Yu Xiaqiu didn't speak for a long time, and Chu Lihua also sat beside her silently.
In Chu Lihua's rental house, it was suddenly very quiet.
¡ª¡ª"How does it feel to go back during the Chinese New Year?"
After hesitating for a while, Chu Lihua finally changed the subject.
¡ª¡ª"To be honest, I want to be like you. I can eat enough for one person and the whole family will not be hungry. If you don't want to go home for the New Year, you don't have to go back. But, I can't.
In fact, it's not that I don't want to go home, but I'm afraid of the atmosphere of going home.
It should be returning to a familiar home, but I feel like I have come to a strange "Vanity Fair". This feeling is even more obvious after work. Therefore, I am more and more afraid to go home for the New Year.
Originally, Chinese New Year is a very ceremonial festival. When I was in school, I liked Chinese New Year very much, because it meant that I could have winter vacation, go home, and eat the dishes cooked by my father. But graduation is like a watershed. After graduation, the so-called Chinese New Year has become a "Vanity Fair".
Comparisons between relatives, children, income, buying a house, and even whether the child has a partner, whether he is married, whether he bought a house, where the house was bought, whether he bought a car, what brand of car
These seem to have become topics that must be discussed at family dinners during the Chinese New Year.
In addition, there is also a student reunion that makes people laugh and cry.
The superficial "how are you doing" are actually "I live better than you", and the mutual care between the words will be meaningful if you listen carefully.
So I'm afraid, it's not that I don't want to go home for the New Year, but I don't want to go home to face the atmosphere. "
As soon as this was mentioned, Yu Xiaqiu obviously talked a lot.
¡ª¡ª"In fact, everyone has their own difficulties. I haven't been home for several years.
A few years ago, when my relatives urged me, my parents would still speak for me. But as I got older, my parents seemed to change too.
After I dropped out of school, I became financially independent. I didn¡¯t ask for a penny from my family. I took care of work and renting an apartment by myself. I was also very independent emotionally. My parents said how hard it was for me to live outside.
A few years ago, my parents said I was sensible and praised my ability in front of relatives, but these years have really changed completely.
In the past, relatives said that when you are not young, you can start looking for someone.
My parents would say, it¡¯s okay, it¡¯s okay, don¡¯t worry, she knows it in her own mind.
Now relatives say that at such an age, if you don¡¯t get married, there will be no market.
I wanted to refute at first, but when I saw my parents sitting next to me, nodding along with what my relatives said, my heart became extremely cold.
Once, my relatives forced me to go on a blind date with a man. After the blind date was over, I said it might not be suitable, and my relatives directly criticized me. Is it too picky?
My parents also agreed, saying that as long as people are honest, other things don't matter, and I can't choose anymore at my age.
It doesn't matter if my relatives don't understand me, but if my parents don't understand, I'm really sad.
In fact, I think very simple. It is not easy for me to live outside. I need someone to praise me and recognize me, so that I will feel motivated to live a good life in a big city, instead of just saying Marriage" to measure my worth.
?I want to go home for the New Year, but I dare not go home for the New Year. I want to avoid all kinds of questions, and the parents don't understand their children. This has caused an endless cycle of communication and real conflicts between the two generations. "
Chu Lihua tried her best to speak mellowly, not to make herself look like a rejected child, but just a child who was forced to marry and dare not go home for the New Year.
Some scars can be uncovered for others to see, anyway, they have scabbed over.
But some scars, once uncovered, will be dripping with blood.
¡ª¡ª"Actually, to be honest, you are indeed not young. We seem to be the same age or I am younger than you. Although I did get married a little earlier, but your age is indeed later. They are also I care about you!"
¡ª¡ª"Marriage is not a matter of one person, it is a matter of three families! And the most important thing is that two juniors can live happily after being together. Life is not a year or two, a lifetime is very long.
Sometimes, in a family, parents worry a lot about the growth of their children and pay a lot, so they rely on "I will give you everything you have" and condescend, thinking that they have the absolute right to speak to their children, and even have the absolute right to execute them. In the name of "it's all for your own good", he lectures, accuses, beats and scolds his children.
In fact, all children need is to understandThat's all. "
Chu Lihua didn't know if she said these words to Yu Xiaqiu, or if she wanted to say them to her parents.
Later, Yu Xiaqiu couldn't say anything more.
The next day, it was time to go to work.
Many colleagues are presenting hometown specialties to each other.
Chu Lihua sat aside in embarrassment.
It was Chapterville who rescued her.
¡ª¡ª"Lihua, you didn't go home to celebrate the New Year, so please tell everyone about your feelings about celebrating the New Year in Beijing."
Chu Lihua is a person who can speak well. This sentence is enough for Chu Lihua to talk for a long time.
The atmosphere is still quite good.
After Zhang Weier received a phone call, he changed.
The Northeast woman whose home was demolished called Zhang Weier and explained why she couldn't return to work on time, and the most important thing was that she couldn't give an exact time.
Chapterville is now in the midst of employment, and she is very annoyed.
¡ª¡ª"Lihua, you used to be in the personnel department of an insurance company. I will give you a monthly subsidy of 500 yuan, and you can help me make an hour of recruitment calls every day, okay? I believe in the recruitment ability cultivated by your insurance company. It¡¯s an overkill for the company.¡±
Chapterville was out of breath.
¡ª¡ª"Sister, if I can help you, I am willing."
The reason why Chu Lihua agreed was not because of the 500 yuan, the recruitment ability can also be gradually developed.
In addition, in fact, it is not suitable to call customers in the morning. It's different with recruiting calls.
A normal working position is 8 hours a day. Generally speaking, the three time periods of just going to work, lunch break, and getting off work are the most unsuitable to call customers. Come here, if you are not in the working state, you may have to busy yourself with the things at hand, or browse the web.
At noon, everyone chats, eats, and rests. It is impolite to disturb customers; when the work is about to end, the customer's work is about to end, and the finishing work is about to start, so at this time the customer does not have much time to listen to your sales.
Of course, the target customers of the travel industry are retirees with money and leisure. However, calls are made blindly, and no one can guarantee who the outgoing call will be answered. Therefore, calls made just after work are the most inefficient. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com