Ren Yin put herself into this setting: "I don't think I can do well, I can't give him the family affection and education he needs."
Friend: "No one is born to be a parent, you can learn slowly."
Ren Yin: "But I'm afraid that if I learn too slowly, it will be too late."
If she wants to give her children, she wants to give her the best.
If you can't be a parent?
For parents, the main reason is that education has failed, and they can have another one.
However, the failure of family education may lead to personality defects in children throughout their lives.
Moreover, having a child is sometimes like having a husband. It is not a safety, but a danger.
Speaking of my husband
I haven't found a good marriage partner, see you in the septic tank.
That kind of relationship of sharing the same bed, and then when you are sleeping??, the person who seems to be the closest becomes a murderer
The kind of horror that makes the scalp tingle
If you have to guard against such close people, then life is too tiring.
Friend: "I read the recent news, and suddenly I dare not get married."
Originally, the marriage they were looking forward to was a sweet love, and then the two people supported each other, shared responsibilities, and grew up together
In TV dramas and novels, the kind of love that can transcend life and death is often eulogized
This kind of love often makes them envious.
but¡¡
It is rare and precious because ordinary people can't reach it, so they sing praises.
But we are ordinary people, if we want to lose our lives because of a love marriage.
Friend: "Then I choose not to, I'll stay single."
Ren Yin switched to persuading her friend: "Everything has risks."
Friend: "But this is life! The risk is too great. Although it is a small probability event, once someone encounters it, it is 100%."
The key point is that those who lost their lives for love in the TV series did so voluntarily.
And if it is thrown into a septic tank
They were forced to lose their lives, not voluntarily.
There is a world of difference between coercion and voluntary.
Friend: "Also, let me tell you. I don't want children anymore."
In the past, she thought children were so cute.
However, children from relatives came to her house and messed with all the cosmetics and clothes in her house
There is rubbish everywhere
Relatives also said that she went to college and asked to help tutor homework for elementary school students!
Her mother also didn't even ask her opinion and was blown out of her vanity, so she took it She took it
Homework is the outbreak of all contradictions!
Let me learn all kinds of evasions, dictation and all kinds of cheating, and I am confident when she finds out
Friend is extremely tired: "If you want to die early, I suggest raising a child."
The children of other people's families will always go away anyway, and the children of our own family can only be sent to cram schools and interest classes
She has no way to guarantee that her child will not be a bear child in the future!
Friend: "So, in order to protect the sanitation of the environment, I'd better not have children."
Otherwise, if you can't educate your children well, you will be creating rubbish for the society
Ren Yin: "Then you won't get married either?"
Friend: "I'm DINK! DINK! I don't want to learn from you."
Ren Yin: Uh I didn't ask you to learn from me.
Everyone has their own ideas, isn't it normal?
Friend: "Forget it, I'm afraid I will continue to dream of sweet love after I evolve into a septic tank. Anyway, this one will get dark circles under the eyes at most after watching dramas and chasing novels."
Since you choose someone to fall in love with and marry him, you choose certain risks and rewards.
Everything has risks.
And knowing this risk and being able to bear this risk, the person you marry must be brave and not reckless.
Ren Yin is not completely avoiding risks, but
She didn't have the idea of ??finding someone very urgently and then falling in love and getting married.
Sharing a bed with a stranger you don't like, and then doing intimate things like lovers
I am missing love myself, and then?Be full of love for your children