Si Wenniang said: "Yes, what can I do? For the sake of the child, no matter how hard and tired we are, we can only rush forward! We can't ruin the child's life for the sake of the past few years! Although they are not up to date, But after all, it is the flesh that fell from their own bodies. If they are inferior to others in knowledge and suffer more than others in the future, they will definitely hate us! We owe them, and this life should be regarded as repaying the debt!"
Xiao Chuchu stood by and listened quietly. From the woman's attire, she analyzed that neither of them lied. They must be from poor families. For the sake of their children, they had to pay more than others. Although they all hated their children for being incompetent and disobedient, they still loved them.
Xiao Chuchu said to them: "Hello, two aunts, may I ask a question? From your description just now, you have put this family into it for the sake of your child's studies. I mean, If there are some accidents in your family, and the family income is temporarily interrupted or greatly reduced, what will you do?" After hearing this sentence, Shui Xiuniang and Siwenniang stared at Xiao Chuchu fiercely, and Siwenniang said: "Little girl, can you speak? Do you ever talk like this? Why don't you wish for others' good, but curse others for their misfortune?"
Xiao Chuchu said: "Auntie, I didn't mean anything malicious. I was really moved after hearing your words just now. In your hearts, the child is your sky, your land, and everything you have! You all I think, for the sake of your children, everything should be done and worth it, right? But have you ever thought that you not only have one child, you also have other children, if your financial ability is limited, then you will You have to think carefully about the distribution of property. If you spend all your savings on the children in the front, the children in the back may be better than their older brothers and sisters, but at that time you have no ability. What should you do if you train them again?"
After listening to Xiao Chuchu's words, the two women fell silent. They must have thought about this question, but they have not found the answer. Siwen Niang said: "Girl, do you mean to tell us, like I Siwen, She didn't get into a public school, so I won't let her continue her studies and give up her studies, is that what you mean?" Shui Xiuniang also said: "We can't do such a thing that ruins the child's future, girl We have also analyzed and considered the questions you just raised, and to be honest with you, we have not come to a conclusion! Because we don¡¯t know what to do! We can only say this, when we are able, we will do our best The greatest ability, when we really have no ability, is their life! As long as we do our best, we will have no regrets!"
Si Wenniang also nodded, and said: "Yes, I think so too. After all, Si Wen's younger brother, I don't know how his academic performance will be in the future. It may be better than his sister, or it may be worse. Everything is uncertain. , then let¡¯s talk about the cultivation that has already been determined. In the future, we really don¡¯t have the ability. We still have a house and a field at home, so what¡¯s the problem if we sell them all? Unfortunately, we don't want our pain to continue to our next generation!"
Xiao Chuchu said: "This is the greatness of modern parents, I applaud you! Okay, then I have another question, if your children are admitted to the prefecture No. 3 middle school, how do you plan to teach them? Should they study full-time or work-study?" Shui Xiuniang said: "What does full-time mean, and what does part-time study mean? Do you think this is a university? This is a high school! I heard that high school The study task is heavier than that of the university! They don¡¯t have enough study time a day, so why do they have a part-time work-study? Little girl, I think you are a little weird, do you want to sell something to me? Woolen cloth?"
Xiao Chuchu said: "Auntie, I won't sell anything to you, I'm just an ordinary college student. I'm from experience, I can tell you, in fact, you really have some misunderstandings about study. Do you think high school Is learning filled out by a sea of ??questions? Is it possible to grow by stuffing yourself into schoolbags, textbooks, and various exams every day? No! In fact, I think that as long as After mastering the learning method, many things can get twice the result with half the effort. The key point is to let them have an urgent desire to learn. How to cultivate this kind of psychology in them? It¡¯s just that they don¡¯t have enough time. For example, if you let them read a This book, if I give them a day, they may only read thirty or forty pages an hour. If I only give them half a day, they will read eighty pages an hour , ninety pages or more. The same is true for other studies. When one has aWhen growing vegetables, he may choose carefully and leave those things he doesn't like to eat. If there is only one dish on the table, even if it is not to his liking, he has no choice but to eat it, are you right? So for learning, let them all feel that they don't have enough time, so they must exercise their learning skills and let them master good learning methods so that they can learn more in a shorter time. This is the first aspect. "
Si Wenniang and Shui Xiuniang looked at each other, and they both nodded in unison. Xiao Chuchu said: "The second aspect is to consider the problem from your point of view. When they are on vacation or after school, you have to find some things for them to do, such as doing some manual work, etc. etc. Let them create some income for themselves, and let them understand that their parents¡¯ money is hard-won, and every penny and dime is hard work, so that they cherish what they have now. Especially It is winter vacation and summer vacation, and it is possible to let them work part-time. On the one hand, it can make them feel that learning is a kind of enjoyment, and they must use the fragmented time to study more effectively and efficiently. Some income, reduce family expenses, and set a good example for his younger brothers and sisters. A lot of knowledge is like this. If he relies on external force to fill in, the effect will not be as good as what he absorbs. Of course, This is just my suggestion, you can think about it." (Remember the website URL: www.hlnovel.com