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——"A friend like me has experienced his parents from poverty to wealth, and his growth environment is relatively complicated, so he has a precocious personality and is very realistic in thinking about problems.
And the boy grew up in a small town, living in a very simple environment, very romantic and passionate.
Can such two people have the same values?
She also knows that the gap between two people cannot be changed by love alone.
People who choose a love partner with the mentality of "the right family" will not be too bumpy in their relationship. My cousin is such a person.
Although he was born in an ordinary working family, he is excellent, beautiful and capable, and has a cheerful personality.
Because I work in finance, I can always get in touch with the upper-level social circle.
In fact, quite a lot of wealthy second-generation girls like girls like their cousins. They have a simple family structure, are highly educated and have their own careers. They are the kind of "wife type" who are especially suitable for marrying back home.
But the cousin declined all the rich second generation's pursuit.
"I just want to find someone who is in the same situation as my family. He doesn't dislike me, and I don't think highly of him. We are equal, and our parents are also equal. I won't cling to someone just because they are much better or worse than me. Or feel wronged."
The cousin finally chose a brother-in-law whose family background was similar to hers.
Both parents are working class and have been ordinary for a lifetime.
Both of their fathers are the type who don't talk much but have a good temper, while their mothers are very outgoing, kind and simple.
Sister and brother-in-law get along very well, more like a copy of their original family.
? From falling in love, meeting parents, getting married, and buying a house, everything went smoothly, and there was almost no quarrel.
Because of the same values, both of them felt that the simpler the wedding, the better, and planned a long-distance trip with the saved money.
They are simply a model of a perfect marriage around me.
There is a saying that it is easy to fall in love because of the five senses, and it is not easy to get along because of the three views.
I have seen too many impulsive young couples. After a few years of bitter and bitter love, they still could not compromise because of different living environments and parted ways.
When young and old, everyone has the determination to "go through fire and water for love", but after experiencing it, we understand that this naive idea is still not worth the reality.
?Loving someone needs to consume energy, spend too much time and experience on someone who shouldn't have started, and then love the next person
But it is too difficult.
I have always believed that the best relationship is evenly matched.
Whether it is love or marriage, evenly matched means that ability, cognition, cultural accomplishment, life goals, etc. will not be too bad.
And these are cultivated from the original family.
? As the Chinese saying goes, if a woman does not get married, a man does not marry a man. The gap in the family of origin is not only money, but the cognitive gap brought about by money. This is the true meaning of the right family.
In fact, such scenes are very common in or around our lives.
for example:
"Hey, can you wash the knife that has cut raw meat, and then cut cooked meat, it is unhygienic~"
"Only you are poor and particular."
for example:
"Wait a minute! Change into your pajamas and go to bed again, there will be dust, which is not good for your skin~"
"Only you are poor and particular."
Another example:
"It's only a few hundred yuan. If you invite friends to spend it, you can spend it. There's no need to calculate it so clearly~"
"Forget it, you go and help me get it back."
Money may win the lottery overnight, but cognition cannot.
When all your passions are exhausted in unsuitable love affairs, and even lose the ability to love.
Only then will you understand how important it is to be cautious before starting a relationship. "
The more Chu Lihua talked, the smoother she became. In fact, she just thought of her previous relationship with her ex-boyfriends. At this time, she finally understood what kind of partner she wanted.
In the past, she was just blindly afraid of falling in love again, because she was afraid of failing again.
Unexpectedly, under such circumstances, I suddenly felt enlightened. It can be described as enlightenment.
——"Yuzi, it seems that you have experienced a lot!"
After Chu Lihua finished speaking, she was silent for a while, and then Dulian opened her mouth with a playful smile.
——"Hahaha, who hasn't had a few failed relationships yet."
Once Chu Lihua thinks about it, she willAfter that, I didn't hide anything and choked.
She is no longer worried that other people will laugh at her. She has had several relationships, but still hasn't found a good home.
It turned out that I wasn't too picky. It's because the copy item of the original family is wrongly selected.
——"Traveling is indeed much more interesting than traveling. Fortunately, I didn't sign up for a tour group and then got in the car to sleep, get out of the car to pee, see the sights, take pictures, and go home and ask nothing."
Cherry also has a lot of emotion.
——"Yeah, although there seems to be only one word difference between "tourism" and "travel", they are two completely different experiences.
Tourism is like fast food. It takes scenic spots and scenic spots as the direct goal, and can't wait to omit all the process to get there quickly. It is simple and direct, and the purpose is clear.
Traveling is walking as you like. You can stay up late to see the street at four o'clock in the morning, or you can sleep until you wake up naturally. Wherever your figure is, there is sunshine everywhere.
Going to a city, travelers like to take the bus on the side of the road, regardless of where they come from or where they are going, and watch the time go by outside the window. This city may be much more beautiful than you imagined.
Tourists prefer to "follow the crowd" and like to imitate other people's travel methods and visit scenic spots.
Go to a place with A-level scenic spots and local Internet celebrity attractions. If you don’t go once, it will be a waste of time.
But travelers are different, they like to try new things, have unique vision and thinking.
Compared with punching in landmarks, they are more interested in some niche travel destinations. Every time they go to a place, they will have new inspiration, and the photos will also infect other people. "
Watermelon also echoed his opinion.
——"Also, tourists like to use suitcases, which are mostly clothes, shoes, cosmetics and other daily necessities, and there is still a surplus to buy commemorative T-shirts, necklaces, bracelets and local specialties to take back.
Traveling is lightly packed, most of which only carry a backpack, which contains more outdoor equipment. "
The cherries then added.
In this way, the topic changed from love and marriage at the beginning to discussing the difference between travel and tourism.
It is said that three women play a drama, and now, the four of them have endless topics to talk about.
Until after the youth hostel, they still kept chatting with great interest.
However, after that, they planned to separate. each to the next destination.
The separation was proposed by Dulian, "Meeting and reuniting is fate, and everyone is an indelible memory on each other's journey. At the same time, it is also the best harvest of coming to this city." (Remember this site website: www .hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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