Six key factors: first impression + similarity + principle of equivalence + self-esteem + initial strategy of attacking the mind + secret recipe for igniting desire.
For the first impression, love at first sight only happens when you first meet, once you miss it, you will miss it forever.
When two cats meet for the first time, they stop and stare at each other. If one cat utters a growl, the other cat replies by bristling its fur and growling.
But if the first cat raises its cool little nose, the other responds with the same tenderness; then they huddle together, purring and licking each other's fur .
Between men and women, meeting for the first time is exactly the same as how two animals decide their positions by smelling each other.
However, we don't have tails to wag or hair to stand up, but we do have eyes that can blink and hands that can bend their joints and raise their palms to say "I admit defeat".
In the first few minutes of the interaction between a man and a woman, both parties will make dozens of unconscious actions to reveal their hearts. But we can also learn to control these unconscious responses.
Once you set your eyes on each other, your Quarry will read your body language without even knowing it.
During those crucial few minutes, he (or she) will make a subconscious decision: whether to start a romantic journey with you or give up the idea of ????being in love with you.
Next, his (or her) brain will be controlled like a computer, and quickly make decisions related to you during your first date and first conversation. "
This, everything has nothing to do with me. Not to mention that the two of them didn't interact that much when they first met, and the interaction such as the eyes is not suitable for me!
The fighting spirit that Chu Lihua had just ignited was extinguished in an instant.
Chu Lihua rolled around on the bed melancholy, messing up the bed that had just been made.
Did you just give up like this? No, isn't this just the first step? Chu Lihua continued to read.
"Similar personalities, complementary needs
I want a lover who is exactly like me! "
Are you and Qing Yunfei similar in personality? Are the needs complementary?
"Once you pass the first impression test, you enter the second stage of love. At this time, your Quarry begins to make various evaluations of you to judge whether you can become a qualified Quarry.
He (or she) subconsciously says, "I want a partner who is exactly like me. Well, at least basically."
If life¡ªor a date¡ªrequires compatibility, then having something in common between men and women is a must.
The human mind is an exquisite musical instrument, and it is always keenly looking for those who can harmonize with itself, looking for those people whose world outlook and values ??are more or less similar to ours.
Similarity makes us feel comfortable because it gives us a sense of affirmation that we made the right choices in previous lives.
We love finding people with similar interests so we can share and have fun together. Similarity is indeed a good launching pad for intimacy to take off properly.
But if two people are too similar, it is inevitable to feel bored. In addition, we also need a person to make up for our shortcomings.
So when looking for a long-term life partner, we also desire that the other party has complementary qualities to us, but not just any kind of complementary qualities-we need those qualities that are interesting or make life more complete. Therefore, we look for a partner who is both similar and complementary to us. "
Are they similar and complementary? What the hell is this?
The north and south poles of the magnet? That thing was originally one! Even if the magnetic strip is divided into two from the middle, the north and south poles will still be re-divided again!
Is this too difficult?
If I have such ability, who can't take it?
Let's take a look at the third principle of equivalence. If it doesn't work, it is estimated that this method is not suitable for you.
"People are worth a lot on the free market! Everyone has a price tag on them. Like: How beautiful is she? How high is she? How much power does he have? He's rich, wise, and good-natured." Man? What can he bring me?"
Is this a bit too vulgar?
Chu Lihua couldn't help beating drums in her heart.
Love is pure and full of tenderness, and the content of love is?Love each other, think about each other, communicate emotionally and be sincere and selfless, this is the love in Chu Lihua's heart.
If that's the case, this is nothing more than a transaction, and it will lose the meaning of love in my heart. Then what's the use of pursuing it yourself?
No matter the touching love, isn't it like this?
However, it seems that Zhang Wuji and Zhao Min also used a lot of tricks to
When I didn't understand "Yi Tian Tu Long Ji", I thought it was a martial arts drama. After watching it many years later, it was a provocative Han drama in which girls used eighteen martial arts to compete for Zhang Wuji.
Obviously, Zhao Min is a big winner.
There are so many girls who like Zhang Wuji, Zhu'er is kind and saves him from a low point, Zhou Zhiruo is gentle and understanding when they first met, and Xiao Zhao takes good care of him so caringly that he can't take care of himself.
Yes, these girls are very good.
However, there is no girl who can make him hate him so much and love him so much that he can't help it like Miss Zhao.
Human nature is like this, you will always only have a soft spot for people who disturb your mind.
Chu Lihua remembered that Zhao Min asked Zhang Wuji to go to the tavern, under the pretense of helping him test the poison, and took a sip from Zhang Wuji's wine glass first.
"I couldn't help but feel a little strange. When I looked up, I saw her smiling, and the smell of alcohol steamed her pink cheeks, making her even more beautiful." Zhang Wuji didn't dare to stare at the person all the time, and turned his head away hastily.
It was also in this tavern that she generously revealed her feelings. She told Zhang Wuji all about her background and her concern for Zhang Wuji. Zhang Wuji was not stupid and had no psychological defenses. , the relationship is naturally incomparable with others. Thirty-six strategies, attacking the heart is the top priority.
Now, living under the same roof with Qing Yunfei, I must have more opportunities than others.
Fortunately, the impulsive decision just now gradually calmed down after cleaning up the house. otherwise¡¡
?The moon is the first to be near the water, the weather is right, and the location is right.
There was a passage when Zhao Min heard that his cousin Yin Li had bitten Zhang Wuji. From then on Zhang Wuji remembered her, and Zhao Min bit him hard too.
I'm afraid this is not easy to learn. However, intentional or unintentional physical contact may be a good choice. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com