more generous than my family's eldest treasure!
I suddenly realized.
All this is because I have a pair of parents who are careful and good at asking for help.
Mom said that after she and Dad noticed my change, they asked their friend who was a teacher for help. Their friends told them that birth order determines a child's personality, but parental upbringing has a greater impact on children than birth order.
Parents back then, like me and Haita¡¯s father today, had many reasons to love their second child.
Erbao is more sensible and well-behaved, and Erbao needs more care when he is young. As parents again, without the initial panic, we can enjoy the surprises brought by our children's growth
These reasons are natural, but the problem is that for infants and young children, their parents are their whole world.
Before they knew nothing about the world, they could understand their parents' feelings for them better than people of any age.
The boss is more likely to be overwhelmed by being plundered and neglected, while the second child is often more cute and lovable because of thousands of favors.
The suggestion from my parents and friends to my parents is that the more you like the second child, the more you have to favor the eldest child. In this way, there is a balance.
Parents and friends also told them: 'The deep brotherhood is not that Kong Rong let Li out, but was guided by parents. '
Only by respecting the status of the boss and allowing him to enjoy the authority of the boss, will he behave as you want.
In this regard, my parents have implemented it very well. So much so that over the years, I have never felt that they actually like the younger brother more in their hearts.
It's just that when they are biased towards me in their daily life, and I get compensation, I learn to love because I am richly loved.
Especially for my younger brother, I also want to love him psychologically and compensate him because of the privilege of being the eldest brother given by my parents.
In fact, parental love is also conditional.
When I became more and more lovely, the balance that was once out of balance in their hearts was quietly balanced again.
During this process, my parents also gradually understood that their love is not the water in the measuring cup, if you give more to the eldest, you will give less to the second.
Parents' love is like rivers, lakes and seas, no matter how you give it, there is no end.
Having given birth to two babies, I burst into tears as my mother told me as plain as water.
In the loveliest time, I met the person who loves me the most.
However, if it weren't for my mother's memory killing, I would never know that my life was once loved by my parents with such good intentions.
At that time, I realized a truth that it is the parents who should be educated.Mother herself, not the eldest, this is also the epiphany my parents had back then.
My parents only graduated from high school, and they are not education experts.
However, they are willing to ask for help, advice, and exploration for my brother and me, in order to make us children who are physically and mentally healthy.
But I, who have been studying for so many years, still follow the ancient Kong Rong Rangli thinking like traditional parents when encountering problems.
This is too stupid and naive, and really shouldn't continue.
But, Xiaoqima, do you know?
(The tone of the boy's mother sounds a little happy.)
Unexpectedly, once the change is discovered, many things will be really effective immediately.
After the discussion with my mother that day, Haita's father and I began to have a blatant preference for Dabao.
If Erbao wants to touch Dabao's things, we will ask her to ask her brother for advice.
At the beginning, Dabao would disagree; but after a few times, Dabao would say: ¡®I¡¯ll just play with you for a minute. ¡¯; and later, his room was completely open to his sister.
Even if Er Bao smashed the Lego that he had been working on all day, he just sighed and put it together silently.
After such a few rounds, Erbao became Dabao's fan girl, following wherever she went. (Covering mouth and laughing, wherever Dabao goes, Erbao crawls over and follows.)
We said to Dabao: If you have your own things to do and you don¡¯t want your sister to disturb you, you have the right to say no. If she doesn¡¯t listen, you can ask your parents for help.
(hey-hey)
Having said that, no matter how entangled Erbao was, Dabao never lost his temper again, and sometimes he was more patient than us.
In the past, our hearts were transformed by Erbao.
But now, our hearts will be melted again and again by the inadvertent friendship between the two brothers and sisters. "
The boy's mother looked up at one big and one small not far away. Then she said to Chu Lihua with a smile on her lips and eyebrows: "Take them out to play on weekends, and on the way back, the two babies will sleep.
(Ha ha)
What's interesting is that Erbao in the safety seat would hold his brother's hand every time, with his little feet resting on his brother's lap.
When they fell asleep, my father and I looked at them contentedly. The emotional balance that was once tilted has quietly returned to balance.
Sure enough, there is no uncute baby, only parents who don't know how to check and balance. "
Chu Lihua was melted by the law of happiness passed down from generation to generation, and a seed quietly germinated in her heart. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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