Holding the mobile phone, Chu Lihua wanted to find some articles on psychology or persuasion on the Internet to read and study.
By the way, Chu Lihua clicked on Yu'e Bao to take a look.
After Yu Xiaqiu transferred the money into Chu Lihua's Yu'ebao account, Chu Lihua was still worried.
She is afraid that if the money is lost in it, or cannot be withdrawn, will she still have to bear the responsibility at that time.
Therefore, Chu Lihua checked several times almost every day.
One is to ensure that the money is still in the account, and the other is to motivate yourself. Yu Xiaqiu can earn so much money in this company, why can't she make it?
In addition to the fact that her mother ran away from home, Chu Lihua made up her mind that she could no longer borrow money from her parents. After all, the money in the family was actually earned by her father.
Now, the top priority is to persuade my mother to go back. The exact solution is to untie the knot in my mother's heart.
Chu Lihua began to look up information.
How can children improve the relationship between parents?
Hellinger calls children "the savior of the family" because children are born with a tendency to sacrifice themselves in order to balance the relationship between their parents.
"Sacrifice yourself to balance the relationship between your parents? How to sacrifice?"
Chu Lihua became distressed again, besides being the child of her parents, so was her sister Chu Lifang.
Yes, we should unite with my sister.
After all, on my side, the far water cannot save the near fire, and my sister happened to be by my mother's side.
Then can you ask my sister to sacrifice something? Obviously the mother prefers the younger sister. It can be said that it has reached the level of doting.
In the past, it was Chu Lihua who cooked for her sister and helped her with laundry. So my mother also sells fruit outside and bears the burden of supporting the family with my father.
Later, when Chu Lihua went to high school in a boarding system, there was no one to cook and wash her sister's clothes, so her mother immediately returned to the family. Cooking and washing clothes for my sister.
Later, my younger sister went to high school, and even brought home the clothes she had worn every big week, and she would take them back to school after her mother washed them.
Think about the need to learn how to cook and stir-fry when I was only three or four years old. At that time, little Chu Lihua was not as tall as the stove, so she moved a small bench to support it.
Well, let's start with my sister!
There are two types of doting: arranged doting and indulgent doting. Arranging doting parents arrange everything for their children, and the children can get everything without doing it. They don't encourage or even like their children to solve problems by themselves. Permissive and doting parents give their children what they want, no matter how small or unreasonable the request is, they will use all their strength to meet it.
It is obvious that Chu Lihua's mother tends to dote more on her younger sister than the arranged type, and less on the permissive type.
Basically, as long as the mother can help the younger sister with everything, the mother has always done it herself.
Therefore, Chu Lihua felt that her mother's running away from home might have something to do with her sister.
The next day, Chu Lihua sent a message to her younger sister early in the morning, "Apart from the fight between mom and dad, did anything else happen?"
"Are you talking about me? I haven't had a good time with my dormitory classmates recently. They always bully me. My mother talked to them after she came up, and it's much better now."
My sister's message was replied quickly.
Sure enough, Chu Lihua guessed right.
So now that the younger sister's problem has been solved, the mother is still unwilling to go back. How much of it is because of "resentment" against the father, and how much of it is because she is worried about her sister?
Chu Lihua decided to have a good chat with her mother at night. At the same time, Chu Lihua felt that it would be helpful to consult more information.
Narcissistic parents hope to create a perfect child who fully meets their own standards, so they will pour all their love into them.
It turned out that he was not the perfect child in their eyes, so the mother gave all her doting to her younger sister.
Chu Lihua casually read some materials during her lunch break.
By the way, she clicked on Yu'e Bao.
Strange, how could there be a record reminder of a transfer failure?
Chu Lihua was taken aback, and quickly checked the balance, but fortunately there was not much.
Click to open the bill and see that there was a transfer of 3,000 yuan to Zhang Guo after two o'clock last night.
No, you haven't turned around yourself? I don't even know the password.
In an instant, Chu Lihua's heart was completely cold.
from scratchThe icy feeling of the feet swept through the whole body.
Zhang Guo actually came back last night, and while he was asleep, he wanted to transfer the money in his account to himself! ! !
No wonder the ancients said that it is difficult to guard against house thieves by day and night.
Fortunately, the password was set by Yu Xiaqiu.
Everything about Chu Lihua is her birthday, Zhang Guo knows this. This is why he dared to use Chu Lihua's mobile phone to transfer money to himself.
Stealing the money in his own account without even saying a word, and going out again after returning home, creating an illusion that he never came back.
If Zhang Guo's transfer was successful, would he quietly come back every day to do so?
If I didn't have the habit of checking it several times a day, would I have transferred all of Yu Xiaqiu's money without knowing it? ? ?
Thinking of this, Chu Lihua felt that she should tell Yu Xiaqiu that she was not safe here anymore. Don't let yourself bear a "huge" debt just because you are greedy for a small profit.
Also, the matter of Zhang Guo must be resolved as soon as possible.
In the evening, I should have a good talk with Zhang Guo.
Chu Lihua is really in trouble at home and abroad now.
The matter at home has not been resolved yet.
Zhang Guo actually started to think about it again.
Sure enough, once he becomes addicted to gambling, everything else is not important to him.
What's ridiculous is that Zhang Guo once said that he did this to help him raise money, but he didn't expect him to secretly transfer the money in his account.
After get off work, Chu Lihua went to Dr. Zhao's Association for treatment as usual.
Today, there were not many people in the clubhouse, so Chu Lihua asked herself if she would have dinner tonight.
The last fainting was probably caused by low blood sugar in the body.
"Doctor Zhao, I want to ask if there will be any side effects on my body if I don't eat dinner every night? It's not because I don't trust you, but because I fainted two days ago."
Chu Lihua felt that when she just said the first sentence, the hands on her back obviously paused. So, she hastened to explain.
"Actually, any reaction during the treatment is a good sign. If you are too hungry, you can eat some fruit at night. It should be cooked, and you can also add some vegetables. But, You can¡¯t eat the staple food without rice. You¡¯ve already had a good reaction, so you must persevere.¡±
Dr. Zhao said slowly and methodically. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com