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Chapter 880 People and relationships, that's important

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    After the meeting, Chu Lihua and Qing Yunfei took the twins and Xiaoqi for a walk, Meng Xianxiang and Lanzhi went to the world of two.

    Walking around, Chu Lihua felt a little hungry.  Qing Yunfei said to Meng Xianxiang and the others, let's eat outside today.

    ——"Alright, we haven't eaten out for a long time."

    Chu Lihua was a little excited.

    However, the excitement lasted too short.

    Qing Yunfei asked her what she wanted to eat, Chu Lihua looked at it, and chose a family with good traffic.

    After they entered, Qing Yunfei asked Chu Lihua, "What do you want to eat?"

    Chu Lihua was stunned, strange city, strange restaurant, would there be a national dish like fried potato shreds here?

    She looked at the gaudy recipes on the wall, but her eyes were darkened, she had no idea what was on it!  What's wrong?

    After hesitating for a long time, Chu Lihua said with difficulty, "I don't know either."

    Qing Yunfei suddenly said, "Isn't there anyone who wants to eat? You can't see it, can you?"

    Chu Lihua nodded, then said in a low voice, "Well, yes."

    ——"Then shall I read it to you one by one?"

    Chu Lihua was moved, "Okay!"

    Qing Yunfei sighed suddenly, "Go, don't eat!"

    With her head buzzing, Chu Lihua pushed the twins out of the hotel behind her.

    Along the way, Qing Yunfei didn't say a word.  Chu Lihua felt that the atmosphere was weird.

    ——"Why is your eyes getting worse and worse, you can't even read such big characters!"

    After saying this, Qing Yunfei quickly left with Xiao Qi in his arms without waiting for Chu Lihua to speak.

    Chu Lihua hurriedly pushed the cart to follow.

    ——"I don't know my two children Alas!"

    Qing Yunfei had a painful expression on his face.

    Chu Lihua got goosebumps all over her body, was it Qing Yunfei who read the menu to herself before?  Could it be Wu Ming too, did he remember wrongly?

    Why?  After living together for so long, did Qing Yunfei suddenly care about his eyes?

    Is that word really big?

    Why can't I see clearly?

    Chu Lihua felt chills all over her body. Now that the twins are fine, in the future will they

    Chu Lihua didn't dare to think about it, she was scared.  I also regret it.

    Why was it then

    Should people like me die alone forever?

    Didn't the Civil Affairs Bureau of a certain place refuse to handle marriage procedures for disabled couples not long ago?

    Maybe

    Chu Lihua's head was buzzing, and her ears were chattering. The feeling of giving a speech to a group of "blind friends" confidently just now was gone.

    Suddenly there was a sentence in Chu Lihua's mind, "The circle is different, so there is no need to force it!"

    Could it be that she and Qing Yunfei are destined to be people from two worlds?

    What about twins?

    Xiaoqi, apples, oranges (Qing Yunfei named the twins apples and oranges, both of which are his favorite fruits.) How should mother choose?

    Although don't think about breaking up and repairing as soon as something happens, how should it be repaired?

    Two different regions, different personalities, differentis the biggest difference between men and women?

    Wait, this doesn't seem to be a distinction from a psychological point of view, does it?  What is this supposed to be?  Biology.

    So from a scientific point of view, how to distinguish between good and bad relationships between men and women?

    Personality, income, education level, etc., it seems that these are not in the scope of science, right?

    Chu Lihua was thinking that she is now in a love relationship and has a spouse.  The relationship between the two is not good.

    In the end, is it because the other party can't do it, you can't do it yourself, or is it because of other reasons?

    In Chu Lihua's mind, she recalled a newly emerging science that she happened to see two days ago, called "Relationship Science", which specializes in the study of the relationship between people.

    This is not the kind of official account relationship study among the people, but research using scientific methods, which can be regarded as a branch of psychology.

    Researchers believe that they have accumulated enough solid research and knowledge in the past two decades that they can finally be called "relational science".

    At that time, Chu Lihua laughed it off, now is really an age where everything is about science.

    And now, it may be possible to temporarily relieve his immediate urgent needs.How to get along with Qing Yunfei in the future.

    Chu Lihua pushed the twins to a safe place, squatted down, and used the keyword "relationship science" to search back and forth on several apps she usually listened to, and finally, she found it.

    Turn on the audio and start listening seriously.

    This research is a milestone in relational science, and the paper was published in the "Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences" (pnas)-it is said that this is basically the highest standard of social science papers.

    The great thing about this paper is that it meta-analyzed 43 studies, investigated a total of 11,196 lovers and couples, and was signed by nearly a hundred researchers. It wanted to answer a question that people always ask themselves——  —

    What is the most important factor in determining whether a romantic relationship is good or bad?

    The researchers used questionnaires to count more than 60 factors, including passion, mutual support, conflict, age, income, education level, power, etc., basically everything that ordinary people can think of.

    In order to ensure the credibility of the data, 43% of the subjects were also revisited after a long interval.

    All these factors are divided into two categories, those that describe the individual, and those that describe the pattern of behavior in the relationship.

    For example, personality characteristics, age, income, education level, etc., are personal factors, which refer to who this person is;

    And like whether to support the other party, whether to trust the other party, whether there is love, these are the behavior patterns in the relationship.

    It is the genius of scientists to specifically list the factor of "behavioral patterns in relationships".

    Ordinary people generally choose a blind date based on personal factors, usually by setting a number of hard indicators; what education is above, what age is under, and sometimes a well-written marriage advertisement will also describe their own personality characteristics and expectations for the other party's personality.  In fact, these are choosing "people", not "relationships".

    In fact, many people have realized that a good person does not necessarily have a good behavior pattern in this particular relationship.

    Maybe a person's own indicators are not very good, but he is very good to his lover.  Maybe a person has a good personality in front of everyone, but he is very indifferent to his wife.

    However, statistically speaking, good people also seem to be more likely to have good behavior patterns.  So what is this correlation?  In the final analysis, do you think personal factors are important, or are relational behavior patterns important?

    Chu Lihua was about to analyze it carefully, Qing Yunfei belonged to that kind, and a call interrupted her train of thought.  She could only find and answer the phone.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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