Since I resigned from the capital in six years, you and I have been strangers for a long time!
However, due to this naughty fate, I met an old friend in Xinjiang.
? Why should we know each other when we meet each other? Forget about Jianghu Shanghuaijun;
Going here was originally a choice, but now it looks like an affair!
Chu Lihua really didn't know what to do at this moment.
She wanted to close her eyes and take a nap, but when she heard Wu Ming talking to her in a low voice, she couldn't help pricking up her ears to listen; then, she expressed her opinion again.
Because, Wu Ming's words always hit Chu Lihua's heart involuntarily.
They talked together, always in perfect harmony.
They have surprisingly consistent views on any issue.
Wu Ming in memory doesn't seem to be like this!
Was it Wu Ming's deliberate pandering, or did the experiences of the two change them because of the passage of time?
Or, has the memory slowly changed under the torrent of time?
Washing away Wu Ming's various shortcomings, instead leaving behind various shining advantages.
Chu Lihua remembers that when Qing Yunfei found an old missing photo on her phone, she said, "For me, some people are like life-saving meat buns that I need when I'm about to starve to death."
, if he wasn't there at that time, then he doesn't have to be there in the future. So I just liked it, and I won't like it anymore. "
Then, after six years, how could I still follow this meat bun from six years ago?
Six years, it should be rotten, right?
Thinking of this, Chu Lihua got out of the car during a break, as if she had already made a choice.
However, looking at the long road with no village in front and no shops in the back, I had to give up in the end, and followed Wu Ming back to the car.
What Chu Lihua thought was, when they arrived at the station, they would go back by car. They missed the meals Qing Yunfei cooked for her.
Wu Ming hesitated for a long time, but he broke the silence first, "That time, what I said was too much. Later, I read a book, and I regretted it."¡ª¡ª
"What?"
¡ª¡ª"I, say you are sick."¡ª¡ª
"I know."
¡ª¡ª"I'm sorry, although it's a long time late."
¡ª¡ª"Not long ago, just six years."
¡ª¡ª"Six years have changed too many things, including your character."
¡ª¡ª"So, I am no longer the person in your memory. Similarly, you are no longer the person in my memory."
¡ª¡ª"However, we are more suitable for each other."
¡ª¡ª "This is suitable, where to start?"
Chu Lihua closed her eyelids and asked absent-mindedly.
¡ª¡ª"If a philosophical view is not extreme enough, it must be some nonsense Therefore, I retain the style of speaking the truth viciously.
Behavior cannot be presumptuous, but thinking must be presumptuous.
Enthusiasm will destroy thoughts, and thinking about this cold and cruel world must be cold and cruel, this is thought. "
Chu Lihua's eyes lit up, "Zhao Tingyang!"
¡ª¡ª"Look, the happiness you want is the happiness described by him."
Chu Lihua was silent again.
Yes, before she knew it, her and Wu Ming's thoughts were so synchronized.
And Qing Yunfei, if you say this, it's just Qing Yunfei will definitely reply to himself, "What a mess. What is happiness? Use you and me as a blind bb. Experts are just deceiving people. He blah blah"
His reasoning is fresh and refined.
There is a joke that goes like this: An ancient Greek philosopher made a speech in public, which aroused the applause of the crowd.
Unexpectedly, instead of being encouraged, the philosopher turned pale with fright, frowned, and said, "My God, I must have said something stupid!"
As far as Qing Yunfei is concerned, experts stick their heads in the clouds, thinking about some irrelevant problems, which have no value to the real world.
Therefore, every time she communicated with Qing Yunfei, Chu Lihua felt deeply frustrated.
On the contrary, Wu Ming always supports and encourages his every thought.
etc? Is it really?
It seems that when they were together, Wu Ming was also like Qing Yunfei, right?
The hallucination just now,How did the self come into being?
Is it because of the few words he discussed with himself that Qing Yunfei would never say to himself?
Qing Yunfei's entertainment world is all kinds of variety shows and TV dramas, but he has no interest in those at all.
On the contrary, Chu Lihua is more interested in all kinds of psychology, finance, and humanistic care.
But in Qing Yunfei's view, these are tools for others to make money, nothing more!
However, is living with Qing Yunfei so difficult?
Are you really unhappy?
This made Chu Lihua confused all of a sudden.
Just like the ancient Roman thinker Augustine had a famous saying: "What is time? If you don't ask me, I know it; if you ask me, I will be at a loss."
If you replace the "time" in this sentence with "happiness", it also makes sense. Each of us can intuitively know what happiness is, but it is difficult to give it a precise definition.
There is a classic line in Hong Kong TV dramas: "As a human being, the most important thing is to be happy."
Is this sentence right? Is happiness the same as being happy? If happiness equals joy, then it would be too easy to achieve happiness. One of the things that human beings are best at is to have fun.
Especially in the modern commercial society, all kinds of cheap happiness are being sold everywhere, from catering and shopping to travel and vacation, from entertainment variety shows to online games, there is always one that suits you. For modern people, happiness is an easy thing, but happiness is not.
So, what is the difference between joy and happiness? Some people distinguish from a psychological point of view, saying that happiness is a short-term excitement, while happiness is a long-lasting, peaceful and pleasant feeling.
Zhao Tingyang, who was mentioned just now, believes that such a distinction is of little significance and cannot fundamentally explain the problem. He believes that the real difference is that happiness is consuming, and every happiness is consumed at one time, leaving nothing that determines the meaning of life.
If we try to replace happiness with happiness, then we have to consume happiness again and again, similar to drinking poison to quench thirst, such a life is actually very sad.
So what is happiness? In Zhao Tingyang's view, happiness is the overall achievement and overall effect of life, rather than the positive emotions felt for a while.
Let's put it this way: a person can give up some happiness for the sake of happiness, but absolutely no one will give up happiness for the sake of happiness.
However, such a definition is still unclear, and we are likely to confuse happiness with interests. There is a famous saying on the Internet, you must have heard it, it is called "I would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on the back of a bicycle". The girl who said this is exchanging happiness for benefits.
According to the conditions, Wu Ming's conditions are indeed much better than Qing Yunfei's. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com