¡ª¡ª"From that day on, he became even more insane, not only asking for a divorce, but also fighting for custody of his daughter with me.
how can that be possible? The child has grown up to this day, has he ever taken it with him for a day? Has he ever paid a penny for the child from kindergarten to interest class?
Do not agree, I absolutely do not agree.
The situation lasted until this year's Spring Festival, and it took a sharp turn for the worse, which also made me deeply understand the ugliness of human nature.
He gave me an ultimatum to divorce. The house is sold, and the money is half of the money.
Under my continued indifference, he sent me a video of me beating my daughter and she was crying.
Suddenly, a gust of cold air rushed straight to the top of the head.
He sent me a WeChat message: I don't mind going to court. I have evidence of your child abuse, do you think the judge will award the child to you?
I sat stiffly on the ground, shaking uncontrollably. I couldn't tell if it was extreme anger or fear.
The thing is like this, that day, the baby who had taken off the diaper suddenly kept peeing his pants. I changed four pieces a day, and I told her to call mom when she wanted to pee, call mom. But she still wet the fifth.
There was no more pants to change for her. She was cold and uncomfortable, and kept crying. I took off her pants and tried to find a way to find them, but when I turned around, she peed all over herself and wet the quilt.
I really, couldn't help it, and spanked her emotionally. I know this is wrong, but just imagine, which "single mother" has not despaired to the point of collapse?
It's really hard for me to imagine that you regard him as a family member, this person who sleeps with you, who has had blood relatives, and who has common interests. During the whole process, he was like a dead person, motionless. Sitting on the sofa and playing with a mobile phone, without using your hands from start to finish.
You thought he was just indifferent and irresponsible, but you never thought that he recorded the video of you beating your child out of context, in a vain attempt to give you a fatal blow in court! "
When Chu Lihua heard this, she suddenly felt a chill rise up her back. What kind of person is this?
¡ª¡ª"Did you buy your house before you got married or after you got married? Can you prove that he didn't spend a penny on the house? The custody of this child should not be completely determined by just a video, after all, the child It has always been with you, and as long as you have the ability to raise her."
Chu Lihua was very anxious to know the result, Xiner must not fall into the hands of that lunatic man!
Even if the daughter who had been on the sidelines so coldly was in his hands, it is probably only a surviving existence of his blood, not a treasure in the palm of his hand. If this is the case, Xiner will stay with her mother. Live better, after all, the lesser of two evils.
¡ª¡ª"I don't know why people can be so bad! I don't know why people can be so greedy!
The house he wants like crazy is the house that my parents gave us when we got married. The decoration and electrical appliances are all paid by our parents. In the whole house, what he paid for is only a set of tea sets.
I don't understand, I have never done anything harmful to nature, and I didn't take advantage of him at all, why did I do this to me? Why do you try your best to trick me into your hands and then throw it away like a shoe?
? To put it bluntly, given his family's conditions, he is a high-ranking person to me. If he doesn't ask him to offer me up like an ancestor, he doesn't even have the least bit of respect and help.
I once cried to my best friend in college. In fact, there are many female students who are richer than me in school. If you are with me, no matter how bad he is, he should still be sincere, right?
Unexpectedly, my best friend said shockingly: "There are many girls who are richer than you, but there are no girls who are stupid than you. With his virtue and his teacher's name, others can play with him. Do you want to get married? Let's see who is willing?"
I finally understood that this encounter was not predestined, but that I led the wolf into the house myself.
? After consulting a divorce lawyer, the video in his hand could not provide him with strong help in fighting for custody. But after watching the video, my heart is completely dead.
I originally thought that the first love affair was just a trap designed by others, and the prey who walked into the circle step by step had no chance of winning.
Day after day, you are thinking about who loves whom more, but others are calculating every second, how to get more money.
Good feelings can make a person, but bad feelings can destroy a person. Bad feelings not only destroy your trust in your spouse's identity, but also your longing for marriage. The hurt is too deep to be slowed down.
It's not hypocrisy, it's not fragile, it's just that the shattered three views can't be put together.
A fresh, vigorous, and vivid girl's heart slowly grows old, withers, loses vitality, and finally dies in the day-to-day disappointment, suspicion, and disappointment.
I have long been a negative example for my relatives in educating my daughter, "Look at how hard she is!"
In fact, my life died in the year of the car accident. How many people, living is more difficult than dying. "
When Xiner's mother said this, her emotions ranged from desolation to madness to anger, and even to the point of death and cynicism.
At this time, Baby Xin'er was frightened again and burst into tears in Chu Lihua's arms.
¡ª¡ª "I personally think that it's not time for you to be sad, but to calm down completely. Facing the various methods he will use next, actively seek evidence and fight for Xiner's custody. At the same time you You also have to balance your mentality and give Xiner a warm environment to grow up in. You must also find sufficient evidence for the house, which is your personal property."
¡ª¡ª"Yes, I brought Xiner out this time because I want to completely separate myself from that environment. Calm down and think about what I should do next. Otherwise, I will always be dazzled by anger and hatred Mind, I have no room to turn around."
It turns out that travel also has the effect of meditation and healing!
¡ª¡ª"It would be great if you can think and do this. People will inevitably stumble in this life, but you stumble a little bit. But no matter what happens, the most important thing is to stop the loss in time. And it's okay, Now you are still young. Xiner also needs you to cheer up and give him a warm and loving childhood environment."
As a bystander, Chu Lihua was indescribably calm at this moment. But her heart has always been towards Xin Er! She always felt that Xiner was really pitiful.
Chu Lihua is most worried that Xiner's mother's strong sense of inferiority will affect Xiner's growth. So the first thing we need is to let him calm down, get out of that environment, and then mature quickly, so as to give Xiner the best growth environment. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com