At this point, Chu Lihua had no choice but to discuss with Qing Yunfei and hung up the phone.
Chu Lihua explained her mother's meaning to Qing Yunfei with difficulty, it was a bit embarrassing, one moment she said she didn't want a house, and the next moment
¡ª¡ª"It's impossible. A son-in-law who is married has no human rights at all. If something goes wrong, he will be scolded bloody."
Qing Yunfei's attitude was also very clear, Chu Lihua was in a dilemma.
¡ª¡ª"My family is not such an unreasonable person, they will definitely respect you. Besides, we will go back during the Chinese New Year at most a year, and we are usually outside. The kind of thing you said will definitely not happen of."
Chu Lihua just patted her chest and promised.
¡ª¡ª"Since ancient times, the woman has been married to the man's family, but once a man becomes a door-to-door son-in-law, he will live in the woman's house and marry into the mother-in-law's family, which will make people around him look down on him.
Relatives, friends and even colleagues may point and criticize this man behind his back.
If the woman's family is rich and the man's family conditions are average, then it will be misinterpreted by others as "this man is a rich woman.". Moreover, your family is not that rich. "
¡ª¡ª"To put it bluntly, you still think our family is poor, and you don't have the qualifications to let you marry, right? Thinking back then, didn't you envy the rich woman on the manager list in the sixth group?
What is said is that men are animals that want face, and marrying into a woman's house will make them feel that they have no dignity.
However, if there is, it can save him ten years or even decades of struggle. They must be rushing to marry and become the son-in-law. "
Qing Yunfei's last words really hurt Chu Lihua, and she was a little out of choice.
¡ª¡ª"The managers of the six groups didn't say they were married! She has a Beijing registered permanent residence, and that woman went for the registered permanent residence. How could she let someone marry her?"
¡ª¡ª"To put it bluntly, you still don't love me enough, otherwise Zhu Bajie would be able to marry into the Gaojiazhuang for Gao Cuilan. He was the majestic Marshal of Tianpeng before."
¡ª¡ª"Can it be the same? Zhu Bajie was born in the wrong fetus, and he looks so ugly. Besides, he loves the other when he sees one. When he sees a beautiful woman, he can't walk. Don't you like that? "
¡ª¡ª"Everyone loves beauty, but Zhu Bajie is sincere to Gao Cuilan. Otherwise, he couldn't always think about sharing his luggage and going back to Gao Laozhuang all the way."
¡ª¡ª"Sincerely? From the very beginning, he was not happy about the matter of learning scriptures from the West. It was completely forced by the situation and had no choice.
Zhu Bajie lived in Mount Fuling when he descended to the lower realms. After being enlightened by Guanyin, he promised that he would go to the west to learn Buddhist scriptures with a man named Tang Seng, and you would be able to restore his original appearance. This kind of temptation fell right into Zhu Bajie's arms, so he agreed immediately.
It's just that after waiting for a long time, Tang Seng was nowhere to be seen, so he came to the wealthy Gaolaozhuang, hoping to earn some rations to fill his stomach.
However, he was born with love, and he was lucky everywhere. He was recruited by the host as his son-in-law. Since then, this little life has become more comfortable.
Having enough food and clothing, not worrying about food and clothing, is a million times happier than the drudgery of learning Buddhist scriptures in the West.
?As a result, he became a monk, eating fast, reciting Buddha's name, abstaining from lust and sex, can Zhu Bajie bear it? Therefore, after the comparison, Zhu Bajie yearned to return to Gao Laozhuang even more. "¡ª¡ª
"you!"
Chu Lihua was too angry to speak.
Qing Yunfei is a person who can't speak when he should be able to speak. When you don't need to be so articulate, he can tell you clearly.
Is this really the partner I want to spend my whole life with?
Although the mother's behavior was a little extreme, maybe she saw something from it.
The balance in Chu Lihua's heart quietly tilted towards her mother.
But what should we do now? Marriage is brought up by oneself.
If it is because of this, it is stranded, and my own face will be
I really want to see if there is a book that can teach me what to do? But, staying in the same room with Qing Yunfei and reading such a book, wouldn't it be
At this moment, Chu Lihua regretted not listening to the landlord.
Everyone really should have their own separate space.
Chu Lihua remembered that she had asked Qin Qing about this before, and his words at that time still linger in her ears.
"In love and marriage, both men and women must have independent space, have their own income, circle of friends, and privacy.
The traditional idea of ??"two people love each other without distinction, and everything must be shared together" has long been eliminated by this rapidly changing era.
It is inevitable for an unequal relationship between the sexes to end up in a breakup or cheating. The reason why humans have become the masters of all animals is because humans have extremely complex brain thinking.
Unless the other party is a robot, you only need to set a pattern for him: only love you in his life, he will love you forever, rely on you, and even ignore himself for you.
Independence and equality can achieve a greater degree of long-term emotional and marital happiness, but it is not 100% guaranteed, it depends on the type of opposite sex the other party likes.
A female friend by my side, she doesn't particularly like women who are small and close to others. When she is with her lover, she basically does everything she can do by herself, and even rushes to do it.
It turned out that the lover had an extramarital affair and found a typical little woman. The main reason is that she doesn't understand her lover's preferences, and her lover likes delicate little women very much.
Therefore, in addition to being independent and equal, you have to do what you like. Love is really a science that needs to be studied hard.
Nothing can go too far. When appropriate, women still have to show their weak side in front of men, but this does not mean inequality, it just gives men the opportunity to show their nature of protecting women.
I have a female friend who usually has to wait for her lover to come back to change a light bulb. A cockroach ran out of the toilet.
As a result, once she drove with us to travel in Tibet, and the car had a flat tire in the desert area.
Without saying anything, she rolled up her sleeves and changed the tire by herself, just like a woman. This is a woman with high emotional intelligence who laughs a carload of people to death. "
In this case, why do I have to be entangled here? Let Qing Yunfei solve this problem.
Chu Lihua walked up to Qing Yunfei, "I have never experienced such a thing, and I can't solve it. Then tell me, what should I do now?"
¡ª¡ª"Look, if it's not like this, tell your mother; the son-in-law they want to marry is simply because they have two daughters in the family, and they are afraid that there will be no successors. Our children, the boy's surname is Chu, and the girl's surname is Qing. Ask if this is okay? If not, let¡¯s figure out a solution together.¡± (Remember the website website: www.hlnovel.com