Every time after speaking, once everyone started whispering, Chu Lihua would stop and wait for everyone to digest.
Seeing that everyone had discussed and nodded thoughtfully, she continued.
¡ª¡ª"So, the ability to be alone is actually the ability to enjoy loneliness. To cultivate children's ability to be alone, they must give them enough sense of security.
In the same way, because of a sense of security, we can relax and be alone, and in a relaxed state of solitude, our brains can complete a lot of important work.
For example, sleep is a very relaxing state of solitude, right? During sleep, the brain organizes the information input during the day, where to put this knowledge, where does that memory exist, and organize your messy thoughts during the day.
Without the sorting process that occurs during sleep, a lot of knowledge you have learned will not be remembered. When you were a student, you should have a deep understanding of this.
And this has been confirmed by scientific research. Many people who like to meditate find that during meditation, the integration process that occurs in the brain is similar to that during sleep.
That is to say, when the brain is in a quiet and relaxed state, it will organize itself, compare and archive new and old experiences, and connect what should be connected.
In this process, maybe you will suddenly figure out the previously puzzling problems, or discover something in a flash of inspiration. So, the ability to be alone is crucial to getting the most out of your brain and realizing your potential.
Since being alone is a kind of ability, what can we do with this ability? Here are the many uses of solitude that we're going to talk about.
First of all, loneliness can stimulate people's creativity.
We are now in an era of "innovation by all". The ability to innovate is actually creativity. But have you ever wondered what is the source of creativity? It's actually imagination.
Before, we said that for us, imagination is far more developed than other normal people; moreover, it will not be replaced by the future artificial intelligence era.
Imagination always spreads its wings in solitude, and children who can enjoy solitude are more likely to develop creative potential.
With imagination, human beings can become the spirit of all things, and only then can there be a brilliant and colorful human civilization.
Newton's gravitation was just a flash of inspiration in the imaginary world at the beginning; the chemical ring structure of benzene molecule that was discovered by German chemist Kekule like a snake's tail came from a dream; Einstein's theory of relativity also benefited from his imagination.
In short, imagination is a good thing, and being alone is the fertile ground for imagination to grow wildly.
It is generally believed that the most active period of imagination is childhood, especially when children have no playmates, it is simply: small children create a big world!
Many creative geniuses had a lonely childhood, and the imagination that thrived during this period made outstanding works in the future.
For many creators, intimacy is an obstacle, which will make them lose the driving force of imagination.
I believe that most of us were lonely when we were young. This is actually the best gift from God.
For example, British writer Anthony Trollope is one of the most prolific writers in the history of British literature. His representative works include "Barchester Nursing Home" and "Barchester Cathedral".
He was miserable when he was a child. His family had no money, and he couldn't even pay the tuition fees. Moreover, he was ugly and timid. He was simply the standard target of campus bullying.
With no one to play with him, he hid in the imaginary world to entertain himself, and these imaginary materials later became refreshing novels.
After becoming famous, Trollope no longer has to be forced to hide in a lonely imaginary world. He is not only happily married, but also has a passionate lover in middle age, and has a wide range of friends and friends. He even contemptuously calls his Think of it as a dangerous 'daydream'.
The results of it? Fiction critics have gradually discovered that his works have gradually become clich¨¦d and no longer have the refined temperament of the past!
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As the starting point of innovative ability, imagination is often born in solitude. When we look at the creative process itself, it is even more inseparable from the hard work in solitude.
Wang Guowei said that there are three realms in life, the first realm is 'the west wind withered the green trees last night. Go up the tall building alone, looking at the end of the world';
?The second realm is "I am haggard because of Yixiao, and my belt is getting wider and I will never regret it";
?The third realm is to search for him thousands of times in the crowd,But when I looked back, the man was there, in a dimly lit place'.
In these three realms, have you all seen the shadow of loneliness? "
Yao Livas couldn't help interjecting, "Indeed, throughout the ages, most of the people who achieved great things were able to endure loneliness.
The most extreme example is the isolation caused by imprisonment and disease. This is the most difficult loneliness in the world, right?
However, there are many great men who have created masterpieces handed down in this extreme loneliness. For example, our Chinese Zuoqiu wrote "Guoyu" after he lost his sight;
The Roman philosopher Boethius wrote the immortal masterpiece "The Consolation of Philosophy" while in prison; Sir Walter Raleigh wrote "History of the World" while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London waiting to be executed; the Russian writer Dosto Yevsky conceived three stories and two novels in the labor camp.
To give another negative figure, Hitler, the leader of the Communist Party, also completed his autobiography "Mein Kampf" while in prison. He himself said that without imprisonment, this book would not be possible. "
Chu Lihua took the lead in applauding, "Everyone should speak up! This way, you can put all these things in your head. When the night is quiet, your brain will sort it out by itself."
Kang Xuming said, "I actually have a deep understanding of this. When I'm alone, I always have all kinds of imaginative images in my mind. Such a situation has never happened during the hustle and bustle."
Qing Yunfei suddenly said something irrelevant, "I was thinking, who came to the conclusion that the brain is the most intelligent and important organ in our body?"
Chu Lihua was slightly taken aback, "It seems to be probably the biologist?"
Qing Yunfei shook his head, "No, it's the brain itself!"
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The atmosphere at the scene became hot instantly.
Chu Lihua really expressed her admiration for this living treasure husband.
Whenever, he can give you a different surprise.
However, listening to everyone's hearty laughter, Chu Lihua felt that maybe this is not bad.
Moreover, the sense of humor is really on the agenda to practice.
Perhaps not many people listened to her straightforward explanation. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com