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Chapter 743 Take your time, the scenery on the side of the road is also beautiful

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    Chu Lihua smiled and slapped Qing Yunfei, "I've never been what you think, okay?"

    ——"There are too many news like this on the Internet, maybe it will happen to me someday."

    ——"I won't say anything that I will never leave you, but if one day I leave you, it will definitely not be because you are poor; then don't put such a hat on me.

    You have to remember, I left, it must be because my heart was hurt by you.  It seems normal to you that every time you speak, you carry a gun with a stick.

    If you speak well, it is like the gentle breeze in spring, blowing on your face and giving you a caressing feeling.

    And what you said like that is like the bitter cold wind in winter, piercing the heart.

    Don't be so busy getting angry, I didn't deny you as a person when I said these words, what I said was just your words.  "

    Chu Lihua felt that Qing Yunfei's breath was unstable, so she quickly explained.

    This sentence should be said in advance, and must be remembered in the future.

    Qing Yunfei was silent for a long time before saying, "Let's continue with what we haven't finished talking about before."

    Chu Lihua nodded, no longer dwelling on this question.  Freezing three feet does not happen overnight, everything needs to be done step by step.

    After sorting out her thoughts, she continued.

    ——"The eleventh is a high sense of morality.

    Autonomous people have a strong and autonomous sense of morality and ethics.  They have high moral standards, but these standards often differ from the general standards of their culture.

    They believe in "do unto others as you would have them do unto you", and stick to their own morality in every situation.  They will not have two sets of moral standards, one loose for themselves and one strict for others.

    To put it bluntly, it is to judge people by people, and no one is perfect, which is understandable, but this cannot be used as an excuse not to change.  "

    Chu Lihua originally wanted to blend in with the two of them and say a few more words, but she was as sensitive as she, and felt Qing Yunfei's resistance. She knew that she was too hasty.

    ——"The twelfth is the critical spirit.

    Autonomous people have a natural critical spirit, which is derived from the criticism of existence cognition, existence value and existence love. They are not criticizing for the sake of being different, but when everything around them is contrary to their existence cognition, their autonomous spirit  lead to this critique.

    The thirteenth is to accept the fuzzy state.

    Acceptance of ambiguity is a hallmark of creativity, and so are autonomous people.  They seldom follow the rules and are never in a hurry to incorporate a new thing into a rigid cognitive mode.

    They will quietly wait for the answer to come, and when the answer is not found, they are not in a hurry to create an answer.

    On the contrary, non-autonomous people will definitely incorporate new things into an existing pattern first, and will be restless if they do not.

    As soon as the matter started, they were eager to find the answer; as soon as others spoke, he was already eager to explain his understanding of the matter.

    In fact, as long as they wait quietly, they will get a better answer, but this kind of waiting seems to be a denial of themselves, and non-autonomous people cannot accept this kind of waiting.

    This one, my personal understanding is the classic line "Let the bullets fly for a while".

    The last one is high creativity.

    Creativity is divided into self-actualizing creativity and special genius creativity, and Maslow studies the former.

    He emphasized that creativity is only an inevitable product of self-actualized personality, and self-actualizing people have this kind of creativity almost always and everywhere, and this kind of creativity comes from autonomy.

    Personality traits of self-actualizing people.  Self-actualizing people can see themselves, others and the world as they are, and they see what the truth is. This is the most fundamental reason why autonomous people are creative.

    Maslow believes that the reason why they are like this may be traced back to their fearless character.  There are two aspects to this:

    On the one hand, it is about the outside world: autonomous people do not follow the trend, and obviously lack an attitude of adapting to culture.  They are not afraid of what other people will say, ask for, or laugh at.

    Because they are less dependent on others, they are less influenced by others.  Moreover, they are not hostile to others, but understand others.

    Another aspect is experience: more importantly, autonomous people are not afraid of their own inner world.

    Their egos are more harmonious and more accepting of themselves.  They dare to face their inner selves, and they also dare to face their external reality, which makes their behavior more spontaneous and less controlled and oppressive.??, planning and design.

    Autonomous people are not afraid of their own thoughts, even if they are "weird," muddled, or crazy.

    They are not afraid of being laughed at, not afraid of being disapproved.  They allow their ego to flow through their emotions.

    On the contrary, ordinary people and neurotics wall off danger and control, suppress, suppress, suppress their ego, they condemn their own deep self, and expect others to do the same.

    Maslow has made the following description of this trait of autonomous people:

    Autonomous people do not ignore the unknown, do not deny it or avoid it, do not seek to make it appear as if it is known, nor do they prematurely organize it, divide it, or classify it.

    They don't rely on the familiar.  Their search for truth does not insist on certainty, safety, clarity and order

    Self-actualizing people may settle for disorderly, rough-and-tumble, chaotic, chaotic, vague, questionable, indeterminate, vague, approximate, loose when the overall objective situation so demands.  , inaccurate status.

    I think this is freedom, but also trust and respect for spontaneity.

    In the past, I didn't do this very well, so these are shocking spiritual food for me.  "

    After Chu Lihua finished speaking, she fixedly looked at Qing Yunfei.

    ——"What are you doing looking at the kettle?"

    Qing Yunfei's words instantly disintegrated the somewhat serious atmosphere.  Her eyes, for some reason, obviously thought she was looking at this side, but Qing Yunfei said she was looking at the other side.

    Forget it, I'm too lazy to be serious with Qing Yunfei.

    Fuzzy state!

    Actually God has given me this fuzzy world, why not live a good life according to God's good intentions.

    ——"I think our kettle is out of use."

    Chu Lihua could only follow Qing Yunfei's words.

    ——"Tell me, you just learned the truth, is it just talk on paper?"

    ——"Perhaps, you have seen relatively few theories from books, so you have this kind of view. Some things, we will only know whether they are useful if we practice them.

    Isn't there such a saying that practice is the only criterion for testing truth.

    Also, not all persistence has results, but there are always some persistence that can cultivate a hundred thousand roses in full bloom from an inch of frozen land.  "(Remember this site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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