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Chu Lihua's emotions collapsed again.
Why? It is said that a child with a mother is like a treasure!
But, what about your own mother? All she really cares about is money!
As long as it is guaranteed to be cured, what you say is willing to spend 100,000 yuan.
However, in fact, no doctor would ever make such a guarantee!
Then, this was said until she left home. I said that as soon as I heard that it was good, I took it with me, but in fact, the best place I have been to is the Kunming Red Cross Hospital.
It is said that the kindness to parents is not enough, let alone resent them.
If there is no such condition, I will not talk about it!
The key is conditional, but mother only cares about money!
Chu Lihua, who thought she had reconciled with her original family, has almost returned to her original shape after the last incident of returning home and the blow to her eyesight this time.
Meng Xianxiang knew the reason why Chu Lihua was crying bitterly, so he didn't comfort her, but just silently accompanied her by the side.
When she had cried enough, "Brother, I'm hungry."
¡ª¡ª "Go, go home and cook something delicious for you!"
¡ª¡ª"I want to go shopping and buy something to eat."
¡ª¡ª"Okay, everything is fine."
Meng Xianxiang took Chu Lihua to the bustling area, Chu Lihua followed silently, and turned on the phone.
Reconciliation with the original family is an urgent matter.
Chu Lihua remembered reading a concept in Buddhism called "crazy". The so-called "ignorance" means that you have an emotion in your heart, and you look at everything from the perspective of this emotion, and you turn a blind eye to things that have nothing to do with this emotion.
It is because I have been unable to escape the "curse" of this "original family", so I do this again and again.
Only by jumping out of your own subjective perspective, you can always pay attention to the value of things around you. This is the expression of "righteous thoughts".
To put it bluntly, it is still the "Law of Attraction" mentioned in the secret!
For most people, when it comes to their childhood, it is a very good memory; when it comes to our parents who have nurtured us, there will be a warm feeling in our hearts.
But people are not sages and sages can do nothing, as parents, it is inevitable that there will be times when they make mistakes. What's more, raising children is a science, and it goes deep.
Therefore, we have to face the reality that there are indeed some irresponsible parents in this world, which make children's hearts full of fear, inferiority and guilt since childhood.
There are four types of "toxic parents", mainly divided into childish, controlling, verbally abusive, and physically abusive.
As for Chu Lihua's parents, the most important thing is her mother. She has three of the four types, but it is only for one child, Chu Lihua. How lucky!
The first is the controlling parent.
What they fear is that they will no longer be needed by their children. They hope that their children will never be able to live independently. Once their children break free from their control, they will feel extreme pain, and life seems to lose its meaning.
Therefore, this type of parents will try their best to maintain their children's sense of powerlessness, and the most important method is to deprive their children of the ability to make decisions.
In front of manipulative parents, children's thoughts are nothing compared to their thoughts.
They will threaten the children, if you don't do what I say, I will ignore you and won't give you money. They'll go on and on, grind you down, and act like a victim.
This made Chu Lihua always feel guilty when she retorted when she was a child.
In 2019, a TV series "Xiao Huanxi" was released, and the character Tao Hong played in it often dealt with her daughter like this: "Baby, you are everything!"
She is a typical manipulative parent. Changing the wall between her daughter's bedroom and the living room to transparent glass is just so that she can monitor her child's study at any time.
Also, participate in winter camps, apply for college entrance examination volunteers, and make up for your children in everything.
Then you say, the child is still young, so it¡¯s okay to listen to his parents. The problem is that this kind of parent doesn't stop when the child is an adult.
Children will find that any decision they make is wrong, and their parents are always against him. Looking for a job and falling in love are all up to them. How about getting older and getting married?
They will extend their hands to your new family. When will you get the certificate, hold the wedding, and whether you want a child, listen to them; when you have a child? How to feed the child, how to raise it, and what to call it, still have to listen to them. It doesn't count what the children and their spouses discussed, but what they said.
Otherwise, I wouldn't be reminded every dayAfter giving birth to a child, in the end, he was directly forced to register as a child.
In summary, manipulative parents are committed to thwarting their children's every decision. In this way, the child's character will become very immature, and they can dominate the child's life forever.
What followed was the verbally abusive mother who made Chu Lihua even more painful.
Originally, when children were young, parents were the center of the whole world. Whether a child's self-evaluation is positive and positive depends largely on how his parents evaluate him. There are some parents who like to abuse their children verbally.
? I used to think that it would be good to go back to my parents, but I found that there is no difference in living with other people's homes.
It's perfectly normal for most parents to say something nasty when they're angry. So what kind of words are enough to be abused?
Some parents often insult their children's appearance, intelligence, ability, and even their value as a human being, saying "you are so stupid that you can't keep up with hot shit", "I don't know what you are doing when I was born!", "I knew it earlier!" In this way, it would be better to just drown you in the latrine at the beginning!"
Thinking of these words now, Chu Lihua would feel a chill! How much hatred can you say such words to your own children?
This is suspected of abuse. It also depends on the frequency of occurrence. Talk about a little thing over and over again, even if you are right, the child can't bear the criticism all day long.
Why do parents speak so viciously to their children? According to psychological analysis, verbal abusive parents have several psychology.
Some have unrealistic fantasies about their children's education, and when their children fail to meet their requirements, they feel extremely frustrated, and then vent their anger on their children.
Some people regard their children as competition objects, find that they are better than themselves in some aspects, and cannot bear it, and maintain their sense of superiority through ridicule and humiliation.
This feeling was only discovered when Chu Lihua grew up.
In the past, I just heard my mother complain that she could not go to school when she was a child and could only do housework, so her child¡ªChu Lihua had to do housework. Because she used to be the youngest to do housework, but now she wants to do the big one to vent her dissatisfaction.
What I discovered after I grew up was that when Chu Lihua brought her boyfriend home, she would always say over and over again, "My mother has never lived a day like yours." (Remember this website: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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