After Liu Xingting finished speaking, the air froze, and everyone was frozen.
After a long time, Chu Lihua choked up and said, "I understand everyone's feelings. I have gone through a lot of detours. The cost is not small. I really feel the same about everyone's eyesight. That's why I did this. Can't wait to share my experience with you all.
I am not trying to sell anything, everything can be bought online. "
After finishing speaking, Chu Lihua stood up and pushed the twins away. Of course, she still remembered to go to the front desk to settle the bill.
Liu Xingting stood up almost instantly to keep up.
Now Xiaoqi is almost always nestled in Meng Xianxiang's arms.
This time the celebration banquet made Chu Lihua very uncomfortable.
I don't know whether they have lost confidence or what the reason is. I thought it would be a collective joining of all the members, but I didn't expect to have to work so hard to persuade them.
Or is it beautiful only when it is not perfect? In many cases, it is a heart-warming retreat, because it is easier for us to release the many shackles that bind our hearts, and it is easier to let ourselves go; let us know how to retreat and slow down in our impetuous world, and tell ourselves that you are what you are. That's fine; there's no such thing as perfection, only imperfect perfection.
Think about the same thing for yourself. At the beginning, you have to try any hungry method you encounter.
But later, after trying a lot, gradually I will no longer have that kind of joy.
And the reason why I still have such a high enthusiasm to try it now is also the reason why I have read a lot of books on controlling emotions due to the changes in emotions during the experience.
? Like most, meeting the unknown self. think
Today's dinner, I may be too happy. Not caring about other people's feelings. It's also possible that, in their view, it's not necessarily that they are showing off.
Sure enough, after being blown by the wind, people became much more awake. Tonight was originally a good thing, but because I didn't express my emotions well, it led to the current result.
Just like myself, when I am in a good mood, I can completely enter my heart. When I am overwhelmed by garbage emotions and many negative energies, I can deeply feel the blockage in my heart.
What others said sounds more like irony and showing off.
When I'm in a bad mood just like when I first went to Beijing, my work was blocked all the way. I didn't rest for six months in a row.
One day all the sticking points piled up and I felt my emotions explode, so I stopped all work and resigned.
At that time, I seemed to have seen the seven-step method of organizing emotions, but at that time, my eyes were reading words, but my heart was full of emotions. I pressed my hands to my uncomfortable heart and felt the warmth of my hands;
Say to yourself, "I have a problem with my emotions. I shouldn't resist and hate this emotion at this moment. I should accept it. The world is full of wonders, and people have their own choices. I demand myself with humanity, but I can't control it." Other people's monkey and snake nature."
It was raining heavily outside the window, I didn't fall asleep, and then I laughed, it turns out that when we say that other people have other emotions, it is so easy, but when it falls on us, we are just as powerless.
Hehe, what's funny is that before that, I managed to rescue a colleague who was anxious because of physical reasons in the first two days.
Afterwards, she also showed off her happiness in Moments, and she Seeing her Moments, she was really happy at that time.
But looking back at myself now, isn't the me at this moment a bit like her at that moment, there is nothing that can't be overcome, only the mood that can't be overcome.
Chu Lihua let go of the burden in her heart, and figured it out, people walk their own way, and what they don't suffer now will be pitfalls on the road in the future.
So, this can be regarded as putting an end to all bad emotions. She feels her own emotions, perceives the discomfort in her heart, asks herself why she feels angry, and then asks what can I change, change what can be changed, and accept what cannot be changed. So I feel more comfortable in my heart.
I still remember that when Wu Ming left, I ran in the heavy rain in his hometown, just to find the warmth of the past.
Later, on a heavy rainy day, I walked down two streets with an umbrella, sat in a small space, listened to decadent Western music, and slowly ate spicy snail noodles with tears in my eyes. I couldn¡¯t eat fast because I wasn¡¯t hungry. , but it was too spicy to eat, and tears flew.
When I walked out, it was still in the rain, but all the negative energy and haze were suddenly healed.
Once, Li Hongyang, a high school classmate, suddenly sent a WeChat message in the middle of the night to tell himself that the male coed in the triangle relationship between the two before got married, andAlready had a daughter.
What are you doing sending me messages without sleeping in the middle of the night? At that time, I was very depressed and wanted to say something; in the end, it was just a faint "oh", and since then, I have never contacted him again.
However, at that time, he suddenly became interested in Qing Yunfei and wanted to take him down quickly.
Think about it, at that time, I still received interference because of this incident.
Now I find that the intolerance and anger at that time are nothing more than the incompatibility of other people's way of doing things with my own, and I keep asking in my heart, how can people be like this?
The night wind blew by, and Liu Xingting followed quietly behind. Chu Lihua smiled, people are like that, if you look at her strangely, she probably also looks at you disliked, you think that is the minimum respect and standard of being a human being, she doesn't care.
We can only be responsible for our own lives, and only she can walk the lives of others.
Chu Lihua turned her head and smiled, "I'm sorry, I suddenly became emotionally overwhelmed, but it has stabilized now."
Liu Xingting asked with a smile, "How did you cure it?"
¡ª¡ª"Some diseases can only be cured by chili peppers, haha. Chili peppers are just a joke. I know that what can be cured is only because I perceive my emotions, don't fight them, and dig my inner feelings inward; then accept my emotions, so that People and things that are contradictory and conflicting are also accepted.
All people and things exist for their own reasons. We cannot ask the world to operate according to the rules we recognize. At least we can control ourselves, manage our emotions, and adjust our emotions.
Whether people are happy or not depends not on how much you have and how much you get; it depends on whether you can sort out your emotions and face all the unpredictability in the necessary interpersonal relationships you are in.
Don't demand perfection from yourself, and don't demand perfection from others, only imperfection is beauty!
In addition, "too much kindness, good fortune slips away", on the issue of our survival, we must know how to stand up and stand for our own interests, so as to prevent ourselves from losing the most basic right to survival.
They are also thinking about their own interests, I am hahaha" (Remember the website address of this website: www.hlnovel.com