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Chapter 660 Casual Love

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    It is often said that a woman's heart is a needle in the bottom of the sea.  This is obviously for men.  Don't guess the girl's mind, and you can't figure it out.  This is because the women from Venus speak a different language than the Martians.

    [For the man on Mars, words are used to convey information and express facts.  On Venus, the more important role of language is to express emotions.

    Women are natural rhetoricians, especially good at using all kinds of exaggeration, metaphor and inductive techniques to express their thoughts and thoughts in their hearts, in fact, they are more about expressing emotions.

    In the face of women's implicit and dramatic language expressions, men habitually understand women's words literally, and it is difficult to understand the meaning behind these words, so they make wrong responses.

    For example, a woman said: "We stay at home all day, and we are going to be moldy!"

    Immediately the man shoots back, "Who said that? Didn't we just go out last week?"

    The man's answer may be an objective fact, but it is obviously not the answer the woman wants, and it irritates the woman instead.

    Know that a woman is not blaming a man, what she really means is: "Honey, I want to hang out with you and do something interesting. We always have a lot of fun together, and I really enjoy being with you."  Together. What do you think? How about we go out to dinner? We haven't dined out in a while."

    For another example, a woman said to a man: "You never listen to me well!"

    The "never" in this sentence is just an exaggerated way for a woman to express her inner frustration, not a description of the actual situation.

    If a man picks words seriously, he will misinterpret the meaning of the woman, and fight back aggrieved and dissatisfied: "Who said it? I'm not listening now!"

    Be aware that what a woman really wants to say is: "Honey, I think you didn't understand what I said just now, and you didn't care much about how I felt. Could you listen more carefully to what I have to say?"]

    Upon hearing this, Chu Lihua really had the feeling of being in the scene. Isn't the woman in it just what she likes to say?

    It has never been discovered that there is such a big gap between men and women.

    "Never", "every time", "you always" Chu Lihua felt that in the future, such expressions need to be considered before speaking.

    And this passage, it is really necessary for Qing Yunfei to listen to it.  Let him know that many times, he is really not what he thinks.

    Perhaps it was because of the sudden enlightenment, Chu Lihua was in a very good mood along the way, and always had a feeling of euphoria.

    ——"Why are you so happy today?"

    Qing Yunfei also noticed Chu Lihua's abnormality.

    ——"Because I suddenly found that I am so happy to have a boyfriend like you!"

    ——"Don't mess around with me. Tell me, what do you want to eat again, and I will make it for you when I go back tonight?"

    Sure enough, a person like Qing Yunfei is really

    ——"Hee hee, you still know me best. Then I'll have to think about it for a while.

    By the way, when we are free later, let's go and listen to the book I listened to tonight, shall we?  "

    ——"Okay, let's say what you say."

    ——"Are you feeling helpless again?"

    Chu Lihua blurted out, and then felt that she might be thinking too much.

    —— "It seems that your books are all in vain."

    Rarely, Qing Yunfei was not angry.

    ——"Then let's listen together, and then everyone will talk about their understanding and share with each other, so that we can get along better, okay?"

    ——"Okay! Is it okay to say that?"

    ——"Don't leave the latter sentence alone."

    ?I came here in a good mood, but unfortunately, the deliverer did not show up for a long time. Later, after three o'clock in the afternoon, I gave the exact news, saying that all the gifts had been delivered to the store for activities.

    The leader of the team was really embarrassed, saying that it would be a waste of a day to invite everyone to have a meal together.

    On the contrary, Chu Lihua felt that it was nothing. Part-time jobs were just like that. If they were always so fixed, it would be almost the same as full-time jobs.

    But most people can't understand, but seeing that the leader is so easy to talk, he didn't say anything.

    More than a dozen people found a large private room.

    Qing Yunfei deliberately chose a seat at the door for Chu Lihua to sit down.

    —— "Qing Yunfei, why are you sitting so far away, come here and have a drink together."

    ThatThe leader of the team also liked Qing Yunfei.

    ——"My girlfriend is afraid of the smell of smoke, so I sat here with her. It's okay, I can drink it, and I have long arms."

    ——"Oh! I didn't expect you to be a loving person. Then don't you smoke?"

    The leader of the team smiled heartily.

    ——"I have quit now, and I have smoked for more than ten years. There is no way, she can't smell the smoke."

    When Chu Lihua heard such a straightforward statement in front of so many people, her heart felt warm.  Unexpectedly, Qing Yunfei's inadvertent words would touch him so much.

    ——"Then you are really capable. I can't hold on, but my little girlfriend also talks about this to me every day! Is there any secret, let me learn from it."

    ——"To be honest, I was thinking at the time not to make her feel uncomfortable. As for the secret. As a smoker, I have to recognize two facts:

    First of all, smoking is drug use. You must face the reality bravely and admit that you are addicted to nicotine.  So, don't think about step-by-step, and don't have the idea of ????"just take a breath".

    The second fact is that "quitting smoking will not make you give up anything", you will not suffer any grievances in the process of quitting smoking, and only by quitting smoking will you say goodbye to unreasonable pressure and empty feelings, and say goodbye to rhubarb  Teeth and cough, start a happier life.

    It is said that the reason for not being able to quit is because cigarettes contain nicotine.  So why does nicotine in cigarettes make people physiologically dependent?

    In simple terms, it is because nicotine is a drug, and the physical dependence on cigarettes is actually drug addiction.  As long as you think about it, you will have the urge to throw away the cigarettes.

    This is not alarmist talk. In terms of toxicity alone, nicotine is actually more powerful than heroin.

    For example, if you extract nicotine from a cigarette and inject it directly into a vein, it can directly cause death.

    You may say, impossible, I smoked so much, and I lived a good life?  Where did the poison go?

    When you smoke a cigarette, nicotine will enter the lungs with the breath, 70% of the nicotine can be directly absorbed by the lungs, and a quarter of the amount can enter the brain within a few seconds.

    Nicotine entering the brain can cause the brain to secrete a substance called dopamine, which can help nerve cells transmit excitement and happy messages.

    In other words, with nicotine, your brain will produce an inexplicable sense of pleasure.  "

    The menu was transferred to Qing Yunfei, and he ordered a griddle potato chips.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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