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Chapter 792 I am always right

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    In other words, as long as the law of attraction is used freely, it is true that what you want comes true.  Didn’t this word exist in ancient times?

    There must be a basis for coining words in ancient times.

    Seeing that Meng Xianxiang stopped talking, Chu Lihua knew that he had really listened to it, and was thinking about the possibility.  So, just stood quietly and waited.

    Qing Yunfei quickly packed up and came out, and walked over quickly.

    Chu Lihua wanted to lend a hand to help get some, but Qing Yunfei refused.

    ——"You are now the key protection target, so don't make any mistakes. What's wrong with Xiangzi? You look deep in thought, what fallacies are you teaching people?"

    Qing Yunfei quickly took a step back, not letting Chu Lihua touch him.

    ——"He is researching how to get that nurse to be my sister-in-law as soon as possible. I heard that you have always been very popular before. Why don't you come and recruit!"

    Chu Lihua teased Qing Yunfei with a smile.

    ——"At that time, I was really, in today's terms, the guy was more handsome. There was no girl in the school who was not moved by seeing it. They followed me and watched me walk into the dormitory door, and they were reluctant to leave.  "

    ——"I'm curious, so why don't we go out together now without a lot of Yingying and Yanyan behind us?"

    ——"That's because if you gain weight now, you will become disabled. Alasit is said that men get fat when they reach 30. I have lost to my age."

    Qing Yunfei pretended to look up to the sky and sigh.

    ——"But why did I always hear people laugh at me and say that men have thirty-one flowers, and women thirty bean curds? Whose flowers are fat flowers."

    Chu Lihua was funny.

    ——"I can't help it, the breed is different, they are succulent!"

    "Pfft~" A person passing by suddenly burst out laughing.

    ——"Sanggong~ I just found out that you are so humorous! Let's go quickly, don't pass another person in a while, people think I am a psychopath who was abducted from somewhere?"

    Chu Lihua pulled Qing Yunfei's arm.

    ——"Xiangzi, let's go!"

    Qing Yunfei greeted Meng Xianxiang, and the corners of Chu Lihua's mouth rose slightly. It's great that the two of them are so harmonious again.

    ——"Chuchu, tell me, she works so hard as a nurse, how about I come to ask her every day?"

    Meng Xianxiang walked over.

    ——"It's not very good. As expected, people in love have zero IQ. Let's go, I'll tell you as we go."

    Meng Xianxiang happily followed.

    ——"Let me tell you this, if the nurse is attractive to you, there must be many people who are paying attention to her. There are too many people who think this way, and it is impossible for her to have a special impression of you from among the many people.  Profound."

    Meng Xianxiang hurriedly asked, "Then what should I do?"

    ——"Ask her for help."

    ——"Ah? People might not remember me. Wouldn't it be more disgusting to ask her for help?"

    ——"No, this is a wonderful knowledge in psychology. The person who proposed this phenomenon is Aaronson.  and the psychologist who wrote three awards.

    Speaking of it, it was purely a coincidence that he studied psychology.  In his autobiography, he disclosed an interesting gossip: he didn't study psychology at the beginning of college, but he fell in love with a girl from the psychology department.

    So I accompanied the girl to a class in the Department of Psychology. The lecturer happened to be Maslow, the master of psychology and the proposer of the hierarchy of needs theory. In Aronson's own words: "I let go of the girl's hand and started to take notes;  In that moment I lost my girl and found heaven."

    Since then, Aaronson has embarked on the path of psychology, and eventually became a leading figure in the field of social psychology.

    He wrote this theory in his Social Psychology:

    In life, many times, when we want to develop interpersonal relationships, a common way of thinking is to pay for each other.

    For example, if you want to develop a romantic relationship with a person of the opposite sex, you may praise him, give him gifts, and do things for him in order to impress him.

    However, psychological research has found that this kind of intentional approach to the other party may not always work, and sometimes may even have counterproductive effects.

    Although we all like others to treat us well, if a person deliberately does this, we may suspect that the other party has hidden motives or additional conditions, so we will increase our vigilance.

      To develop a relationship with the other party, instead of trying to please the other party, it is better to change the way of thinking and ask the other party to do you a favor.

    After helping you, your relationship will be much closer.  This is because attitudes are often an afterthought for behavior.

    If the other person does you a favor, the other person will justify their actions: "Why should I help him? Because he is a very good person!"

    He will convince himself that you are a person worthy of help and worthy of association.  "

    ——"Attitude is an after-the-fact explanation of behavior?"

    ——"Yes, we can often see such examples in our lives. For example, the research report 'smoking causes cancer', although it is a proven fact, not everyone agrees.

    Among non-smokers, 90% believed this report.  On the contrary, among heavy smokers, 40% said they did not believe the report and would give various rationalizations.

    Such a thing, even my father has done it.  When I was in junior high school, I learned that smoking is harmful to health, so I went home and told him.  But, at that time, he didn't believe it at all.

    Why are so many people smoking all over the world, including many rich and wealthy people, and they are not fools.  Knowing that it is harmful to the body, you still do it.

    Another example is some famous people who have passed away, who smoked and drank for how many years they lived;

    What these smokers reflect is the causal relationship between attitude and behavior: it is not because they do not believe that smoking causes cancer, so they smoke.

    It is because the behavior of smoking already exists, and then I changed my attitude to defend the behavior of smoking.

    Another example is some ordinary events. In life, we often need to make some decisions. Let me use an analogy, such as buying a new car.

    Before buying a car, you may carefully collect relevant information, compare various parameters, and finally make a prudent decision.

    Once you buy a car, you may deliberately collect positive information related to this car and avoid those negative information.

    This is because, after making difficult decisions, people almost always experience some sort of dissonance, since no choice is perfect.

    In order to resolve this imbalance, it is necessary to constantly strengthen the previous choices and prove that they are correct.  "

    After Chu Lihua finished speaking, she lightly stroked her swollen belly.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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