It's a pity, Chu Lihua's vision should have a high probability of being passed on to the next generation, right?
Qing Yunfei didn't realize that he had already thought so far.
After thirty, I am not as anxious as before.
My own family situation is really not optimistic.
When my brother got married, the family still had the ability to help buy a house and so on.
It's just that now, I'm afraid that I will die alone in my life.
Really, for a man, being poor is the original sin. Many men who treat their lovers sincerely are forced to give up because of economic conditions, and this is not uncommon around me.
In fact, it¡¯s no wonder that the current reality of girls is really because this society has created a value of money first.
Everyone thinks this way, girls also want to live a good life with you, but you can't even give her a stable home, how can she feel at ease?
Most girls need a sense of security, and money is the thing that can best create a sense of security. Therefore, money is very important to a man. If a man cannot achieve a successful career by the age of thirty, he will easily become a leftover man.
Qing Yunfei shook his head mockingly.
A few months ago, there was a scandal in my hometown town.
The protagonist of the scandal is my buddy.
He has a disease that cannot be cured to get rid of the root.
The reason is that I often run to the land of smoke willows.
I sympathized with him quite a bit, and while reassuring, I asked: "Now that half the town knows that you are sick, it will be even more difficult for you to marry a wife."
At that time, the buddy said: "Forget it, if you don't get sick, you still can't get married."
Hearing this, I felt even more sympathetic.
Others are not bad, very honest, so honest that they almost don't belong to this world.
Ten years ago, his mother died of illness.
In the second year after that, after graduating from elementary school, at the age of 18, he embarked on a long road of blind dates.
He said, the girls he has met, maybe not a hundred, maybe eighty.
He also said that he liked all these girls, but none of them liked him.
There is no way, he is really inconspicuous in the marriage and love market in villages and towns.
The family is poor, his mother died in his early years, his father is lazy, and he has the kind of personality that is very unpopular with girls - dull, unprogressive, and not good at words.
So much so that, at the age of thirty, he would never even hold hands with a girl¡ªif he hadn't been to the red light district.
However, this assumption does not exist.
It's not just him, it can even be said that in the red-light districts of small eighteenth-tier counties, most of the income is supported by leftover men.
The situation of my own home, alas_
Anyway, I heard that there are 20 million leftover men now, and I am not far behind myself.
Besides, my brother's family already has a child. Lao Qing's family also has a male successor.
Thinking of this, Qing Yunfei's head became even more confused.
After eating the dumplings in two mouthfuls of three, Qing Yunfei took the medicine and lay down without waiting for a long time.
After Chu Lihua went back, she ate dumplings while looking at her mobile phone.
Thinking about finding a topic to chat with the financial girl.
It took time to find out that people were neglected to contact people.
It's too abrupt to contact me all at once.
The three major "fang hate less" in life.
The first type: "When the book is in use, you will hate less."
There are two kinds of people who say this, one is people who read less, and the other is people who read a lot.
?People who study less, when encountering things and problems in work, study and life, are confused and difficult, have few ways, and struggle, only then do they realize that their lack of ability is so obvious, and there is a big gap between them and smart and capable people.
At this time, they found out the reason, deeply felt that they were not well-educated, read few books, did not have a broad mind, had a low starting point and a low level, and were often stumbled by branches and blocked by ditches and ridges on the road of life. Therefore, he shouted, "When the book is used, I will hate less."
And people who read a lot, the more they read, the more they feel that they don¡¯t have enough knowledge. This is not pretending to be modest, but that they have swum from streams to rivers, from shallow bays to deep seas, knowing that the vast ocean of knowledge is so vast and deep.
Especially through lectures, writing, etc., to arm and guide work, study and life with knowledge, how to behave and how to walk the road of life are often tested by knowledge. At this time, I sighed from the bottom of my heart: "When the book is used, I hate less."
In fact, if you only understand books as books??Knowledge, is not enough. Because there are two books, one is "book with words" and the other is "book without words".
This "book without words" is actually social knowledge, which is more reflected in insight and courage, practice and experience. A person who has truly become a talent and has made a difference can not only learn but also do things, and he has read these two "books" well.
?Let knowledge accumulation become ability, let practical skills become talent, accumulating and mastering, realizing the leap from quantitative change to qualitative change, and using it for yourself anytime, anywhere.
And the second one is: "When the money is used up, I hate less."
An ordinary person, even if he has a fixed income, if he is just living a small life, although he is not rich, the money seems to be enough, and it doesn't matter if he has a few pennies.
And once the money is spent, large amounts of money, such as buying a house and car, treating serious illnesses, children's education, pensions, loan repayments, and supporting relatives and friends, etc., then the money will be tight and stretched.
If you still want to invest in financial management, money is a big problem. In case there is an emergency and you have to rely on money to rescue the emergency, then, the truth is: when the money is used up, you will hate less, and when the matter is urgent, you will feel panic.
You know, in life, who doesn't have urgent matters that come suddenly? Who doesn't have tribulations of ups and downs? To deal with these emergencies and disasters, it is necessary to use money to relieve urgent needs and eliminate disasters and risks.
At this time, I really understand: when money is not used, it is just paper or numbers; when it is used, it is money, another lifeblood. "Money is not everything, but without money, everything is impossible.
"This sentence is the most realistic and helpless truth, and the best interpretation of "money is spent when it is used up".
What's more, the rising prices, the increasing cost of living, and people's constant pursuit of improving the quality of life require more money to support them.
Many practical needs, even a small one, cannot be realized without money. In the era of material desires, people frantically pursue money, most of which are forced by reality. If you have money, you can travel all over the world, but if you don't have money, you can't go anywhere.
No matter when and where, for most people, the situation is the same: earning money is like climbing a slope, spending money is like going downhill; .
And this third, but also the most important, "When friends are used, hate is less."
Going out to rely on friends is a common phenomenon in the humane society.
For many people, "friend" is actually a deep and delicate word. Don't look at usually having many friends, eating, drinking and having fun together, laughing and joking together, call each other brothers and get along with each other, you can talk about everything when you have nothing to do. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com