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"Analyzing various factors together, the researchers came to a conclusion that is very different from that of the folks—especially those who have never experienced a love relationship.
Your significant other's personal qualities are only 5% predictive of your relationship being good or bad. The indicators that people look at for marriage, no matter whether they are hard or soft, are actually useless.
Of course, there may be survivor bias. After all, the research and investigations are all lovers and couples who have established a relationship, not random matching, and those with poor indicators are not included in the statistics-but this result is still enough to tell us that the indicators are similar. No, it doesn't matter at all.
Your own personal quality has 19% strength. This result tells us that relationship is a subjective judgment. Whether the relationship is good or not in your eyes actually depends more on yourself than on the other party. "
? Is it up to me? Chu Lihua pressed the pause button, so what was I thinking? Have I really thought about spending my whole life with Qing Yunfei?
Why do you always think of Wu Ming at a certain moment, and then compare Qing Yunfei with Wu Ming?
"The most important personal qualities that determine whether a relationship is good or bad are—
Satisfaction with life
Depression and feelings of helplessness
Negative emotional factors, whether you are prone to anger, feel pain, etc.
Do you worry too much about this relationship, such as always evaluating whether the relationship is good or not?
Are you unwilling to be with each other all the time?
age
Anxiety
self-esteem
Are you easy-going?
Is there any positive energy?
However, the "hard" indicators we often see, such as income level and education level, have weak prediction strength.
However, these studies are mainly aimed at people in Western countries. We Chinese are more concerned about phenomena such as "mabao boys", which correspond to the index of relationship with parents, which is ranked second to last among all indicators. It can be said that it is completely unimportant.
However, personal quality indicators are far less important than the behavior patterns of two people in the relationship. The predictive strength of relational factors was as high as 45%. The most important relationship factors are-
Perceived, the other party's loyalty
Intimacy
Gratitude means being lucky to be with each other (Chu Lihua can't help but think, this seems to be true for me!)
like
sexual satisfaction
Feeling, the satisfaction of the other party (he seems to be always dissatisfied with himself? I don’t know why he was willing to marry himself at that time?)
Conflict
Feeling, the response of the other party
trust
invest
The significance of these factors needs to be understood by yourself. What I want to talk about is the bigger conclusion: Among the factors that affect the success of a relationship——
The other party's factors, your own factors, your behavior patterns in the relationship.
Behavioral patterns in a particular relationship are much more important than personal factors, an insight worth pondering. "
The behavior pattern of getting along? I look down on the pattern he agrees with, and he looks down on the pattern he agrees with.
How is it possible to get along well?
Chu Lihua was still here to deduce her relationship with Qing Yunfei, and rescued the rental house, but it caused an uproar.
Yang Shichao's continuous phone calls were finally picked up by his online dating girlfriend.
After apologizing and confessing to each other, the girl was about to go out to see Yang Shichao, but she didn't expect him to travel so far to find him.
Sure enough, according to the girl's thinking, such behavior is simply too touching.
She sent the address to Yang Shichao and asked him to find her.
Across the anti-theft door that the girl didn't have a key to, the two of them had tears in their eyes, and they couldn't wait to hug each other immediately.
——"Yingying, please open the door and let me in, I really"
Yang Shichao's voice was so choked up that he couldn't speak. It's been almost a month, and he felt like he was going crazy.
——"I want to open it too, but I don't have the key. Woooooo"
Huang Yingying was crying even more out of breath.
——"No key? What do you mean? Yingying, did you get tricked into coming here by a pyramid scheme!"
Yang Shichao was in a hurry.
Wu Ming quickly took out his cell phone, "Then I'll make a call."call the police. "
——"Don't!!! Chu Lihua is a good person, she can no longer avenge her kindness!"
Huang Yingying quickly stopped.
Huang Yingying's words caused Wu Ming's cell phone to slip from his hand and fall to the ground, but he didn't feel it at all.
—— "A Ming, you dropped your phone."
Although Yang Shichao was shocked, he still picked up Wu Ming's cell phone.
Yang Shichao scratched his head, "Chu Lihua, why do I seem to have a little impression of this name? It seems to be"
Yang Shichao suddenly thought of the girl Wang Qingqing brought, with small arms and legs, she could wear the bracelet that was the smallest in the store at the time and had never been sold.
However, people are very picky, and they have already given the lowest price, and they want to make it cheaper.
In the end, it seems that I added my WeChat account through Wang Qingqing again, and I still want to make that bracelet cheaper.
——"Do you know Chu Lihua?"
Yang Shichao and Wu Ming answered almost at the same time, "I know you!"
——"A Ming, how do you know him?"
——"Such an aura of surname, paired with a name with a sense of age, once you know it, it will be hard to forget."
Wu Ming actually didn't know how to describe his relationship with Chu Lihua.
His heart is beating faster now, why? I have given up, and suddenly I will meet again?
It was already late at night when Chu Lihua received the call. Of course, for Xinjiang, maybe 12 o'clock in the middle of the night is not that late.
——"Excuse me, what's the matter?"
——"Sister Chu, can you come here?"
Chu Lihua heard the voice over there with crying, she quickly put on her clothes and opened the door to go out.
The moment she rushed out the door, she ran over and pulled Meng Xianxiang out with him.
——"What did your wife drag my boyfriend out for?"
Lanzhi asked Qing Yunfei with a masked face, she actually said that on purpose.
Qing Yunfei originally wanted to go out to have a look, but after Lanzhi said this, he felt embarrassed to go.
Chu Lihua dragged Meng Xianxiang quickly to the rental house, rushed to the door and lowered his head to pick out the keys, only to find that something was wrong.
When I looked up, I saw two men standing at the door.
——"Brother, hurry up and call the police. Someone harassed me in the middle of the night. No wonder the girl called me crying. She must be terrified!"
Chu Lihua felt that the odds of winning were a bit small. They were two men, one of whom was taller.
However, she still comforted the girl in the room first, "Girl, don't be afraid, they can't open it, my brother and I are here. It's okay, don't worry, don't get excited. It's not good for your health!"
Wu Ming and Yang Shichao looked at the excited Chu Lihua with different expressions.
Wu Ming suddenly ran away.
Yang Shichao "A Ming!"
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