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Chapter 551 All I Think About is You

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    The classic sentence in "The Great Gatsby": "When you feel like criticizing others, remember that not everyone in the world has the same conditions as you."

    Similarly, I think about the problem now from my own point of view, so what is Qing Yunfei thinking?

    One of the most common mistakes in love is to judge others by oneself.  Especially when it comes to choosing a spouse in love, many people put too much emphasis on "seeking common ground" and neglect "reserving differences", taking themselves as a yardstick for granted.

    In fact, many loves come from the attraction of differences. The compatibility of the three views does not mean that they are 100% compatible and synchronized, but allow and respect the differences between the other party and oneself on the basis of the general direction.

    The prerequisite for this is to understand the other party's original family and growth environment, and to see the deep-seated reasons behind the shortcomings and shortcomings.  Only by understanding can tolerance be possible; and only by tolerance can it be possible to reach agreement.  The most sincere love is not forced transformation, but patience and tolerance.

    I know only a little about his family now, and he, it can be said that he basically doesn't know his family.

    This, you can't ask bluntly all of a sudden, right?

    Then, learn from his friends?  However, apart from his colleagues and friends, I don't know anything about it.

    By the way, friends, the circle of friends is also an important factor. The two circles of friends now seem to be integrated, and they both work in the same industry.

    I remember that my colleague Zhang Hong fell in love a long time ago, a man I met in a bar.  The two talked very happily, and there was a bit of sympathy for each other.

    The man is a resident singer in a bar. He is handsome, can cook, and can speak well.  When she was tired of being with him, Zhang Hong only felt that the whole world was blooming with pink flowers.  She described this relationship as an idol drama, the crazy love between birds and fish in the legend.

    All was well until their social circles started to infiltrate each other.

    Zhang Hong has attended three or five parties with her boyfriend. She frowned and described to me: "In that kind of particularly noisy nightclub or ktv, they drink and swear, I can't get in the conversation, I look like a fool."

    After repeated times, Zhang Hong became impatient, and she asked her boyfriend to cut off contact with "husbands and dogs", but his boyfriend retorted at her circle of friends who talked about travel and financial management.

    After a dozen or so quarrels, the two parted ways.

    Chu Lihua remembered that Zhang Hong was depressed for a long time at that time.  Later, when we chatted at lunch, we found out the whole story.

    At that time, Zhang Weier still said in the tone of someone who had experienced it, "The so-called crazy love is just an inappropriate love with someone from another world at the wrong time and place."

    In other words, a person's circle is actually a mirror, which can clearly reflect his life, thoughts, and habits.  If you don't like his friends, you are actually repelling him and rejecting him subconsciously.

    After all, human beings are social animals, and marriages that exist independently of society and social interaction are too rare.  Marrying a person is actually marrying his circle and habits.

    The circle of friends who have no intersection represents completely different value pursuits and lifestyles.  Such two people will probably be attracted to each other for a while, but they will never stay together for a lifetime.

    For Qing Yunfei, apart from smoking, he has not found anything unacceptable for the time being.

    What about yourself?  She looks okay and behaves okay, but she is a little short, and the most important thing is her eyes.

    Moreover, I don't know if this will be passed on to the children. If It's better not to have children.  Don't let him go through ups and downs like his again.

    Thinking of this, Chu Lihua felt inexplicably sad.

    Walking to the balcony, overlooking the entire community, under the dim street lights, there were few pedestrians.

    The summer night wind was originally the most popular, but when it arrived, it also brought the most annoying mosquito in summer.

    This season, in Yunnan, there are lotus seeds to eat.

    I still remember visiting the night market in Qujing once. When the lights were on, someone picked flowers to sell. Roses, lilies, lotuses, sunflowers, tulips, and carnations were in full bloom.

    When I leaned over to pick fresh lotus pods, I heard a couple's conversation.

    The man pulled the woman: "Let's go, what can I buy for flowers? It's not suitable for eating or drinking, it's pure waste!"

    The woman refused: "It looks good! It's pleasing to the eye, and I'm in a good mood to keep it at home!"

    The man sneered: "In a good mood? How much is it worth per catty?"

    "Summer insects are beyond words!" The woman rushed back angrily.After saying a word, I chose a large bunch of red roses on my own.  The man looked angry, the woman's face was also covered with frost, and the flowers in her arms seemed to have lost their color.

    Muhammad has a famous saying: "If you have two loaves of bread, you have to exchange one for a daffodil." But some people insist that all daffodils should be exchanged for bread to bring material stability  And satisfaction are firmly in the heart.

    If these two kinds of people form a family, life can easily become a disaster.

    Women are born to love flowers, but how many men have such a good taste?

    A person's view of consumption is the most direct reflection of values.  It is really difficult for men and women who disagree too much on the issue of spending money to live a smooth life.  Because most of the things in life are related to spending money, it is related to the quality of life, and affects emotions.

    Judging from going shopping and eating together during this time, the two seem to have similar consumption views.

    Forehead.  .  .

    Why is it endless, and my thoughts always involuntarily return to myself and Qing Yunfei?

    If he really married Qing Yunfei

    Marriage is a big event, because the future is closely related to the partner.

    As the saying goes, marriage is a woman's second life!

    The most beautiful ending of a love affair is to take both of them to the other shore through marriage as a boat.

    Are the places we want to go in the same direction?  Qing Yunfei's tall figure appeared in Chu Lihua's mind.

    When walking together, he would always lower his head and look at himself crookedly, his voice was very nice, he

    Chu Lihua smiled foolishly.

    This is really a good memory!  Is it a golden match?

    "Dream of Red Mansions" said: "Dao is a golden and jade marriage, I only think of the former alliance between wood and stone."

    Mushi Qianmeng talked about Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu, while Jinyu Liangyuan talked about Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu.

    This is the most famous love triangle in Chinese classical literature, which breaks down the truth that different ways do not seek each other.

    Jia Baoyu kisses Daiyu and stays away from Baochai for only one reason: "Sister Lin never says such stupid things." But Xue Baochai always advises him to pay more attention to economic career and embark on a road of Qingyun that "good wind relies on strength"  .  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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