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See, this is a stable relationship.
It will not be suddenly cloudy or cloudy like Qing Yunfei, which is inexplicable.
Chu Lihua smiled back sweetly, "Thank you brother."
Then I started to feast on it. It turns out that the roasted whole lamb is so fragrant. The meat I ate before did not have such a strong meaty fragrance.
?Because it is a group of most Xinjiang people, it is authentic and the price is affordable.
Everyone shared it, and no one shared much money.
After a meal to eliminate food, a large group of people go to Xinyuan Food Night Market for a stroll.
As soon as night falls, it is very lively here. Kazakh ladies hold a weekly tea party here. They are well-dressed, with decent clothing and exquisite faces.
Go shopping, go shopping, eat while shopping.
The various scents wafting from both sides hit Chu Lihua's taste buds. If her stomach wasn't still full, she was about to rush into the nearby restaurant to have another feast.
In the end, Chu Lihua couldn't resist ordering Xueling yogurt. The taste of handmade yogurt is different in every place.
The most beautiful life is walking all the way; picking up the treasures of thought scattered in the grass by the predecessors along the way, watching a dewdrop waking up from the dark night, admiring a flower blooming on the edge of a cliff, and pretending to be blown from the time tunnel The light breeze, and then dyed with the fragrance of wisdom.
Regarding Qing Yunfei, Chu Lihua no longer talked to him easily, except because Xiao Qi said a few words to him.
Otherwise, the sudden speech spear is too dangerous.
It's just that Xiao Qi has adapted to Qing Yunfei's existence, and now he often clings to him.
Once he and Qing Yunfei really separated, how should he explain all this to Xiao Qi?
Don't look at children who are still young, but they are particularly afraid of separation.
Before, Meng Xianxiang didn't tell Chu Lihua how long Xiaoqi had been crying after she left because she felt unwell after returning.
Meng Xianxiang later told Chu Lihua that the little girl had to look for her mother every day, and she was willing to go to bed only when she was tired from crying.
So, he had no choice but to keep feeding Xiao Qi, all kinds of food. As long as a baby of Xiaoqi's age can eat, I tried everything, and then picked out what she liked.
Although the child is young, she is already vaguely sensible in her heart.
She is afraid of being separated from a familiar nurturer, so that she will feel that it is all her fault.
She will use a strong sense of inferiority, feeling that she is not good enough.
These psychological analyzes are actually in Chu Lihua's mind, but they are only stored, so they have not been mobilized.
She didn't want what happened to her to happen to Xiao Qi again, she already had a pair of unreliable biological parents.
If the new family that was found after so much difficulty breaks up again, will her young heart be hurt?
The answer is obvious.
Don't use your child as an excuse for what you say, and you will let go naturally when it hurts.
However, if the box full of thorns contains your child, I believe that no mother who really loves her child can rest assured.
Even if your hands are bloody.
Although there was some distance between Qing Yunfei and Qing Yunfei, Xiao Qi's laughter still reached Chu Lihua's ears.
For Xiaoqi's sake, let's try again.
Chu Lihua silently made up her mind.
Coincidentally, Chu Lihua happened to read a passage during the routine reading before going back to rest at night.
"In marriage, parent-child and other relationships, those conflicts that give us headaches are actually reasonable and instinctive, so they are also an indispensable part of our happiness in life.
Nietzsche said that nature is actually full of all kinds of conspiracies and tricks.
It makes us do things for it, setting up mechanisms that make us feel like we are doing things for ourselves.
Instinct is a means by which nature manipulates individuals.
For example, newborn babies like to cry at night.
A study by a professor at Harvard University showed that the reason why children cry at night is actually their instincts.
For a child who is often fussy, he can make his mother exhausted, make her work all day during the day and suffer at night, and the mother's sexual desire will be greatly reduced, which will greatly slow down the birth time of his younger brothers and sisters. Someone will grab milk from him, and his chances of survival will be high.
Instinct is like the law of nature, you will get benefits if you obey it, and you will be punished if you don't obey it. "
It turns outSuch a young child knows to use instinct to snatch his own food.
Chu Lihua laughed, nature is really a magical existence.
Thinking of the time when my mother told herself with gritted teeth, "Why is it natural for children to cry? Then why are some children so well-behaved at night. When you raise children, you will know what a pot is made of iron."
Thinking about it now, it is my instinct to benefit my granary.
Remembering that I saw another explanation, I thought it was absurd at the time, but now I think it is explaining instinct in another way.
The one explained that the reason why children cry at night is because in ancient times, mothers would run around with their children in their arms to avoid the enemy. When sleeping at night, the children could not feel the shaking of their bodies, so they would cry instinctively to remind their parents to stay by their side. Keep safe. I am afraid that my parents will forget my existence.
Thinking about it this way, probably the mother's vomiting during pregnancy should also be an instinctive reaction. Through vomiting, the mother is only willing to eat light and simple food to reduce nausea, and avoid eating too complicated to increase the probability of illness so as to protect the fetus.
It's very interesting to think about it. Human instinct is the ability to evolve after a long period of time. You don't need to think, and you can respond immediately.
The original intention of human beings is to instantly equip people with defense and escape capabilities when danger comes, in order to better adapt to the environment.
However, the development of modern human science and technology has brought great changes to the natural environment. Human beings have minimized the dangers of the natural environment to the human body. Compared with the long period of human evolution, this time is too short, resulting in the adjustment of human instincts. the speed of technological development.
Therefore, at present, human instinct can play less and less role, and some of them will become the weakness of human nature and be used by others. For example, the stock market.
Qing Yunfei's stubborn opinion is considered normal behavior, is this also instinct?
When thinking of Qing Yunfei, Chu Lihua can always think of such a sentence in "Zhuangzi Qiushui": "The well frog can't speak to the sea, but to the emptiness; the summer insect can't speak to the ice, but to the time."
The meaning of this sentence is, don't talk about the sea with the frog at the bottom of the well, and don't talk about the ice with the summer bug.
Also, they have never seen the sea and ice, nor have they experienced it, so even if you tell the truth, they will not believe it.
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