When Ji Youqing said this conclusion, Tang Yu's eyes dodged.
Even, he subconsciously refuted. "I don't, I don't like it at all."
Ji Youqing ignored his feeble rebuttal, "There is a struggle in your eyes, it's not a sign of dislike. Why?"
Ji Youqing's eyes became sharper, "Why do you obviously like doing business, but you keep avoiding it?"
"" Tang Yu was left speechless when asked.
Ji Youqing's question made his throat burn like fire. He wanted to argue for himself, but he couldn't say anything.
"When you were blaming your parents for doing everything they could to force you to start a business, did you ever think that what they care more about is making you face yourself bravely and recognize yourself?" Ji Youqing asked continuously.
Tang Yu's face paled suddenly, "I"
He could only utter the word "I" with difficulty, but he couldn't say anything more.
Ji Youqing's tone was a little calmer, "I don't know the specific situation of your family, but from your personality analysis, you must have a very good and harmonious family environment. Your parents are role models for you. Always give you positive guidance. Generally speaking, children who grow up in such a family are either very confident and will be the most dazzling existence in the crowd, or they are not confident because their parents have too much aura and feel that they are not as good as Your parents are excellent. However, you don't look unconfident, so I'm very surprised, what are you afraid of?"
Tang Yu's disguise for many years finally shattered like a burst of glass under Ji Youqing's straightforward words.
yes! What do you not like?
It's nothing more than fear.
Tang Yu felt that he was afraid, but he never shied away from it.
"That's different! A company is different from an individual. Even if I fail, it's my own business. But running a company bears the livelihood of thousands of people. Once I make a wrong decision, it may ruin the entire The company, everyone fell into the abyss together, this responsibility is too heavy, and it weighs me down." Tang Yu tried to defend himself.
"So, you are actually afraid of failure." Ji Youqing summed it up for him directly.
"I'm not!" Tang Yu denied with some excitement.
However, under Ji Youqing's gaze, he calmed down and explained, "I am not afraid of failure, but the company is not an individual."
"You have never failed since you were a child, right?" Ji Youqing said suddenly.
Tang Yu was startled, and finally nodded.
Ji Youqing seems to understand a little bit, why Tang Yu obviously likes to do business, but is so resistant to accept it. "Let's put aside what your parents did first. Of course, we must be sure of one thing, that is, cheating is wrong."
For a moment, Tang Yu seemed to become Ji Youqing's mentor.
Tang Yu also nodded in a daze, wondering if it was because Ji Youqing stood on the united front with him, the emotion in his eyes actually showed grievance.
That pitiful appearance made Ji Youqing feel a little itchy, like a cat or dog waiting for its owner to comfort him, wanting to scratch his hair.
She cleared her throat, forcing the feeling down.
"However, putting this behavior aside, let's think about it, why did they do this? First, you have to answer me a question."
"What?" Tang Yu looked a little dazed at this moment.
Ji Youqing rubbed her fingers, resisted the urge to rua again, and said professionally: "If you really don't like doing business, do you think your parents will still force you like this?"
Tang Yu was stunned by this question.
Because the answer is on the lips.
No, of course not!
From childhood to adulthood, his parents respected any of his hobbies and choices.
If he really has no interest in doing business at all, then his parents will definitely support his choice.
"It seems that the answer is already in your heart." Ji Youqing observed the changes in his expression and came to a conclusion.
"" Tang Yu was silent, asking himself that he couldn't refute Ji Youqing's words.
Ji Youqing continued: "Let's think about it again, their starting point is to force you to accept things you like but resist, right?"
Tang Yu frowned.
Ji Youqing said: "It seems that you have heard that there are many contradictions in this sentence. Why do you obviously like it, but resist? How many people can put themselvesHas your hobby turned into a career? And fight for it all your life? "
Tang Yu suddenly sighed, and said, "You're right. Since I was a child, I've been able to do everything smoothly. Because of my wealthy family, it's easy for me to get what I want, and it's easy to learn what I want. I like to try something, and my parents are very supportive. Even if I passed the novelty and didn¡¯t want to continue, they never said anything. From childhood to adulthood, it seems that I have lived in the praise of others. In the eyes of others, It seems that I know everything, can do everything? But, I don¡¯t know when, this kind of praise has formed an invisible pressure in my heart.¡±
"It's like, as long as I make a move, it must be successful. This is the normal situation. If I make a mistake or fail, it is abnormal and shouldn't be."
Ji Youqing suddenly felt that Tang Yu was a little pitiful.
This kind of pressure on him was given to him by others, and it was also given to him by himself.
"So, I dare not touch the company's decision-making at all. I am worried, what if I am wrong? I can go bankrupt, but what about those employees? They may be living on their wages. This responsibility is too great .¡± After Tang Yu finished speaking, she looked a little tired.
"You can think that I am cowardly, or that I have not taken responsibility. But as long as I don't do it, at least I won't fail, right?" Tang Yu looked at Ji Youqing, as if he wanted to get a positive answer from her.
However, Ji Youqing shook his head slowly, "If you don't do some things, someone else will do it. You don't believe in your own ability, but you bet everything you worry about on others? Could it be that others must be Right? You will never fail? In the final analysis, what you are most afraid of is hearing the words, "Look, Tang Yu can be wrong and fail too." Right? You are afraid of the halo on your head Get stained, never shine again, and you're afraid you'll fall from the altar."
The fig leaf on her body was mercilessly torn up by Ji Youqing.
Tang Yu didn't become angry from embarrassment, but laughed instead.
It's just that there is endless bitterness hidden in the laughter.
After laughing, Tang Yu asked Ji Youqing, "Do you think I'm bad?"
"Why do you think you are bad?" Ji Youqing asked back.
"You're right. I'm just such a vain person who is afraid of failure and falling off the altar. I don't take responsibility. Is it rare for such a person to be bad?" Tang Yu said. (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com