¡ª¡ª"Axis areas vary from person to person, and can be career achievement or enterprise; it can also be the taste of life, or opinions on children's growth and development, and so on.
As long as the husband and wife both attach importance to these areas, and around this axis, the husband and wife can establish a consensus, and it is still possible to maintain a relatively good marriage relationship.
However, is there such a shared axis in our lives? Sometimes the parties are hard to tell.
Because conflicts in non-axis areas may obscure the shared axes that actually exist. This axis only manifests itself when separated from each other.
For example, you and your partner had a big fight because of work issues, and even separated, and then you found that there is no one else who matches your life taste so well.
At this time, maybe you just know that the axis of your sharing is the taste of daily life, not work.
Therefore, whether the marital problems caused by disagreement can be improved, you may need to understand the type of your relationship first; then look at whether the shared axis exists in your relationship, and how the quality is; then you can determine whether there is a possibility of improvement. "
Qin Qing's magnetic voice stopped, but the shock it brought to Chu Lihua still reverberated in her heart.
That is to say, any nonsense that the three views are inconsistent is all an excuse.
¡ª¡ª"Here we are, follow the crowd to the right at the intersection ahead, and you will enter the Ancient Guanyin Temple. I will wait for you at the door. After a while, if you can't find me when you come out, just call me."
The driver of the car parked the car on the side of the road.
Following the flow of people into the ancient Guanyin Temple, several people found a very beautiful ginkgo tree. At this time, the ground was already golden. People can't help but keep their eyes on this ginkgo tree.
¡ª¡ª"Is this ginkgo tree planted by Li Shimin himself? Over 1,400 years ago, its annual rings should have surpassed that of the temple. However, the information should be wrong. It is not a single tree forming a forest, but it is also spectacular enough."
¡ª¡ª"Yes! It's really strange that there are not as many people in this free scenic spot as in the paid scenic spot."
Yanyan happily stepped on the thick layer of ginkgo leaves on the ground and ran into the old tree.
¡ª¡ª"Hey, come and have a look! There is also an ancient well here."
¡ª¡ª"That ancient well is said to be a thousand-year-old well. More than a thousand years have passed, and its water level has not changed. It is said to be an ancient spring of gods."
The person next to him who was holding a camera and posing at an angle answered casually.
¡ª¡ª"Brother, seeing that your equipment is so complete and the angle is so professional, why don't you please take a photo for us. Although the equipment is a bit crude, I hope you don't dislike it."
Yanyan walked up to the man taking the picture and said.
Who would refuse to speak so well.
And that person is indeed a professional, even if he helped Chu Lihua and Qing Yunfei take photos with his mobile phone, the angle selection and light and shadow effects are also very good.
It is estimated that if a beauty camera is used, wouldn't it be comparable to a blockbuster.
Yanyan also invited the man to go with her. However, he was politely rejected by others.
¡ª¡ª"Yanyan, obviously, you have such an excellent boyfriend by your side, but I found that you always invite people you meet along the way to go on the road together. Don't you like the time when you two are together?"
Chu Lihua was puzzled.
¡ª¡ª"No, it's just that I like it so much, that's why I always invite others to help us record all this with the camera."
¡ª¡ª "Do you have to take a full-body photo?"
¡ª¡ª"No, mainly, I"
Yanyan looked up at Qin Qing, then whispered in Chu Lihua's ear, "Boyfriend, his photography skills are really bad. But, I'm afraid that I will hurt him, after all, he is such an excellent person. How can I tolerate such a bad side of myself."
¡ª¡ª"He's not that fragile, is he?"
¡ª¡ª"You don't understand this. A man is the most face-saving, even if he doesn't say it, he will feel uncomfortable in his heart. The person I put on the top of my heart is willing to be wronged. A man, too To be petted."
Yanyan deliberately pulled Chu Lihua away from some Qing Yunfei and Qin Qing, and the two whispered quietly.
¡ª¡ª"Let me tell you, Chu'er, I heard your boyfriend call you that."
¡ª¡ª"Well, my name is Chu Lihua."
¡ª¡ª "Is it Chu Shijian's Chu? This surname is really rare."
¡ª¡ª"No, it's ChuPoor Chu, my mother's surname is Chu, Chu Shijian's son. "
¡ª¡ª"I see, it's the charming Chu, why do you say that you are pitiful. According to my boyfriend, you are a self-pity personality.
The main manifestation is that you are quite unconfident and always feel that you are inferior. Maybe it's because of birth, maybe it's because of illness and so on.
In fact, other people really don't care about those. Just like us, when we just met, we can still have a heart-to-heart chat.
Who you are is a thing of the past, and now you are my good friend. "
¡ª¡ª"A name introduction can tell so much?"
Chu Lihua felt that this did not belong to the category of philosophy, it should belong to psychology.
This Qin Qing is really a portable library.
¡ª¡ª"I only know a little superficially, if my boyfriend can analyze more.
For example, I always like to strike up a conversation with strangers, actually. He has observed everything, and if that person is untouchable, he will come up in time to stop me. "
¡ª¡ª"Such a boyfriend really needs to be pampered at the tip of my heart!"
¡ª¡ª"No, any boyfriend, even if he is a domineering president, will hope that he will be treated tenderly by the woman he loves.
Many times, women regard men as their backers, as the pillars of their lives, and as a harbor they can rely on.
In front of men, they wantonly vent their emotions, they cry, they laugh, they make trouble They always think that men are as strong as shields, they never disdain men's fragility, and they are often ridiculed for their delicacy.
But often the strongest people also have the weakest side. In fact, men, like women, also have various emotional needs.
Men also need to be coaxed! A man's heart is very tired, his body is very tired, and they also long for a woman's comfort! "
¡ª¡ª"You don't know the art of controlling husbands from your family, do you?"
¡ª¡ª"Coaxing a man is not a technique of controlling a husband, but a deep analysis of a man's inner desire. It is the honey of love; it is also a lubricant for maintaining feelings, which can not only prevent rust, but also reduce Friction and noise; as long as there is it, the strong emotions between men and women will not deteriorate."
¡ª¡ª"My God, I used to think that girls should be pampered and coaxed. Later, although I learned a lot, I didn't reach your level of awareness! Where did you learn this from? ?¡±
¡ª¡ª"My boyfriend told me all about it."
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