Having experienced so much, it seems that many of my psychological problems still remain on paper.
I understand the truth, but I just can't connect with the reality.
Just like shopping, it is still said that it is mainly practical, but it is cheap to buy, thinking that there are not a few things that can be used in the future.
When buying clothes, choose cheap ones, regardless of whether they look good or not, whether they will be worn out or not, as long as they are cheap, buy them.
At the same time, I am not willing to throw away waste such as bottles, cans, cardboard boxes, and keep them for sale.
Obviously know that there is a saying like this - if you calculate how much the house costs per square meter, and then calculate the sundries placed on it, is it worth the money. You will instantly want to throw these clutter out.
It's just when I do these things, I really don't think about them. Only when you calm down, you will often regret that you didn't
Chu Lihua knew that this was abnormal, but she always felt that she couldn't change it. Later she saw Huang Weiwen saying, "Excessive hoarding, that is us as adults, some kind of compensation for the extreme lack of material in the past"
The most frightening thing is that Chu Lihua is unwilling to buy any slightly expensive item, "Aren't they all the same?" A subconscious feeling is that it should not be done, how can I use such a good thing? It will fall, it will break, it will cause trouble
Chu Lihua has a feeling of anxiety and apprehension when facing any good things. She always feels that such things are wasteful in the hands of a rough man like herself, and the strange thing is that the results of good things in her hands are usually negative. broken or missing.
According to the psychological knowledge analysis I have learned, this is because I subconsciously feel that I am not worthy of good things. Everything that happens is not accidental, and has some hidden meaning
The biggest disadvantage of living too poor is that it turns you into a person who doesn't believe in good things, you don't believe that they exist, and you don't believe that they will come.
You are greedy and hasty, timid and arrogant, your heart is riddled with holes, you are always terrified, you can neither enjoy good things nor distinguish beautiful things in your whole life, "Aren't they all the same?" I said to myself , and later said so to others
Is he really hopeless?
No, no, in fact, changes have taken place at each level, but a complete system has not been formed; the effect will not be displayed.
Well then, the question comes back to the content of the chat with Liu Xingting tonight.
Build a system to change your own destiny.
That is to say in "The Road to Wealth and Freedom", to build a complete and great goal, a goal that cannot be ignored by you in case of any difficulties.
Chu Lihua is building a blueprint for the future in her heart so that she can live in the future ahead of time.
All this was interrupted by a rapid ringing of the bell.
Chu Lihua's heart was pounding with fright, if this woke up the three children
After answering the phone, Chu Lihua was about to greet the other party's ancestors, but Yang Shichao's anxious voice came from inside, "Chu Lihua, come here quickly, something happened to Yingying."¡ª¡ª
"What's wrong?"
¡ª¡ª "She had a stomachache and then bled."
Chu Lihua hurriedly said, "I'll be right over," and hung up the phone.
Chu Lihua quickly called Liu Xingting again and asked if he was in the hospital.
Very helpless, she knocked on the door again to call Meng Xianxiang out.
¡ª¡ª"Brother, I'm really sorry, something happened to Huang Yingying, I have to go with them to the hospital, please help me take care of the children."
Just to explain, Chu Lihua quickly opened the door and went out with her mobile phone in hand-
"It's not safe outside now"
It's too late to say.
He had no choice but to wake up Qing Yunfei again, let him accompany the children, and chased him out by himself.
Not long after Chu Lihua ran out, the phone rang again, and she quickly picked it up, "Don't worry, I've already left the house, please tell Yingying not to worry. My classmate is a doctor, and I've already told him, after we go to the hospital can find him."
¡ª¡ª"Sister, where are you now? Wait for me. Don't go out alone at night here. How many times have I told you, but I just can't remember."
Meng Xianxiang's helpless and eager words made Chu Lihua stop immediately.
yes! There is nothing wrong with me getting flustered whenever something happens to me.What about?
When Meng Xianxiang called Yang Shichao and told them the address of the hospital, he asked them to take a taxi there.
He and Meng Xianxiang also took a taxi to meet up at the hospital.
A group of people gathered in the hospital, because of Liu Xingting's relationship, Huang Yingying was quickly pushed into the examination room.
The waiting time was particularly difficult, and various bad thoughts flashed in Chu Lihua's mind.
She prayed over and over again that everything was well!
No, I don't know how long it took. After all the inspections were completed, the results came out soon.
¡ª¡ª"It's okay? Doctor Liu, are you sure? At that time, Yingying was in so much pain that she could hardly hold on."
¡ª¡ª"The test results are all normal, and some pregnant women do bleed when they are more than four months old. This is a normal phenomenon.
As for the pain in her stomach that she said, it was the pain caused by the psychological effect of being too nervous. It is estimated that she basically did not feel any pain when she first entered the hospital. "
Huang Yingying's tossing this time scared everyone enough.
Fortunately, it was a false alarm.
On the way back, Chu Lihua suddenly wanted to understand a truth.
It is the kind of truth that comes out of personal experience. If psychological effects really cause physical pain, then recovery must be true.
Can you tell them about this example?
Similarly, I always hold on to the past family of origin, and always try to set myself up for misfortune. The fundamental reason is to get attention.
Just like Huang Yingying, isn't that the case tonight? Although it is not good to guess others like this, but
When Chu Lihua was woken up by Meng Xianxiang, she was still in a daze. She fell asleep soon after entering the room.
Early the next morning, Qing Yunfei woke up and found Chu Lihua sleeping beside him.
His heart skipped a beat for no reason.
Get up gently, for fear of disturbing the people around you.
He even quietly took the children out and changed the room.
Meng Xianxiang woke up and saw Qing Yunfei like this, he shook his head helplessly.
People, you always know how to cherish after you lose it.
If Qing Yunfei is really willing to change his temper again, perhaps it is best for the child to find a way to reconcile them.
Judging from the situation last night, that doctor Liu is too competitive.
The first thing Chu Lihua did after waking up was to decide to provide the people in the club with all the items needed for walnut moxibustion for a period of time. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com