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Chapter 40

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    Is Wen Xiuxiu's mother a villain?

    She may be selfish, or she may have such and such small problems.

    However, it cannot be said that she does not love children.

    It can only be said that in today's era, in today's society, she used the wrong way to love and educate her children.

    On the computer, Ji Youqing recorded her experience in Wen Xiuxiu's incident.

    The deepest memory is that when she told Wen's mother that her words and deeds were the culprits that eventually led to Wen Xiuxiu's desperation, Wen's mother was shocked.

    One of the words that Wenmu kept repeating was, 'How is it possible?  We've all been there, I just don't want her to be bad.  '

    How to judge the line of "good and bad" in the process of children's growth?

    Can educating children with such extreme words and deeds prevent them from becoming bad?

    The biggest mistake of Wen's mother is that after Wen Xiuxiu encountered such an experience, as a mother, she not only failed to comfort and repair the child's psychological trauma, but instead continued to stimulate her, deepening and increasing her psychological trauma.

    [Actually, parents are the best counselors for underage children.  The comfort from parents will bring great and irreplaceable comfort to psychologically traumatized children.  But at the same time, parents are also the most likely to be¡­ the culprits of their children¡¯s trauma!  ]

    Type '!  ¡¯, Ji Youqing¡¯s fingertips trembled slightly.

    In her mind, flashing pictures appeared one after another.  The picture is very messy, there are quarrels, insults, and crying for help The bottom of the eyes is like ink, like an abyss.

    Knock knock!

    The knock on the door shattered the picture in Ji Youqing's mind and disappeared.  She closed her eyes, and when she opened them again, her eyes had returned to calm.

    Looking up from the computer, Ji Youqing looked at the door.

    "Teacher Ji." Outside the door, there were two people standing.

    Ji Youqing stood up and walked towards them.  "Teacher Zhou, student Wen, please come in."

    The people who came were Teacher Zhou and Wen Xiuxiu.

    Wen Xiuxiu's spirit is better than when she was in the hospital, but she is still silent.

    However, when following Teacher Zhou in, Ji Youqing felt that Wen Xiuxiu secretly glanced at him.

    Ji Youqing's eyes signaled Teacher Zhou to wait outside for a while, and then brought Wen Xiuxiu into the psychological counseling room inside.

    The consultation rooms are warmly furnished with relaxing colors and decor.

    In one corner, there is a sand table.  On the shelf behind the sand table, there are more various models.

    "Today, shall we play the sand table game again?" Ji Youqing brought Wen Xiuxiu to the sand table and sat down.

    Wen Xiuxiu nodded and did not refuse.

    After arranging Wen Xiuxiu, Ji Youqing quietly left the consulting room without disturbing her.

    Outside, Teacher Zhou is still waiting.

    Seeing Ji Youqing coming out, she stood up from the sofa and asked silently, "How is it?"

    Ji Youqing nodded, and walked out of the office with Mr. Zhou.

    "I asked her to continue the sand table therapy." Ji Youqing said to Teacher Zhou as soon as she came out.

    Last time, after Ji Youqing's explanation, Mr. Zhou also had some understanding of sand table therapy.  She nodded in agreement, "This is a good way. Although Wen Xiuxiu came to school today, she still didn't speak."

    "How is she doing at school today?" Ji Youqing asked.

    Teacher Zhou said in a low voice: "According to what you said, I told the students in the class not to show any strange emotions to Wen Xiuxiu, and not to ask her anything. What she was like before is what she is now. Wen Xiuxiu  It's the same silence as before, but I still feel a little different."

    "What's the difference?"

    Teacher Zhou thought for a while and described: "That is, although Wen Xiuxiu was silent in the past, she was like a tight rubber band, which seemed to break if she tried harder. Now she has to relax a bit."

    "This is the result of a certain degree of venting of inner emotions." Ji Youqing said.

    Teacher Zhou hurriedly asked, "Does this mean she is well?"

    Ji Youqing said with a smile: "There is still a long way to go. However, this is a good sign." The extreme behaviors taken before, as well as the subsequent crying and sand table therapy, are all a kind of catharsis for Wen Xiuxiu  .

    Her problem has not been solved, but because part of the sealed cloth bag has been emptied, there will be a process of re-accumulation.

    As long as the root problem is solved before the battery is full, then theXiuxiu will no longer do extreme things, and she will be able to return to normal, like her peers, bathing in the sun and enjoying their unique youth.

    "Well, anyway, I don't understand these things. I'll leave it to you, child. In short, if you need to cooperate, you can just tell me." Teacher Zhou smiled at Ji Youqing.

    Ji Youqing nodded heavily, "Don't worry, she is also my student."

    Teacher Zhou left first.

    Before leaving, she said that after Wen Xiuxiu was finished, she would ask Ji Youqing to inform her that she would take Wen Xiuxiu to the school gate and hand it over to Wen's mother.

    What needs to be mentioned is that Wen Xiuxiu's mother quit her job and is currently taking care of Wen Xiuxiu wholeheartedly.

    Another suggestion Ji Youqing gave her was that if the economic situation allowed, she hoped that their family would move out of that living environment.

    Such an environment is not suitable for Wen Xiuxiu's psychological recovery.

    After seeing off Teacher Zhou, Ji Youqing returned to the office.

    Instead of going into the consultation room to disturb Wen Xiuxiu, she returned to her desk and continued preparing lessons.

    Psychology teachers also have to teach.

    Especially this Wen Xiuxiu incident made the school very vigilant.  When the principal praised her before, he also proposed to strengthen the students' psychological counseling courses. He hoped that Ji Youqing's class could relieve the students' psychological pressure to a certain extent and avoid similar incidents from happening again.

    Even, at the staff meeting, the principal strictly prohibited the main course teacher from occupying the psychology class arbitrarily

    After almost the time, Ji Youqing entered the consulting room.

    Wen Xiuxiu's sand table model has been set up, but she herself is sitting quietly, as if she has never moved.

    Ji Youqing walked up to her and sat down, his eyes fell on the sand table first.

    However, with just one glance, Ji Youqing looked away, looked at Wen Xiuxiu and said, "Xiuxiu, do you want to chat with me today?"

    Wen Xiuxiu's eyes moved, but she didn't speak.

    Ji Youqing was not surprised. She turned her eyes, looked at the sand table and said, "This time the sand table seems to be a little different than the last time. Compared with the last time, there seem to be more colors. Isn't that right?"

    Wen Xiuxiu hesitated for a moment, then nodded stiffly.

    The corners of Ji Youqing's mouth curled up slowly.

    At least, this time, Wen Xiuxiu did not refuse to communicate, but tried to respond to her.

    Perhaps, after trying again and again, Wen Xiuxiu will be able to get out of her broken world and return to the sunshine.  (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com
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