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Xiaopang's family took out 200,000 dowry gifts and bought a house in Hucheng, which is already the limit.
Qingcheng, where the two of them work, is in a similar area, with a square meter of more than 10,000 points.
Even if the two of them bought a house of fifty or sixty square meters, it would cost five or six hundred thousand.
Although it is possible to get a loan, the down payment is not a small amount, and the economic pressure is instantly revealed.
Qing Huan is also a well-informed and reasonable girl. Knowing that Xiaopang's family conditions are not good, she said that don't worry about the house first, let's talk about a stable job, and just rent a house first.
When things got to this point, Nanxiang didn't know what to do next, and when he heard the news again, it was Xiaopang who said they had broken up.
"My parents said that they wanted us to get married this year, and they discussed selling the house in Hucheng, and then went to Qingcheng to pay the down payment for both of us." Xiaopang said in a low voice.
"The house in Hucheng is sold, where will my uncle and aunt live?" My cousin frowned.
Xiaopang smiled wryly: "Yeah, the house sold me, what should my parents do? I can't, I'm getting married, so I sucked up my parents, right?"
Listening to this, Nanxiang also sighed in his heart. The fifth uncle and the fifth aunt have been working in other places for these years, and the house in the countryside of their hometown has been idle for many years, and there is no way to live in it.
Today, the house in Hucheng is going to be sold, which means that the old couple have no place to live when they return to their hometown for the New Year.
There is also a way. The old man comes back to live with them in Qingcheng during the Chinese New Year, but is Qing Huan willing? Are the old couple willing again?
After a pause, Xiaopang said again: "Qing Huan said, parents go out to work a lot, and they can't stay at home for a few days. It's good to live with us during the Chinese New Year.
However, I don't want my parents to sell the house in Hucheng.
Hucheng is close to our hometown village, and it takes more than an hour to go back.
But if I go to Qingcheng with me, it will take a long time to go back to the village.
Parents, Qing Huan and I live in the city, and it is so uncomfortable not to be able to visit relatives during Chinese New Year.
Also, my parents are getting older, I can't let them work outside all the time, can I?
If I buy my house in Qingcheng, I will have to repay the mortgage every month in the future, and the expenses will be even greater.
Parents will inevitably still have to go out and work all the time, so when will they be able to buy another house?
It is said that we can live in Qingcheng all the time, but we can't afford too big a house in Qingcheng.
Fifty or sixty square meters, that is, five or six hundred thousand, my parents, Qing Huan and I, as well as the future children, will be squeezed together for many years.
In that case, what's the point of my marriage? "
Xiaopang was a little excited, took the water in Mingming's hand, took a sip and said: "This is not the life I want, I can't let my parents suffer because I want to get married, right?
I also tried to discuss with Qing Huan to see if she could consider working in Hucheng.
At the same time, my work in Qingcheng was not going well, and my salary was not as high as in Hucheng.
It just so happened that there was a project in Hucheng, and I needed to go back and stare at it.
Just when I was short of money, I agreed without even thinking about it.
When I told Qing Huan about this, she was very angry.
She said that all she wanted was our future, but I just lied to her, convinced her that she liked me, and asked her to compromise.
Shein fact, she was also wronged for me, but I couldn't offer a better solution"
Xiaopang pursed his lips again: "There is nothing wrong with Qing Huan's desire for a stable life.
There is nothing wrong with parents wanting to hug their grandchildren.
So what is wrong?
Before we got married, Qing Huan and I had a pretty good life as a child, and my parents had a comfortable life.
But why did everything change once I got married? "
Xiaopang's voice just fell, and there was a long silence around him. Because no one can give him the answer.
Can it be said that Qing Huan asked for too much dowry? cannot.
The betrothal gift is originally a folk custom, something you love and I wish.
It takes courage for a girl to decide to marry.
And she also made it clear that this money will be used to build your future family in the future.
A woman needs some security, and the bride price may be the security she can hold in her hands.
Many people don't understand what the protection is. After two people get married, they will live together. Why do girls need protection?
In fact, it is not.
Only married girls need more protectionbarrier.
Because once married, the girl will face the role of wife and mother.
For example, if you enter a dirty room, everyone will subconsciously feel that the hostess is not clean.
This is the pressure that society puts on women to do housework.
How many people, unable to bear the pressure, carry the burden of housework on their shoulders?
This is just a little bit, and the vast majority of girls will give up their jobs after pregnancy.
Staying at home day in and day out will inevitably derail society.
Wouldn't he really be annoyed by walking around her husband all day long and asking him for pocket money all day long?
Maybe there will be no problems in a short time, but what about a long time?
Don't men have any complaints in their hearts?
"Why did you run out of money again?"
"I just bought lipstick, why do I want to buy it again? I don't go out to meet people, what do I buy it for?"
"There are so many clothes in the wardrobe, why do you say you have no clothes?"
"Why is the food cold? Today's food is a bit salty, but yesterday's food was weak."
"I'm under a lot of pressure outside, can you stop complaining?"
"I'm very busy, so I'll hang up first."
"Buy, buy, buy, you know how to buy, can I buy it for you?"
Do you hear less of these words in your life?
How many women choose to suffer silently.
Didn't this, the man who was critical of her all day long, promise to hold her like a jewel in his hand?
What men say is true, it is true to love you, and it is true to dislike you.
In the final analysis, no one recognizes the value women create in marriage.
We praised a man: "Brother works really hard, a promotion and a salary increase are just around the corner."
We praise women: "My sister is good at housework and cooking, she is really a good wife and mother."
People don't care at all, this good wife and good mother also graduated from a prestigious university, and when she goes out to work, her salary will not be worse than that of a man.
Facing such a current situation, are you really willing to ask all the girls not to accept bride price?
In this society, we can accept that some people get married without dowry.
But you have to accept the same, some people want a bride price when they get married.
It was not wrong for Qing Huan to do so.
Moreover, she said that the money was used to build their two future families. Her own parents also took a dowry of 100,000 yuan, hoping that the young couple would get better.
Qing Huan is right, so, is it Xiaopang's fault?
Where did he go wrong?
The fault is that you are not capable enough to let your daughter-in-law and parents suffer such grievances?
However, he obviously just entered the society not long ago. He was also a child with immature shoulders. How could he bear such a heavy burden? (Remember the site URL: www.hlnovel.com - Didn't finish reading? Add this book to your favoritesI'm a member and bookmarked this chapterCopy the address of this book and recommend it to your friends for pointsChapter error? Click here to report
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